Cletus Abaka
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No Circumstances Justifies You Giving A Man Money — Media Personality Mide Oni Warns Women
Media personality Mide Oni has advised women against giving money to men under any circumstance.
Speaking during a session on The Mide Show, Mide Oni said women should stop financially supporting men, insisting that men should work for their own money instead of depending on women they are dating.
“Please women stop giving men money. There is no circumstance that justifies even giving a man one pea. If a man asks you for money, say me Mide Oni told you there’s no circumstance that will justify me giving you one pea.”
She further added addressing the men, “Go and work cause your mates are working. Do they have two heads? Don’t come to ask me for money.”
Reacting to people who believe relationships should involve financial support from both partners, she said:
“And you know, when I said this before, there’ll be men in the comments that say, but why should I not be able to ask the women that I’m dating for money? Is it not give and take? Is it not a relationship? Should we not be able to help each other? Sorry, damsel. Sorry, damsel in distress.”
She further urges men should focus on working hard like others around them rather than relying on women for financial assistance.

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@ArcSadam She suppose dey transfer her money to oga self since na him be the head
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My husband earns around 800k every month. Out of that, he gives me 200k for feeding and running the house, 60k for the children’s school needs, and another 100k for light bills, medicine, and little unexpected expenses. In total, about 360k comes into the home monthly, while he keeps the rest.
Recently, I became curious about our finances and asked him how much he had saved over the years, but he avoided the conversation. Later, I checked and discovered he had about 14M saved. Honestly, after more than three years of work and all the sacrifices we’ve made as a family, I expected it to be much more.
What confused me most is that my husband is not someone who spends recklessly. He eats at home most of the time, only buys lunch occasionally at work, and aside from helping family members once in a while and paying the children’s school fees, there’s nothing extravagant he does.
When I asked him calmly to explain how the savings were only 14M, the conversation turned into an argument. Instead of answering me, he started bringing up my own salary and asking whether he had ever questioned the money in my account. Since then, the house has been tense and silent.
This morning, he even said if I’m unhappy, I’m free to leave the marriage because he will never discuss his money with me.
Now I’m honestly confused. Is it wrong for a wife to want transparency about the future of her family? Or did I overstep boundaries by checking his account and questioning his savings?

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@ArcSadam You're very m*d, oga no ever ask you how u dey spend your money ooo.
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@FelixFrank23 @CletusAbaka @OfficialJay401 @eagleseyeinc Rich man abeg credit me 20k make I use guide
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i locked 194m and i’m getting 106k daily, since its 0.0548% per day on piggyvest, for you to get that 100k daily you need to lock approx 182m

BIG DUKE@DukeDarls
How much will I lock in piggyvest that will give me N100k daily???
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@CletusAbaka @OfficialJay401 @eagleseyeinc @Jake0147xx No worry when u get rich like me
You’ll understand
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@_falsi1ke Everyone wants to give advice in decision making, but no one cares about the outcome. No one will save you.
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Bro to bro: How do I calculate the number of bags of cement in a particular volume of concrete?
Most standard concrete mix used is 1:2:4
If I have a floor
Length = 5000mm
Width = 6000mm
Thickness of concrete = 200mm
First, I'll convert to meter by dividing by 1000. E g.
5000mm = 5000/1000 = 5m
Step 2: calculate the volume of concrete
volume = 5 x 6 x 0.2 = 6cum.
In 1 cum of concrete 1:2:4, we have 6 bags of cement
For 6cum = 6 x 6 bags = 36 bags of cement.
1 bag of 50kg Cement is N12,500.00
36bags = 36 x 12,500
= N 450,000.00
Who's in class?
If the thickness of the concrete is 250mm
How many bags of cement will be required?



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@Wisdom_HQ "The work shouldn't be divided. A believer should match the actions of an atheist while maintaining their prayer, just as an atheist might adopt the mindset of a believer."
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🔁 𝗥𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝘁
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🔔 𝗧𝘂𝗿𝗻 𝗼𝗻 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀
⏰ 𝗗𝗿𝗼𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝟭 𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗸𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗼𝗳𝗳!
𝗡𝗼𝘁𝗲 👉🏽 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗶𝗱𝗻’𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗱

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@BSAT_Properties All I see is a brilliant business idea for anyone with the capital.
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Why can't the 1004 Apartments building in Lagos be replicated in major cities across the country to address the housing deficit?
The 1004 Housing Estate in Victoria Island Lagos, was built in the 1970s as a residential complex for federal legislators. It is now under private management and private renters live there.
Building something like this in major cities across the country would drastically reduce the housing deficit and help regulate rent for people.
Someone told me he is paying ₦1.5 million for a one bedroom flat and has little to no space. In fact, you could be bathing and stretch your hand to check your rice on fire in the kitchen.
Our leaders should stop sharing rice and consider solving real problems for citizens.
© Martin Beck Nworah

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@kenkenlewu That's how your husband wants you to feel, be, and behave around him(like his baby), but Must women are too stubborn
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I want to cry ooo😭😭😭😭 once you born girl for your husband you have entered one chance 😭😭😭🙆🙆🙆
Mehn! My daughter and I was comfortably seated on the bed when hubby came in and said " my baby"
Me: thinking I'm the baby looked towards his direction😭😭😭😭..Thank God I no open mouth answer I for dey mud Dee roll now
The next thing I saw was hubby going straight to his daughter as if that wasn't enough,he carried her and they both left me😭😭😭
She couldn't resist my own husband 😭😭😭she happily followed him😭😭😭They both left me like I wasn't there😭😭😭
Had it been I'm still breastfeeding her now I would have showed her what a woman's anger can do but it's unfortunate the breast has dried up
To even think that the girl his calling"My baby can't do anything for herself 😫😫🤣🤣.. somebody that will be sleeping and somersaulting is that one a baby material
I don't want to hear" you are jealous ooo cause which kind thing be this😭😭😭
Somebody should tell me sorry before I go leave this house for them
©Opene Adaeze

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