
Becoming Ilyas.
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Becoming Ilyas.
@Dearilias
Writer | Perspective I help ideas land with clarity.


Frank Edoho is a narcissist. Many of us thinks he called Chike, to leave his wife, because he was a “mumu” no. He called because, of his ego, its control, same control he tried over the wife without treating her like a human. He called thinking Chike will hear his voice and run from the woman, out of fear and respect. While he continues to treat the wife at home, like a piece of shiit. Men do better!! So that if the woman turns out to be farm tool, we go fit gather condemn her!






But wait a minute… All these years, cheating was all sweet and fun to men. Men enjoyed it and even defended it like their lives depended on it and it is their birth right to cheat. They don’t care how their wives feel, don’t care if it hurts them. Some men even cheat on their wives by sleeping with another man’s wife… Now suddenly, the women being cheated on say they’ll start cheating back too or are already cheating, and it’s like a war has been declared. So cheating can be this painful 😂 that men are busy crying all over social media. It’s a curse and a taboo when a single guy sleep with a married woman, but it’s very ok when a single girl sleeps with a married man… Una never begin cry 😂 GP tank won’t be able to hold all of your tears.

They are bloody hypocrites who can’t take the same hurt as they do to their wives, for years the society and religious bodies supported a man’s cheating and make excuses for them. If a man cheats and his wife complains, they will tell her to pray for him that he would change, they will tell her maybe she’s not giving him peace that’s why he had do seek peace in another woman’s body, they will tell her all nonsense to make sure she stays but immediately the woman respond by cheating back all hell would be broke loose on her. So for years men banked on this and now women are reciprocating the energy of them,you cheat me, i cheat back on you.













The older I grow, the more life stops looking linear to me and starts looking like one endless human cycle repeating itself through different generations.



