Ed Eubanks
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Ed Eubanks
@EdEubanks
Fellow struggler along the path of life. Unknown bi-vocational small church pastor. 100% tepid takes. He/him/his.
Oakland, TN Katılım Haziran 2009
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I'm in that group of 80s kids who grew up in homes + churches + schools where the word "love" meant two diametrically opposed things
and if you're wondering how that group is doing now that we're in our 40s
I have one event on my calendar today & it is therapy
Trey Ferguson@PastorTrey05
…often??????
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@SunburnedSarah I’m sorry. I hope I never did anything to hurt you, and if I did please tell me so that I can apologize.
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oh, look
it's
my
childhood
trauma
and...🧵
Marissa Franks Burt@MBurtwrites
Many evangelical parenting experts tell parents to expect/cultivate right away-all the way-happy heart compliance. This may “work” when children are small, but I suspect leaves many parents uniquely ill-equipped to hear adult children reclaim their voices & speak honestly. 🧵/11
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@danitreweek So much yuck there. Thank you for this thoughtful and helpful thread and the corrections it provides. I’m grateful for this wisdom for single people and married people, ordained and laity. Everyone needs to read this.
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So, I get that a comment like this is intended to be a genuine & caring “assist” of single Christian women. But I beg you to stop and think for a moment about some of the things it actually communicates to and means for those single Christian women. 🧵
Andy Naselli@AndyNaselli
Kevin DeYoung’s analysis and advice here is spot on—from p. 108 of amazon.com/dp/0802411592/…
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Hey @NBA why is your steaming app so crashy/laggy/inept? I haven’t been able to watch a game all the way through for weeks.
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@andrewhwaller Then there’s that one single congregation in Seoul, Korea, also presbyterian, with 100K members.
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here's a neat one, though: National Presbyterian Church of Mexico? around 3 million members. more than all the American Presbyterian churches *combined*. numbers aren't everything but the scale of American Presbyterianism isn't as large as American Presbyterians sometimes think.
Brian Morris@brmorris
Interesting fact: PCUSA active members - 1,100,000 PCA active members - 300,000 CRC active members - 212,000 OPC active members - 33,000 RPCNA active members - 7,100
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@CAHutch1990 And a big factor is that we cannot control, or even guess, when and how the Holy Spirit may bring conviction on someone in an area in which we may recognize that they desperately need spiritual growth. That’s not our job.
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@mglodorts Nor is the New Covenant explicitly non corporate, either. Despite what Americans may think.
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@JennMGreenberg @dabernathy89 A key concept both in philosophy and theology has been around so long many know it in Latin: “abuse does not negate proper use.”
In fact, this principle is the very basis that many who grumble about all of “those” people “abusing the system” also use to justify gun ownership.
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@dabernathy89 I think he’s just pointing out the disparity. There are people who seem to have a lot yet are on government aid, meanwhile people are starving, living paycheck to paycheck, or even homeless, and getting nothing. There are people who abuse the system.
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So, if you’re a guy, and don’t want to be friends with a woman, that’s fine. I don’t even force friendships on my kids. You’re fine. At least try to actively see them as sisters, not sexual objects.
But if you’re a pastor, you either have to be ok giving pastoral care to women, or train women in leadership to give pastoral care to women. But you can’t just out of your own piety protect yourself from women, and not give them the pastoral care they need. Your job is to love and serve them. How you do that is flexible. But if you don’t have a plan for pastoral care for women, let me know, and I can help brainstorm some ideas.
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@stephanienels Apparently Zaxby’s is offering them free with $5 purchase? (I got a targeted ad for such earlier today.)
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@RFossett If you mean as, say, a part of a session meeting, two questions arise: what part(s) of that gathering rise to the level of public worship? And, is the rest of the congregation both notified and invited to that service of worship?
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@RFossett Communion is intended as part of public worship—which is why the WCF forbids “private masses” etc. My guess is that your presbytery does it in that context as well. If your session is gathering to worship (say, at a retreat) then it seems congruent. | 1 / 2
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@JoshuaLWatson I’m the churches I have served I’ve always invited questions and promised to answer them at the Bible study/fellowship on Wednesday nights. Sometimes this led to quite active and fascinating discussions.
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