Jens Curty

I am strong enough to share this. It happend on the last surgery I had till this day. I was 15 years old at this time. It seems as it was a rather easy surgery on my right arm. So I only had to spend 3 days in the hospital. But it looks like easy doesn't suit me. Because on this easy surgery There were complications. I had troubles with my heart. It was so much they had to use the defibrillator on me. Luckily that worked for the rest of the surgery. As usual after the surgery. They would take me to the wake up room. On the way towards it I already gained my consciousness back. But the narcosis was still too strong for me. So I could only open my eyes a little bit. (like we all faked it as children when your mom checked on you if you were already sleeping) That was the hardest thing I ever did because I had to use so much willpower for it to happen. So yeah there I was in the bed on the way to the wake up room: On my left side the doctor on the right side my mom who already came over. And ther was me conscious in a body I couldn't move even a little. I was TRAPPED inside my own body!! I couldn't talk! I couldn't move! I only could see a little bit. But I was conscious at this moment like I am now. Then it happend. I freaked out over the fact that I was trapped in my on body and got a panic attack. And this panic attack let me to my NDE. My near death experience. Let me tell you about it. I had an out of body experience. I left my body. My soul was still tied to my body who was lying in the hospital bed. But I could float around in the wake up room. I saw what happend. I saw how my mom paniced over what happend to her son. I saw the nurses stressing out. Both called for the doctor who was about to leave the room. I could feel the tension and the fear in the room. But for myself I felt free, light and without any worries. I observed what happend with curiosity. When the doctor came back to side of my bed and several nurses gathered around my physical body... My experience ended. I woke up in the bed with a lot of machines around me. And with several cable things on my chest to measure my heart rhythm and everything else. I could move my body again! I could talk again. I could see again. But I was also confused about what happened. It took my several years to realize it.... What I had experienced wasn't normal. But I only truly knew it when I took all my courage and asked my mom about what happened on this day. It hit her hard that her boy experienced something like that. Because she cried when I told her about it. And I was right about everything! To this day I can remember everything that happened while I experienced it. When I think of about it I immediatly feel as if I experienced it once again. I feel free, light and without any worries. Which in the end makes me always smile. This experience definitely had and still has a big impact on what I want to achieve in my life. And I truly think this is kind of a sign that I meant for something bigger. Because with the trouble I had on this surgery I could also have died. I will never forget about this and therefore my gratefulness for being here - alive - is immense.

@YourPrimePath I see the word "done" in this phrase not as fully finished as you could always work on it further. As an example would be a podcast: You will not record every episode you will ever make and then start to share it.

RULE NUMBER 1: Never tell anyone anything before it’s done. Never...

@danmartell New means unknown Unknown means risky Risky is not safe And not being safe or sure about something is what we never get taught.

Your next level requires a new version of you. New beliefs. New habits. New standards. Most people refuse to let go of who they've been to become who they need to be. That's the only thing actually standing between you and the next level.

@thedankoe Such habits and even one of it will also change the pace of your day. Those habits feel like they are going to give you time back you thought you did not have.

Habits so simple you think they’re not worth doing, but have a profound impact on your life: - Not touching your phone when you wake up - Not thinking about work after work is done - Putting a book down once you find an idea worth thinking about - Setting aside time to do nothing for 10 minutes a day - Going on a short walk after each meal - Eating a meal without a screen in front of you - Saying "I don't know" instead of pretending you do - Asking "What if this isn't actually a problem?" before trying to solve it - Letting yourself be bad at something instead of expecting perfection - Trying to understand something you disagree with instead of looking for flaws - Defaulting to "no" until you think through the commitment

When everyone is rushed Slowing down your day, like not doomscrolling every free minute Feels like a cheat code.

@YourPrimePath Thats why you need to train your focus. Otherwise you will jump from trend to trend and never trully lock in.

The fastest way to attract what’s meant for you is to express yourself so honestly that everything misaligned falls away on its own.

@LeilaHormozi Thats why only the tough times can trully sharpen your mind.

You don't build confidence by winning every time. You build it by surviving the times you lose.

@stijnnoorman Nothing is easy That's why you need to choose the hard that is fun for you.

It's hard to be an entrepreneur. It's hard to be an employee. Choose your hard.

@danmartell If you do that it says a lot about how much you love/appreciate yourself in comparison to others.

Quitting a job is OK. Moving on is OK. Struggling is OK. What's NOT okay is staying somewhere you're not valued and appreciated.

It is never a bad thing to start over. The lessons will still follow you towards your new path.

@stijnnoorman Prime example of different roads work as well. You can always bounce back, come back stronger when the lesson finally hits.

