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@ElizabethNakiru

Liberal Feminist

Kampala, Uganda Katılım Mayıs 2019
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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@osemagnum I signed for both my C-sections and my husband was right there with me. At no point did anyone in the hospital ask for his consent. Just mine and our babies are here and healthy. What's with Nigerian men feeling entitled to a woman's life?
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Dr. Ose Etiobhio@osemagnum·
no man, pastor, or family member has the right to override a woman's decision for caesarean section. Yes, you are the man of the house... keep it to yourself. Nigerian men need to learn and re-learn. "Ermm, my husband is not here, he says he must come to the hospital before he will allow me do a c/section" Bullshit!
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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
I have signed two consent forms for both my kids' births and at no point did any doctor or nurse ask my husband to sign anywhere. He was present and ready to sign if necessary but consent forms were given to me straight while he was in the room. What's going on with Nigeria???!
Dipo@swag_lukarz

@faythmichael You can’t sign it yourself madam

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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@dimmakilishi What's going on in Nigeria? How come a woman can't sign her own consent form for medical care? Why does it have to be the man? I signed for both my C-sections and my husband didn't have to sign anywhere but he was ready to if there was need. Are your health care providers okay?
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Chidimma Blessing Noblelady
Dear women; If you do not have at least 1M in your personal account please do not get pregnant whether you are married or single. You need to be capable of paying for the worst case scenario health situation if that becomes your reality.
Oluwatobi 🎀@_tobyblush

Husband reportedly refuses to sign the consent form for his wife to give birth through CS, insisting that the doctors & nurses should allow her deliver naturally. He threatens to divorce her if the hospital pushes through with the CS delivery.

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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@aproko_doctor Why are the doctors and nurses waiting for a man's consent when the woman herself is present and going through the pain? You people make it look like women can't consent for their own medical care in Nigeria. What's going on over there?
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Dr. Chinonso Egemba@aproko_doctor·
A woman is in pain and her husband won’t sign the consent form for a Caesarean Section (CS). A woman who is mentally alert and competent can sign her own consent form. We cannot continue to lose mothers and babies because of ignorance.
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Awelewa 😍🥰❤️
This just reminded me of a friend’s experience. She once invited me to a church program. During the service, the pastor called a few of us out and started sharing “visions” about people. When it got to me, he saw nothing and asked me to meet him after the service. My friend and I went to his office afterward, still nothing for me 😄 but suddenly he had a vision for her. Long story short, he told her to get a bottle of water, dropped a church bell inside it, and instructed her to drink it for 7 days so her husband would love her again and their marriage would return to normal. Interestingly, things seemed to improve as soon as she started drinking it. But by the 8th day, the problems came back, this time even worse. Three months later, she left the marriage with her two kids.
King Resilience@kingwizzi_tweet

While I may want to understand and see no reason that it makes no sense her husband left her for another woman. It still £vil for her to engage black magic in restoring her husband back. When the black magic eventually expires as well what will she say or do? She may regret more because it may become worse and she wouldn't be able to recover or put things in place. God should be her priority and not voodoo. Shalom.

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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@chi_quiero So hospitals in Nigeria only take consent from the husband? They don't ask the real patient (pregnant mother) for their consent? It has to be the man who isn't feeling the pain, who isn't carrying the baby? I have read too many stories of Nigerian men refusing CS,what's going on?
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I once went to visit my cousin after she had a baby. There was a woman in the same ward who had just lost her baby. What happened. Exactly what Steph is saying. This woman was in labour and the professionals said it has to be CS, her husband refused. Nothing they said could get him to change his mind until this boy died in his mother's stomach and they still had to cut her open to get a dead baby out. For context, my inlaw works with Shell and this was a staff and family clinic so this man was no illiterate. He allowed his wife carry a baby for 40weeks and suffer labour pains for hours until their child died in her womb!! If you like, don't listen to what Steph is saying and carry your slippers on your head on RUN!!
With all My Love, Stephanie🦋@Stepharny1

I had and ex who once told me and I quote: If we get married and at the point of delivery, the doctor says u can't deliver on ur own and he recommends a Caesarean section, he won't allow the doctor until he hears from God himself. I took to my heels and never looked back ever

