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@Deethevan
God First | Football | Mufc Die Hard | Music Addict | L&D | Performance Management | E-Learning Content Creator | Plantain Maniac. Co-founder @thecaveafricax
Katılım Aralık 2024
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@Deethevan The deeper you love someone, the easier it is to hate them when you’re consistent hurt by them. It’s a very thin line.
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Quick thought yeah:
How do people go from loving each other deeply, courting, proposing, saying “I do” with so much joy and happiness, building a home, having children, planning forever together to becoming people who can’t even stand each other?
How does love deteriorate to the point where private pain becomes public consumption?
Dragging each other online, entertaining strangers, and allowing random people who know nothing about the relationship/union cast judgments and insults on lives that were once deeply intertwined.
This is honestly one of the most terrifying things about human relationships……how something that once felt so safe can eventually become so hostile like Game of Thrones. 😮💨
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@LoFunmilayo @SegunOdewande @Literatus_V @Blaq_Tosin @sammy_sweett @PatienceAbu11 Oka what? Dey play 😅
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@Deethevan @SegunOdewande @Literatus_V @Blaq_Tosin @sammy_sweett @PatienceAbu11 Ahhhh
Damilare oti te oka niru mo le mehnnn
Now let the game begin
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@Deethevan @Literatus_V @Blaq_Tosin @LoFunmilayo @sammy_sweett @PatienceAbu11
Which River flows through Uganda???
Dem say “Kampala”😂😂😂😂
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@LoFunmilayo @SegunOdewande @Literatus_V @Blaq_Tosin @sammy_sweett @PatienceAbu11 If you get 7 questions correctly out of 10, I’ll give you 50k 🫵🫵🫵
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@SegunOdewande @Deethevan @Literatus_V @Blaq_Tosin @sammy_sweett @PatienceAbu11 This time around, you people will see me in action 😌
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@Deethevan Hunger Dey town my brother…
A hungry man is an angry man. 😂😂
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Ewo ninu yin lo break heart elegbon agba Mr Segzy??? Talk now 🫵🫵🫵
Oluwasegun Odewande@SegunOdewande
I’ve been twice bitten, thrice shy… I don’t want to know what it feels like to be thrice bitten, four times shy. So, please let’s be mature enough to: - Communicate effectively - Apologize when at fault - Appreciate gift & opportunities - Choose each other, always 🙇🏽♂️🥺❤️💡💯🙏🏾
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@SegunOdewande @Literatus_V @Blaq_Tosin @LoFunmilayo @sammy_sweett @PatienceAbu11 Oh, we will do it, make everybody go work on their presentation first for Aaron’s idea. 😅
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@Deethevan Lami i was this close to beating the living daylight out of a VIO
My gosh
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Love that is not nurtured intentionally will wither. Love is a decision to stay with the person forever. That will require you to look for and devise ways to love that person forever. You have to continually choose the person and see them as the best there is
Łämi-Ďarë@Deethevan
Quick thought yeah: How do people go from loving each other deeply, courting, proposing, saying “I do” with so much joy and happiness, building a home, having children, planning forever together to becoming people who can’t even stand each other? How does love deteriorate to the point where private pain becomes public consumption? Dragging each other online, entertaining strangers, and allowing random people who know nothing about the relationship/union cast judgments and insults on lives that were once deeply intertwined. This is honestly one of the most terrifying things about human relationships……how something that once felt so safe can eventually become so hostile like Game of Thrones. 😮💨
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@Deethevan @lekefreeman Nigerians are exhausted
We can't continue like this.
We can't beat a cheating system by hard work alone.
We need a revolution to happen because these beasts are turning this thing to a family affair already. May our future not be robbed by a father today and his child tomorrow
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Woke up with a heavy heart today. Stayed on my bed for over an hour just thinking deeply about how much life has changed in such a short time.
There was a time my leave allowance could comfortably sort my yearly rent, and I’d still have enough left to buy a few clothes, footwear, maybe even a jacket.
Now? The same money barely sorts anything substantial. The most painful part is watching the quality of life in this country decline so aggressively while people slowly normalize struggle like this is how life is supposed to be.
A lot of Nigerians are exhausted, financially stretched, and silently grieving the lives they used to be able to afford.
Agree or not, APC already ruined the country, set us in a poverty journey at a fast track pace and they are demanding another 4 years.
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Oh, please hear me out. And I honestly hope people read this.
Feelings are in themselves fickle. They change. It’s why commitment cannot be anchored on feelings. It MUST be anchored on principles—shared principles.
When we talk about “Love” as it pertains to a relationship, it’s not a feeling. It cannot be a feeling. It HAS to be a deep sense of commitment, guided by principles. This is because it’s not every time you will be “happy” with your partner. It’s not everytime your relationship will be rosy cos life has different challenges. Arguments happen, misunderstandings happen (by the way, infidelity and abuse are
NOT misunderstandings! Let me clear that one!).
Hence, what keeps the sacredness of that commitment in moments of arguments, quarrels and displeasure are the principles guiding that commitment and how strictly they are adhered to.
People can go from lovebirds to arch-enemies when principles of trust, consideration, mutual respect, communication and fidelity are broken.
Emotions don’t keep commitment. Disciplined adherence to principles do.
In fact, in divorce conversations, you will hear people still say “I care for her/him but I know I cannot continue the relationship”.
Principles keep commitment, not emotions.
Łämi-Ďarë@Deethevan
Quick thought yeah: How do people go from loving each other deeply, courting, proposing, saying “I do” with so much joy and happiness, building a home, having children, planning forever together to becoming people who can’t even stand each other? How does love deteriorate to the point where private pain becomes public consumption? Dragging each other online, entertaining strangers, and allowing random people who know nothing about the relationship/union cast judgments and insults on lives that were once deeply intertwined. This is honestly one of the most terrifying things about human relationships……how something that once felt so safe can eventually become so hostile like Game of Thrones. 😮💨
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