D E R A 🪼✨

Folks think I be playing about paying an unblocking/re-entry fee😂😭. If I’ve cut you out my life already. You will literally have to pay me to even consider letting you back in my life. Idc how long it’s been.

Let’s bring back having these conversations in person!

how to apologize to me:

sorry, I only like men who kiss my ass literally & figuratively.

I miss her so fucking much

Nobody actually loves you like your grandma from your momma side, the realest and purest love.

@Richkhid132 God

Be honest Who was with you when you sounded like this:

Green flag: A man changing his ways in order to keep you. That’s real love.

@Nira_O351 Personally… the left. I’ve had both.. rose make it too quick. I like a build up

As someone with no experience, which one should i go for? This. Or. That?

Healing from a breakup without jumping into a rebound or staying constantly distracted is a rare kind of strength. Choosing to sit with the pain instead of running from it is real growth. Facing the emptiness alone is hard, but that’s what truly changes you.

You don’t .. you accept and respect his honesty and allow yourself to attract what you really want and deserve .

When they can’t replace the way you made them feel. When they can’t replace the power in your presence. When they can’t replace the love in your eyes. When they can’t replace the healing in your love.

Once you start to recognize a pattern. There’s only so many times a person can apologize and actually be forgiven.

Money first, questions later.

Sometimes as a woman, you have to be honest with yourself and admit, “I’m not loved here. I’m not appreciated. I’m not valued. I’m not seen.” And when you finally see it clearly… you don’t argue, you don’t beg, you don’t chase. You walk away, and you stay away.

YOU FAILED AS A MAN when the woman who once looked at you with love now remembers you as a lesson she had to heal from

It’s really wild how I can go from damn near worshipping a person, seeing the world with them. To not even wanting to speak their name or acknowledge their presence… Two sides of the same coin.

overplayed my part so much ion even wanna play a part nomo

always judge a man by the urgency he moves with when it comes to you

Preventable measures. Never let that happen again.

As a Pisces AND a hopeless romantic. I strongly disliked the parts of me that kept hoping a person would/could change for the better. Which turned into me giving more chances than deserved. Nothing but experience and continuous disappointment, has freed me from that pattern.