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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@Blessyon30 Girl, you are fighting a losing battle. Change strategy, tell him he can't leave the table unless he has at least tasted the food on his plate. You have reinforced his refusing food each time he says no. He now knows when he says no, you will fold. You are the parent here, don't
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Blessyon30@Blessyon30·
MY TWIN OH! 1st day of school I pack fried rice and chicken, it was returned. 2nd day jollof and fish, it was returned. 3rd day plantain and Egg. Same! That day teacher Called. Please ma, what does your son eat at home because he keeps rejecting food? Mind you! He no Dey chop biscuit, caprisun and the rest oh! I told her cereal and Swallow. Teacher said pack am. Now He carries cereal or semo/Garri and draw soup ( ogbono or okro) to school. Then sometimes he eats amala and ewedu at home. This boy is 2+ oh! Doesn’t like rice, noodles, Spaghetti and the rest. I need help oh! Wetin una Dey give picky kids? 😩 Lowkey praying his sister doesn’t get picky like this 🙏🏽
HOT LEGS BIBI🙄@ButterBibi

I’m very sure my son’s school teacher would think I and hubby are broke. Everyday, plantain. Mon-Friday without adding anything to it. If you mistakenly add egg, he will never eat it. Biscuit problem No boiled egg No meat No fish Nothing Parents who have children that don’t eat, please what did you guys do to make them eat before I lose my brain😭

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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@Bunmie_oguns I potty trained my son at 1 year & nine months. It took two straight weeks of no diaper or pants. We wore only the shirts, pointed the potty to him 1000 times a day & told him to pupu & pee in there every single time. We also had the potty in sight. Two weeks later, we were good.
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Abbys_householdmart@Bunmie_oguns·
My people, today I said I want to start potty training my daughter. I have regretted this decision like 1 million times already. Oloriire used wee wee scatter everywhere in this house. The first time she shouted: “Mummy wee wee ooo!” Before God and man, the wee wee had already landed on the floor. 😩 After that one, madam stopped informing me completely. She just dey wee wee like government project wey no get announcement. Sofa side… wee wee. Floor… wee wee. Near the door… another one. At some point I just stood there asking myself, “Is this child training me or am I the one training her?” My people I have surrendered. I don wear her pampers back with immediate effect. Because I cannot come and faint because of somebody’s daughter. Abeg parents in this house, when did potty training finally work for your own children? Because this one nearly finished me today. 😭😂
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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
There's this girl who does so well for herself, she's always flying out, going to cute expensive dinners & having a time of her life. She posts all of it on her status & I religiously view it because it's entertaining. Am I jealous or envious? No. Because I'm content.
Invaluablemoi ♥️ Ayékòótó 🦜@Invaluablemoi

I saw the tweet of the lady who blocked her friend because she was intimidated by her life. 😂😂 She swore she is happy for her, but her life is making her compare hers to her own and she got unnecessarily pressured. So she blocked her. I saw some people saying its good she did that so that envy and jealousy won't set in😂😂 I laughed. Whats that if not envy and jealousy? You blocked someone who didn't offend you because you got intimidated and envious of her success. Which means if its in your power to harm her or disrupt her success, you would do it because you don't want her to do better than you. Her other friends need to run far away from her. She is not a good person. We will not all make it same way. But immediately you are content with the little you have, your life would make more sense and goodness would begin to find you. Immediately someone's success start to intimidated you to the extent of blocking them, then you need to do a self reflection. How many people will you block? The problem is you. Not them. I hope a lot of people would have peace in contentment. We will not all be rich. Make do with what God has put in your hands and don't let anybody intimidate you. Think ill of no one because they are doing better than you. God knows your heart. And we all have different timing in this life. Don't let anyone take away your peace. Be Content with what God has put in your hands.

