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@libriscent or he will blame you for everything. fragile immature incompetent men do all of these. they create their own misery. if you want to get what you seek in life, you need to look at your behavior and adapt and optimize so you get it.

@nottydesignss I agree. She truly tried, and she can walk away knowing that. It feels like too many people treat relationships like an ego game that they are terrified to be seen as the “loser” of. So they can’t relate to putting your all in without fear.

responsible for their horrendous actions. You are not a fool for trusting in someone who played in your face. It’s much easier to place the blame on yourself rather than the person who actually did the harm.

I hope Megan and women like her never be ashamed that they decided to love someone so hard, even if they didn’t have the capacity to reciprocate it. It shows more about who you are as a person than what they did to you. You will never be wrong for LOVING someone. You are never

@Solyricon @MarryMagdaLean Men DO NOT want to be kept and it’s sickening that we blame women for that. Even as a married woman I genuinely hate that we champion women for “keeping a man” like that’s the measure of success in society. A real man who appreciates his partner wouldn’t be disloyal

@Queen__ofBeauty @Solyricon Yes and pick me women whose lives revolves around men and relationships and who have been brainwashed to think this way.

Y'all need to understand that cheating is actually a form of abuse cheaters enjoy the psychological and emotional damage they cause

Being labeled "the problem" when you start recognizing abusive dynamics is a common tactic used to avoid accountability and stay in control.

Like a man who cheated on his previous partner will most likely cheat on you because he is a cheater! There needs to be consequences to their bad behavior not women absolving them of said bad behavior by granting them the privilege of a relationship.

I agree but I also need women to not date men who are known to have cheated on their previous partners. We need to stop thinking we are the exception to their bad behavior.

@heavensbvnny Explained many times I would leave if nothing changed. Nothing changed. Trust was broken many times by her. I'd had enough of the manipulation and feeling completely mentally fucked with all the time. It wasn't abrupt. She had many a chance, and fucked up everytime.

@heavensbvnny Don’t build a future with someone you’re not willing to communicate with.

Saying “I love you” and talking about a future with your partner, then abruptly leaving their life, is one of the cruelest things you can do to another human being. And no, your childhood trauma doesn’t justify blindsiding someone who trusted you.

"You text like ChatGPT" I'M SORRY I'M JUST AUTISTIC AND AM TRYING TO BE AS CLEAR AS POSSIBLE

I wish NTs would shut up about the term neurodivergent. 'I don't find it helpful!' Fine, it's not for you.

@SatoSozo @Ariannnyy_ you don’t have to be perfect to condemn cheating. it baffles me the amount of men defending klay or other shitty ppl as if they’re abt to get fked next is beyond me.

@Ariannnyy_ Exactly! Plus: People who cheat lack empathy, which means they are truly incapable of loving anyone.

@Ariannnyy_ the fact that they willingly do something that puts their partner under extreme emotional duress. that has to be a form abuse, emotional terrorism like you CHOSE to cheat on her like you KNEW what you were doing