Yahya

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This my friend has been dating this girl for almost two years now. My guy was loyal and saving all his income to marry her. He barely talked to any other lady. Guess what? His supposed girlfriend is getting married next week of to someone she met last month on this app. Har yanzu mun kasa gane kansa😭💔

People rush in because they’re lonely, attracted, or afraid of missing out. They ignore red flags, avoid hard conversations, and build relationships on vibes instead of real understanding. Then when real life shows up, responsibilities, pressure, growth, everything starts to fall apart because there was no solid foundation to begin with. When your man doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you about his feelings and would rather go outside to open up to his boys, there’s a problem. And it goes both ways, if a woman can’t talk to you about her life, her struggles, her thoughts, and would rather share all of that with her friends, that’s a huge problem too. Love isn’t just how someone makes you feel in the moment. It’s how safe you both feel being real with each other, and how well you handle reality together.

As a doctor, I’ve seen men who genuinely love and care for their wives during sickness. Men who stay by their side, who cry at the thought of losing them. I’ve also seen men who genuinely hate their wives and don’t care if they die, because they believe they can simply remarry. I’ve seen men abandon their pregnant wives at the hospital and go about their day with no remorse. In the end, it’s her family that shows up. And in all this, I’ve seen women go back to these same men who failed them in their time of need.Often because they feel they have no other option. Financial dependence plays a huge role, among other factors. All I’m saying is: women should choose themselves first before choosing any man. Some men think they can replace you the moment you become “inconvenient.” Focus on your career. Build your own stability. Grow as a woman and see how your choices change. And if you choose marriage, choose a kind man,one who won’t leave you in difficult times. And when you do find a good man, treat him well,they’re rare nowadays.

Malam ana aure a arewa, mu da ke asibiti muna ganin abubuwa Kala Kala. Akwai his hisabi qiyama wallahi, amma maza Sai mun ji tsoron Allah cikin lamarin matayenmu. In kanada diya mace ka tabbatar tana da ilimi da neman nata na kanta kafin ka aurar da ita.