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Pastor Temiloluwa Ola@ptemiloluwaola·
The wife noticed that once he got back home, he would give her brief answers about his day and carry on casually. However, he would get on a phone call and speak for a long while with another person, sharing details about the day. She ignored it initially, but when it became prevalent, she confronted him one day while on the call. He was talking to another lady whom he was trying to help with a matter. The conversation was already moving from counselling to emotional attachments. It was on a slope. Once confronted, he discovered his error. If you will not fall into the trap of adultery, you must give your spouse a chance to point things out to you. Your spouse is the closest to you. They see what others do not and will not see. They know your tendencies. When they point things out, do not become defensive. Be willing to receive feedback even when it is not comfortable. There is a tendency for genuine acts of care to slide into a state of crisis. Care can become carelessness. Even a beautiful flower, when left to itself, can become a wild one. See their feedback as an act of pruning so that the beauty of your life can emerge and be preserved. It is still part of the principle of naked and not ashamed. The one who can see your nakedness has a critical role to play in your life. Love them and love their counsel. Deal with the pride in your heart. Pull down that stronghold of familiarity. Accept their feedback with joy. Be meek. Thank them and make adjustments. Most people would have survived crisis if they had listened to their spouses. Please listen! When Abraham wanted to continue nurturing Ishmael and Hagar, the Lord said to him, “Listen to your wife”. “But God said to Abraham, “Do not let it be displeasing in your sight because of the lad or because of your bondwoman. Whatever Sarah has said to you, listen to her voice; for in Isaac your seed shall be called.” Genesis 21:12 NKJV That counsel can be all you need today- Listen to your wife. Listen to your husband. *©️ temilOluwa Ola, Eruwa* - > Thank you for receiving God’s Word. Be among the first to receive daily updates here👇🏽👇🏽 > whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va… > - > Discover powerful, practical teachings from Pastor temilOluwa Ola that will transform your walk with God. 👇🏽👇🏽 > t.me/ngccglobal
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Roger Mugabi@MugabiRoger·
Canary you lying bastard. I represented your traumatized wife, as her lawyer, in that custody application and your application was dismissed. Even the magistrate was shocked by the gruesome images of your battered, bleeding wife. Just say chwi and I will, (with her consent) post the images, court order and court pleadings here. Just repent and do better. Don’t try to spin this.
Canary Mugume@CanaryMugume

There’s been an attempt to label me an abuser and an irresponsible father. On being accused of being an abuser:
I normally choose silence, but there are narratives that must be corrected. So allow me say this; I am part of the unreported statistics of men who experience domestic violence from partners with uncontrolled anger issues. But because ‘we are men in a corporate world,’ we stay silent, show up every day. I restrained myself immensely despite all provocations and assaults. But society will, of course, believe the female gender. I have evidence of myself bleeding after being assaulted. All my closest friends, family know this. On being accused of being an irresponsible father:
Despite having only seen my children ONCE in the last ten months, I have never stopped sending money monthly, a figure that wasn’t decided by me, but by my accuser. There is evidence of this: messages saying “thank you” and receipts of the transactions. I have gone to court, fought, and been granted custody of my children, custody that authorities deliberately failed to enforce (that is a story for another day). Custody was granted on grounds of desertion: the mother had deserted them in a locked apartment with a maid while she was traveling overseas. Since January, I have been denied access to my children, despite numerous requests to seem and third parties intervening. To men: speak up against violence from your wives when you still have the chance. I suffered in silence for too long. It didn’t help. This is the last time I am addressing this issue, please give me space to heal.

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Gabriel Buule@GabrielBuule·
My daughter, Namagembe, Go love that man, respect him, be a discerning wife, avoid church women who make God to speak their own ego, protect him (Omukazi owomumwa atama), that man will sometimes annoy you but it is okay, Pray for him and love him. #KingdomMarriages
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Dr. Chinonso Egemba
Dr. Chinonso Egemba@aproko_doctor·
Sometimes, you read a story that makes the blood in your veins run cold. Blessing's baby, Victory, was born premature and diagnosed with hydrocephalus (fluid in the brain), and she needs an urgent ₦1,000,000 surgery to survive. Instead of support, Blessing’s husband called her a witch for having a sick child and threw her and their baby out onto the street. Now, Blessing is alone, fighting for her daughter's life with nothing. Her husband turned his back, but we will not. AprokoNation, let's be the family she needs right now. Let's save Victory. Account Name: Obukohwo Blessing Account Number: 3581115542 Bank: EcoBank If you cannot donate, please, I am begging you, your retweet is a powerful gift. It might be the one that brings the help this mother and child desperately need. God bless you.
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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@PreciousOnibata I remember going to buy a wig and one seller touched my face, neck and face 1000 times in less than a minute, she claimed she was helping me put the wig on my head. I ran away from her shop after telling her she's too touchy.
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TheLiLah@PreciousOnibata·
I met one fine boy here and we met. Less than 10mins into our meeting, the boy said “You’re very touchy o” cos if I wasn’t touching his face, I was touching his hair, his beard, or measuring my 5’2 height against his 6’3. Had to literally clasp my hands together to stop🥹🥹🥹
jonzing.@ehisssss

