#STOPVICTIMBLAMING #RudoMelloKapezi

So guys, I'm trying to raise funds for lil Miss Stellia Mlangeni. Stellia is 19yrs old and comes from Chapananga in Chikhwawa District and happens to be an alumni of St Mary's Girls Secondary school (where I was 😝). Miss Stellia scored 15points in her MSCE & was selected to KCN

@kaymartin_iv @pimkie1145 You get used to not feeling like your normal self for 9 months so much that it becomes your new normal. Then once the baby is born you remember once again how normal actually feels ayi ndithu

@Dimpled_Candy @pimkie1145 Koma tivomereze, mimba ija ndi pakati pa moyo nfi imfa ndithu... eeeh

Koma kutenga mimba kuzafika pobereka sizibwana. Eti ati zimatha kufika poti mano kumangogwamo mkamwa okha???

@pimkie1145 @kaymartin_iv This was me during pregnancy. No teeth fell off but the rest happened. I had my fair share of the dental problems..ayi thanks

@kaymartin_iv My friend's going thru that right now. From 3 months sickness 1st trimester, 2 teeth gone, 3 more abooka, ma gums kumangotupa. Worst part, no extraction, just panado mpaka azabeleke. We really downplay/underestimate pregnancy, especially once mwana wabadwa. But it's not easy

One thing I can tell you, man believe in yourself. Don’t let people on the internet make you feel less. I remember in 2023 I was a topic on this platform, with people schooling me on how to run my own company, calling me names and making accusations. Two years later, we’re the leading payment gateway in Malawi, processing billions in transactions every month, with two offices in Lilongwe and Blantyre, over 40 people employed, and trusted by big companies 🙌🏽

@Akir_a997 Nah, it'd drive me crazy

GIRL TO GIRL… be honest…. If you could stay home, raise babies, and run a cozy homemaker life… would you?

@odedanilo I guess Jesus

Who is allowed to show up at your house unannounced?

Divorce rates are high in this generation for just one reason, women today have stopped normalising physical and mental abuse post marriage. In past cheating, emotional trauma and abandonment weren’t considered a thing but now these are unacceptable. Other factors are secondary.

@sheillah43013 @Brightmbughi030 @KhivaIV Conditioned by the society. Also, my personal opinion, they're both responsible, the way you put it it's like only one party should be held accountable when they both should

@Dimpled_Candy @Brightmbughi030 @KhivaIV Chifukwa timaona ngat our lives revolve around men and timaona ngat samalakwa amunawo

heard that the girl found dead at the lodge last night was allegedly killed by MG1👀

@nchls_b @_okime This was exactly how my husband and I felt when we first met. Issa happily ever after

And then it gets scarier when you’re both interested in each other

@leko__shoba You lot are smoking chowawa🤣🤣🤣🤣

As a wife, never forget that your mother-in-law is more important than your own mother.

@sheillah43013 @Brightmbughi030 @KhivaIV I guarantee you this, only one out 10 married women think about this when they hear their man is cheating. It's up to the MG2 to be ready for anything at this point

@Brightmbughi030 @KhivaIV Komano why can't you blame the man who proposed kwa mkazi wina even though he is married?mkaziyo ndongololatu its the man who was supposed to respect his marriage

@dsmaldp @pinehusk @JamesAFurey He is GOOD!

@pinehusk @JamesAFurey By Clive Staples Lewis usually known as CS Lewis. Many many excellent books by this man!

It is with some personal surprise that, after 30 years as an atheist, I’ve come to say: I believe in one God, the Father almighty, maker of heaven and earth, of all things visible and invisible. I believe in one Lord Jesus Christ, the Only Begotten Son of God, born of the Father before all ages. … I believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life, who proceeds from the Father and the Son

@KeruboSk This is me everyday. You get used I guess

Are there women who leave the house completely barefaced? With no makeup at all. Just embracing their natural look. Curious...What’s that like for you?

@niy2pretty What do you mean???

Some people are mean and bitter because they had a rough childhood. Some people are kind and caring for the same reason.

this should be fun

I don’t think you all truly understand the potential impact of anal sex. The anal sphincter isn’t designed the same way as the vagina it doesn’t have the same elasticity or recovery function. Repeated strain can weaken it over time, which in some cases may lead to issues like reduced control or leakage. This isn’t about fear-mongering, it’s about awareness. People are putting their bodies at risk, often just to meet expectations or please a partner, without fully understanding the possible consequences. At the very least, decisions like this should come from being informed not pressured.

@ryne_ai Hard work coupled with prayer

What's a "cheat code" you discovered in real life that actually works 🤔

As a woman, you should be more afraid of being poor than unmarried 😩😩