Abel Leon

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@RemyTheRedVT @Welshinlondon @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER You've been brainwashed by LGBT propaganda. You're mistaking bisexuals for homosexuals, and you have no evidence to prove that those people are gay but not bisexual. You can't see real homosexuals, so you're wrongly labeling bisexuals as gay.

I agree that attraction to women means you're bi or pansexual. What you and the other person seem to be either intentionally ignoring or just unaware of is that gay men have married straight women they weren't attracted to for centuries due to things like societal pressure, safety, etc, or as part of attempts to deny who and what they are. Google lavender marriages and beards with respect to gay culture and come back to me once you understand what they are and why they exist.

Hot take… be mad if you must. This feels “celebrated,” without regard to the woman he used. 14 years of her life wasted. She matters too.

@RemyTheRedVT @Welshinlondon @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER No, "gay" refers to a man who only engages in sexual activity with other men. You can't let people who are attracted to women call themselves gay.

That's a lot of words for 'I don't have a point but let me be philosophical about it.' He's been gay from the beginning, he just denied it for most of his life because he didn't want to face the stigma from family and loved ones. He's not new for it, it's a story as old as Christianity and its anti-gay religious practices.

@RemyTheRedVT @Welshinlondon @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Being gay doesn't mean you're gay because you identify as gay. We are simply gay.

@EndViterDrom @Welshinlondon @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER You’re erasing one gay man’s identity because you refuse to accept he’s gay. Don’t pretend this is anything other than gay purity testing.

@WhatKatieDid25 @SeekerMakii @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER It's very simple for a man to want to be single. It's not as complicated as you think.

@thepearjoseph The belief that gay men should or can have sex with women is the root of homophobia.

Lots of “gay not queers” abuse “homophobic” to the point it’s become practically meaningless the same way TRAs do with “transphobic.” Let’s save it for cases of legitimate homophobia rather than throw it around whenever you read or hear opinions you don’t like.

@WhatKatieDid25 @SeekerMakii @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Because I'm gay

@EndViterDrom @SeekerMakii @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER If you want to. But why would you do that?

@jagsjackett @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER No, this is called making bisexuals visible.

@PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER There is no bi, only gay.

@Tonyh__23 @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER A bisexual identity as gay ≠ real gay

@PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Actually many do. Because of societal norm pressures. Maybe that contributes to a good woman getting their heartbroken too. I feel for her and for him. Society and religions are to blame for people not feeling like they can be themselves. But yes a gay man can marry a woman.

@judithofleaves @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER still bisexual, queer is hetero having fetishs. Gay not queer

@SmuppetMaster_ @BrianTe76700431 @JEFFVARNER If being gay is punishable by death, then let me die.

@DuncanHenry78 @BrianTe76700431 @JEFFVARNER This is an excellent point actually. But what about back in the day when it was sometimes a death sentence for people to know? Do you think some gay men really were 100% gay but had to LARP het in order to survive?

@jbjupe @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Fourteen years ago, he married a woman to prove he wasn't gay, which is more powerful than any statement.

@PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER He says he’s not bi. His wife is divorcing him.

@Welshinlondon @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER making bisexuals visible. You just erased bisexuals

@PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER 3 of my exes are gay, formerly married and with kids ( + now grown grandkids).

@ThoughtInUrHead @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER No, this is called making bisexuals visible.

@PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER You just erase a lot of gay men's lived history with that statement don't you

@CL_GUY14 @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER That's called bi

@PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Lots of gay guys will marry and pretend to be straight for a long time before they eventually come out. Not saying that’s okay cause it isn’t, in this case he wasted 14 years of that women’s life and that’s disgusting.

@jeritzaicecream @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Since he identifies as queer, he's even less likely to be gay. Queer is a heterosexual person with fetishes. Gay not queer.

@EndViterDrom @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Because 1. Throughout history and in some parts of the world you would be shunned for being gay or even worse. 2. Did you not read what I said? They get with the opposite sex in order to try and deny who they are, hoping that it's just an adolescent phase.

@jeritzaicecream @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER 1. You don't have to tell anyone you're gay. 2. Why deny being gay? I've never denied or disliked myself.

@jeritzaicecream @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER If you're 17 and still don't know what you like, it's too late. I knew when I was seven.

@EndViterDrom @PrestonFayee @JEFFVARNER Ntm this man was literally groomed by an older woman before he could even explore his sexuality fully. He most likely felt trapped in this situation he found himself in which was worsened by the public spotlight

@jeritzaicecream @Hephestion_ @MrPopOfficial Part is not the whole. I meant the whole. You're just assuming that heterosexual men like all women.

@EndViterDrom @Hephestion_ @MrPopOfficial Now you just talking crazy. If heterosexual men aren't attracted to women then that means this man along with every man in the world is gay 💀

Beartooth frontman, Caleb Shomo, has come out as gay after more than 14 years of marriage to his wife. "I am a proudly gay man.”

@jeritzaicecream @Hephestion_ @MrPopOfficial "It is still possible for a straight man to have sex with a woman even if he isn't romantically or sexually attracted to her." Fixed it. Make sense more

@EndViterDrom @Hephestion_ @MrPopOfficial If someone uses the label gay and is exclusively attracted to the same-sex then they are gay. It is still possible for a gay man to have sex with a woman even if he isn't romantically or sexually attracted to her.