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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@seyithemie I have little ones and we are yet to replace any TV. My 2 year old knows how to turn on the TV and change channels then sit down and watch cocomelon, chuggington and Angelina the ballerina. When he's tired, he plays with his toys and that's it. No touching the TV.
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HR Sis@seyithemie·
Currently on our third TV this year, courtesy of my son 😩. For the first two, I didn’t stress much because my husband replaced them quickly. But this last one? Baba no gree o, we split the bill 50-50. Guess who’s now guarding the TV with her life? 😭 I am usually big on aesthetics but when they were mounting it, I told the artisan to take it very high. If the house is too quiet, I run to check what’s happening. If I hear any noise, I teleport there immediately. God no go shame us. 😂
Car battery Dealer@thebodjona

I want mad for here.

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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@beewol Ooh I agree with the points listed. I was actually telling someone yesterday that for her to join a party and only three years in, become one of their biggest influence and moneybags needs to be studied and maybe taught to Ugandans. Like what did she do? Am curious
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Beewol@beewol·
@ElizabethNakiru You might be right there. I suppose my assertion that she’s unpredictable is on the basis that a) she’s not among the originals b) she’s not among the traditional NRM power houses c) she’s not from Western Uganda c) she’s not served in the army.
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Beewol@beewol·
One day we shall look back at Mr. 1986’s dictatorship with fondness and a bit of sadness because he’ll no longer be president and we shall be in the hands of a far worse person. They say better the devil you know than the angel you don’t know. Before you hurl insults & block me, first hear me out. Mr. 1986 is hands down the worst president this country has had - by a country mile. Nothing in this country works, there are ridiculous levels of thievery & service delivery is non existent. But we’re about to be hit with a worse individual. Might not be in the immediate future but watch the space! You see, there’s a person who is likely to snatch the title of the most dangerous politician this county has ever encountered. And this person is amassing wealth, power & loyalty at speeds unknown to us before. Ladies & gentlemen, I present AAA. First of her name, Queen of the Parliament & Owner of heavy budgets. Builder of Mansions and most Exquisite Dresser. Bringer of chaos and right hand person to Mr. 1986. This babe is probably 10 times more wicked than the person she calls her mentor. I don’t know if she has ambitions for presidency in the future but I’d not bet against it. If she does have them, I can tell you for a fact that we’re well and truly fucked! And even if she doesn’t, I see her playing a major role in the selection process if not handpicking & controlling the person(s). Mr. 1986 has done many horrible things in Uganda. Many of them can be attributed to his advanced age, good old paranoia, his purely despotic nature & a delusion that no one can lead Uganda other than him, plus he’s an army man - with him, you know what you’re dealing with. AAA on the other hand is just a wicked and unpredictable prospect. If you lift a finger against her, you’re finished! Anything you say or do against her can land you in the hottest of soups - complete with steaming ingredients. Imagine having everyone who tried to stand against her in Bukedea disqualified & deleted from the voters register - including the NRM opponent from the party primaries. In the words of Elijah Kitaka, “This is unusual.” As in not only are they unable to stand against her, they can’t even vote. Basically they’ve been stripped of their Ugandaness. Meaning she’s unopposed. Mr. 1986 would probably allow other people to stand then frustrate them with police battles and rig the hell out of the election. People must see some form of democracy even if it’s a sham. AAA has no time for that. And from what I’m hearing, her power (which is backed by shitloads of money sprinkled with threats & blackmail) runs so deep that several top ministers and NRM stalwarts fear even looking her in the face - she’s that deadly. Anyway, let me go and have breakfast around Parliament Avenue. I hear they have good katogo there.
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God's favorite@ElizabethNakiru·
@beewol Oh I disagree with the part you said she's "wicked and unpredictable". Let me tell you, no one is that unpredictable. Am sure she has patterns, habits and things she does that as humans we all have.
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Beewol@beewol·
@ElizabethNakiru I’m not sure where the disagreement is exactly because I also agree that she is as bold as brass. Do I admire that level of boldness that has a shameless and brazen sprinkling? Not so much. She’s a go getter that’s for sure.
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