April Doin

@SubstCreature @stacycay Happily, but men need to stay out of the women’s room. Protecting the integrity of women’s single sex spaces is my only concern. Otherwise I don’t care how anyone lives their life or identifies. I’m respectful right up to the women’s room door.

@DoinApril @stacycay You’re either woefully ill-informed, or just acting in bad faith. Nobody gives a shit what you do with your life; get your nose out of others’ lives. How bout that.

They’ll tell you it’ll ruin your life, and then they’ll try to do everything they possibly can to make it ruin your life. They’ll try to change the law, they’ll threaten you, and they’ll tell everyone you’re a criminal. But they can’t stop you from being her.

@Ih8hockey @luxemiaa Yeah I have no doubt and ironically he only reinforced that I made the right decision to opt out of the dating scene

@DoinApril @luxemiaa Sigh. I would not doubt that he feels entitled at a lot of things.

This woman said: Ladies, it finally happened. I just had a mansplaining so epic it will never be topped. I just had a man ask me why I chose to be a widow. I said "I'm sorry, but that's not something you choose." He said "You just need to open your heart and let someone love you instead of choosing to stay a widow". I said "What do you think widow means exactly?" This man said "A widow is when a woman gives up on dating and stays alone for the rest of her life." I said "That is not what that means". HE SAID...

@miausalot_69 @stacycay Women are perfectly safe in the women’s room, so I’m not sure. I understand your point. Of course, I care about violence, male aggression, and violence is the entire reason women have sex segregated spaces.

@DoinApril @stacycay so you dont care about violence/ect otherwise you would want trans men (women in your eyes) to use the womens restroom. Ur a shitty person, I hope you experience something real that makes you stop and think. Have the day you make

@Ih8hockey @luxemiaa 🤣 I had someone tell me recently I was selfish for opting out of dating. Selfish? Sir it’s only selfish if you feel entitled to my attention somehow lol

@luxemiaa To be fair I am sure a lot of women tell him they have given up on dating when he asks.

@amandawinnlee @luxemiaa That’s insane lol

@luxemiaa I once had a guy mansplain what "crowning" meant as I was holding my newborn son in my arms.

@ehvrmony @luxemiaa It’s pure correctile dysfunction

@luxemiaa The way he doubled down instead of just… learning?? like sir, you’re not mansplaining anymore, you’re world-building.

@KingZahyd @luxemiaa The dictionary definition being that her husband died? Yeah I can see her being stuck on that 🙄

@luxemiaa To be fair, he’s probably talking about the mindset of a widow. He’s trying to encourage her to move on and she’s just stuck on the dictionary definition. Men look at the solution, women look at the problem.

@miausalot_69 @stacycay I want men to use the men’s room. If other men are being abusive, that’s an issue that men need to solve. Women are not a shield for feminized men. Trans men are women. I care less about which they choose, the outsized risk is from men, not women.

@DoinApril @stacycay So you want trans men to use the mens room? even tho this increases their likelihood of being sexually or physically assaulted?

@DarkDeviDani @stacycay You’re entitled to your preference, but that doesn’t dictate reality. Bathrooms are sex segregated spaces, not identity segregated. I use the restroom that aligns with my sex, not how I feel on the inside and not based on what I wore today.

@DoinApril @stacycay I'm personally fine with her presence but not yours, yes. That's my personal preferece, my consent, I'm not consenting on anyone's behalf but my own

@SubstCreature @stacycay No, womanhood is not something you declare and then it is reality. Like I said men can dress in women’s clothes all they want but stay out of the women’s room. It’s so simple. I don’t understand why there’s so much difficulty with this.

@DoinApril @stacycay She IS a woman, weirdo. Maybe you should consider sitting it out when the grown-ups are talking.

@DarkDeviDani @stacycay You said you’re fine with a man in women’s spaces. Good for you. I’m not and you can’t consent on my behalf.

@DoinApril @stacycay When did I say I was?

@allonsonimo @stacycay Being who you want and violating someone else’s protected spaces aren’t the same thing. Identify as you wish, dress however, you want. Wear makeup, whatever but respect women’s boundaries.

@DoinApril @stacycay It’s so weird how you say “be whoever you want” and then proceed to not actually feel that way at all.

@Brandon41483279 @alsdkekshasdhj @stacycay I’m never surprised at the audacity of entitled men, but seeing sentiment in this issue shift gives me hope. This ideology pushed too far and is being corrected in real time. So hopeful is how I feel.

@DoinApril @alsdkekshasdhj @stacycay there's a 160k trans women in Texas ignoring your rule and the law.. How does that make you feel?

@Brandon41483279 @allonsonimo @stacycay Unsurprised. Men have been violating women’s boundaries forever and the entitlement they seem to feel is also not new.

@DoinApril @allonsonimo @stacycay LOL yeah lot's of states have bathroom laws.. that are totally being ignored.. How does that make you feel?

@DarkDeviDani @stacycay You don’t get to consent on behalf of other women.

@DoinApril @stacycay I'm fine with her in women's spaces. You on the other hand? I don't consent.

@alsdkekshasdhj @stacycay No, it would not be weirder. Men belong in the men’s room. Men who have castrated themselves are still men. Men who have feminized their appearance are still men. Men who wear makeup are still men. Men who wear dresses are still men.

@DoinApril @stacycay Ok but it would be weirder if "she" came into a man's locker room. I say if her penis is gone use the woman's room.

@z7demexico @stacycay Because women deserve single sex spaces and men are men regardless of how they present. Surgery and makeup do not transform men into women. The insistence on boundary violations is the entire issue for me. Men are not entitled to women’s protected spaces

@DoinApril @stacycay I mean, if she has female body parts and as long as she doesn't arrase anyone, why should't she?

@allonsonimo @stacycay I’m telling men to stay out. All men regardless of how they identify.

@DoinApril @stacycay Telling a woman to stay out of women’s only spaces is weird 👎

@Sscben @HoneyBeanDreams @alluringskull Exactly. Everyone deserves dignity but not at the expense of women’s safety and hard fought right to safe spaces.

@DoinApril @HoneyBeanDreams @alluringskull People can identify however they want. But the rest of the world doesn’t have to play along with their fantasy.

This is why trans day of visibility exists. This is why pride is necessary. This is why we continue to celebrate our existence and fight. This is what you’re conveniently ignoring when you ask “what rights are you fighting for” The right to exist. The right to dignity. The right to be seen.