I quit X. After 3 months. Because I couldn't grow. Then I restarted 6 months later. And today, I'm at 60,000+ followers. Don't be like me. Keep going.

@AlexHormozi Without working you end up in tutorial hell. Without learing you end up asking what a computer is.

You can't just have high work ethic, you need high "learn ethic." Work ethic is often being able to do the same thing over and over again without getting bored. Learn ethic is being able to try a new thing over and over again without getting frustrated. You need both to win.

@Codie_Sanchez These days it needs a bit more out of the box thinking in combination with being able to grow.

You eventually start to realize, no job is safe.

@thedankoe Without enough focus you will do one thing today and another thing tomorrow. And that feels more like running from one lesson to another as it is in the school.

Focus is becoming the rarest skill on the planet. Talent, intelligence, marketing, prompting, vibe coding, and whatever else doesn't matter as much as being able to channel your attention for an extended period of time into one useful thing that you want to see in the world.

@thedankoe Seeing it more and more that they leave the longer it takes.

Competition is largely an illusion. 95% of people don't even try to do great things. 0.1% of the people are loud, so you overestimate how many people there are. The rest get stuck worrying about competition and quitting after 2 weeks.

@lachlay Appreciate it 🫶 Looking back it definitely isn't the healthiest option because such a shift needs time. Oh good to hear you overcame such experience too. Much love to you 💙

@CurtyJens Absolutely insane story. It's crazy how from one experience, your view of life and the world shifts radically, 180 degrees?? I had that as well and ever since that day, I count my blessings for each day I am alive

I am strong enough to share this. It happend on the last surgery I had till this day. I was 15 years old at this time. It seems as it was a rather easy surgery on my right arm. So I only had to spend 3 days in the hospital. But it looks like easy doesn't suit me. Because on this easy surgery There were complications. I had troubles with my heart. It was so much they had to use the defibrillator on me. Luckily that worked for the rest of the surgery. As usual after the surgery. They would take me to the wake up room. On the way towards it I already gained my consciousness back. But the narcosis was still too strong for me. So I could only open my eyes a little bit. (like we all faked it as children when your mom checked on you if you were already sleeping) That was the hardest thing I ever did because I had to use so much willpower for it to happen. So yeah there I was in the bed on the way to the wake up room: On my left side the doctor on the right side my mom who already came over. And ther was me conscious in a body I couldn't move even a little. I was TRAPPED inside my own body!! I couldn't talk! I couldn't move! I only could see a little bit. But I was conscious at this moment like I am now. Then it happend. I freaked out over the fact that I was trapped in my on body and got a panic attack. And this panic attack let me to my NDE. My near death experience. Let me tell you about it. I had an out of body experience. I left my body. My soul was still tied to my body who was lying in the hospital bed. But I could float around in the wake up room. I saw what happend. I saw how my mom paniced over what happend to her son. I saw the nurses stressing out. Both called for the doctor who was about to leave the room. I could feel the tension and the fear in the room. But for myself I felt free, light and without any worries. I observed what happend with curiosity. When the doctor came back to side of my bed and several nurses gathered around my physical body... My experience ended. I woke up in the bed with a lot of machines around me. And with several cable things on my chest to measure my heart rhythm and everything else. I could move my body again! I could talk again. I could see again. But I was also confused about what happened. It took my several years to realize it.... What I had experienced wasn't normal. But I only truly knew it when I took all my courage and asked my mom about what happened on this day. It hit her hard that her boy experienced something like that. Because she cried when I told her about it. And I was right about everything! To this day I can remember everything that happened while I experienced it. When I think of about it I immediatly feel as if I experienced it once again. I feel free, light and without any worries. Which in the end makes me always smile. This experience definitely had and still has a big impact on what I want to achieve in my life. And I truly think this is kind of a sign that I meant for something bigger. Because with the trouble I had on this surgery I could also have died. I will never forget about this and therefore my gratefulness for being here - alive - is immense.

Change of scenery is a power move. When you are far away from your habits and routines. You get like a clean sheet, an unwritten piece of paper and you can write on it without needing to look for space. The words you write in your mind are where the magic begins.

@ItsKieranDrew Exactly you can't explain about a book without reading it first.

If you want to be a teacher, do something worth teaching first.

@joshsilentmode If you don't communicate

what is the fastest way to ruin a relationship?

@matt_gray_ Its also the only way.

The easiest way to fail is to give up.

@thedankoe It's like a spark that is visible for only one second. Always write it down.

If you hesitate on an idea it dies and will almost never be found again.