Lipstick On The Edge

@Nakayiza_ Men and pick me women will be here crying in this comment section lol , not sure how a woman’s decision not to have children affects their ‘beautiful’ lives.

Childfree people especially women will be loud about our decision to be childfree. We're not going anywhere! 😁

@lilyally98 Exactly and I will say it again and again, marriage, a legalised institution , where even a poor man can get a free maid, a cleaner and a sex doll, all for free btw. No wonder men are obsessed with marriages.

This is why males love marriage. They do not have to hold up their end of the deal=Provide. Even when they fail to hold up their end, they still get a maid, therapist, prostitute and surrogate. Even the poorest men can get all the above for free.

@Nakayiza_ They can’t believe women have control of their own bodies and they can decide to be child free, how they wish those ‘right’ to be taken away from women,

There are multiple women pushing babies every minute in this country but 2 women being in the papers for being childfree is too much for y'all? Grow up!

@TDeisine Problem is women believing that marriage is an achievement , and if a woman is not married she lacks something that a married woman has. Anyway , unshackle yourself ladies from this mentality

Believing that marriage is a reward for good behavior is the only reason you are angry that the girl you called wayward is getting married and you are silently wishing the union will fail so that you can use her story as a moral lesson. I just want to tell you that you are a witch

@jiggyjayy2 Haha they will also say no man wants you, call you a whore and a single mother , their fragile ego can’t handle that a woman can say no to them. Why do they feel entitled to women? Sickening

A nigga who you would never even touch and thinks you are supposed to be offended by him saying he would never marry you 🤡 this what being a woman on the internet is like

Control darling , they want women to be held up by kids and marriage so that they don’t go after their dreams, they have no freedom, they can’t do what they want, it pains them , that a woman has a choice in this big 2026. They hate women with freedom, women with money , happy women, they love oppressed women

I need to understand something. If a woman says she doesn’t want children. Then you insult her, what’s the purpose of the insult? To change her mind and have kids? And if you love children so much, why do you want them to be in a home where they’re unwanted?

@drveekativhu It won’t be surprising that the only certificate they have to their name is a birth certificate. Jealousy is a decease , how miserable can someone be to spit this kind of venom on young girl’s achievements?Congratulations Dr Vee, we are proud of you.

@hell_line0 A 30 year old woman 🟰to old, run through, expired,old maid, can’t find a husband. A 48 year old man with a receding hairline 🟰in his prime, silver fox, distinguished, young CEO, every girl wants him. This is male logic btw, their delusional is shocking.

She was 14 = “old enough to consent.” He was 22 = “too young for prison.” Patriarchy’s math is not mathing. Women are always old enough and men are never old enough

@MeetIjeoma And why would you think women would bash you ? I hope you didn’t keep the virginity for an imaginary husband as a gift, you refrained from sexual activities because that’s what you wanted and not because of a future husband, women don’t owe men ‘virginity.’

I can get women bashing me for being a virgin at my age, but the men? I'm lost. I thought y'all wanted a virgin, so why insult me for keeping it?😔

If a parent is not willing to take accountability and you probably can’t go no contact with them ,reduce trying to convince them to see your POV, have surface level interactions only, most parents will never change , they are stuck up in their ways and it hurts even more trying to reason with them, know who they are and just live your life.

@TreasonousBabe It’s only in their dreams that single women are sad and lonely lol delusional and projection

Where are these crying single independent financially secure 40 yr women yall keep talking about???

@Misandrist2000 Marriage, a legalised institution where even a poor man can have a maid, a cleaner and a sex doll.

Decentre marriage. I will keep saying it. An institution that was designed to transfer ownership of women from fathers to husbands is not your liberation. Stop shrinking yourself, policing other women, and performing morality for people who will not even remember your name.

@milkyy_tweets Yeah he is top on the list

No baby he’s included

@muheediva01 It’s all about control and policing women’s bodies for them. Controlling another human being makes them feel powerful and superior, only a narcissist and someone with low self esteem behaves and acts this way.

@OAeoleon I would never believe a grown man crying crocodile tears on the internet, even if this woman didn’t come out with her own story, if all the women raising children that were abandoned by men would go cry on microphones, there would be no microphones left.

I judged her fast, loud; convinced I was right; because a grown man was crying. It felt personal; like it could’ve been my brother; so I picked a side without knowing the full story. Then she spoke. And everything shifted. Because I’ve been her. In a relationship where the love lasted one month; and the silence lasted a year. He wouldn’t call me; but he’d call people around me. He wouldn’t answer me; but he’d show up for everyone else. He gave them money; they assumed I was getting more. And I made more enemies while suffering 😊. I was there; but invisible. Loved; but not spoken to. Fighting battles no one could see. So when people ask why she acted the way she did; I understand. Neglect doesn’t look loud; but it destroys quietly. Social media will always side with tears; but tears don’t tell the full story. I’m sorry I judged her too early; but now I know; there’s always another side. Sometimes; the villain is just someone who stayed too long where they were no longer loved. This is my personal story.

Unsurprisingly, last night, I was reminded (yet again) that being a Young, Black and Educated woman is seen as somewhat of a crime or a revolutionary act. For context… I posted this little video online two days ago sharing how excited I am to walk the stage and collect my doctorate degree. According to these replies how dare I want to have multiple degree without having a husband?? How dare I think I can take up space at places like Oxford and Harvard? Or God forbid I earn a PhD degree?? What’s so wrong about me doing that?😭🙆🏾‍♀️ These reactions are still the very reason why I’m sooooo vocal about loving studying and education advocacy as a Black girl - because the world STILLLLLL struggles to accept our capabilities & brilliance. Representation truly MATTERS, and I hope my graduation pictures and videos keep inspiring young girls, especially young Black girls, to own their abilities, passions, and intelligence. I hope there a THOUSAND more Dr’s waiting to walk the stage in the next few years !! I’ll certainly be cheering them on💛✨

If you "don't like" wigs and lashes why approach a woman with a wig and lashes and try to convince her not to wear them?

@katyakayy We are not our mothers or our grandmothers, men forget we sat in the kitchen with our mothers and grandmothers, we saw the pain they endured. We saw everything, men were busy being taught misogyny.