Yoruba local hunters caught "a big wild an!mal inside an Ijebu forest, Ogun State Nigeria.
The animal has reportedly been invading several farms before being hunted.
What is the real name of this an!mal, oluko @arojinle1 ???
@phoebeodekina Please my dear sister, do not let anybody receive you, but I will over slap you to extend that in the next 1 hour, you'll not be able to see anything, everywhere will just dark in eyes, because having that #100 million, is much better than you, that's all.
@Palermo_seun . .but same Yoruba adage says "Idobale kin se iwa" I can prostrate to you and still have evil thought against you. Do you have the pictures of how the gov greet poor elderly people too?
@Ogbenitom Look, when it comes to this level, what you really need is to just get two or three pineapples, don't pill them, just use your knife to stab each pineapples like two sides, then leave them inside let them spoil, don't mind the smell, I asured you, you'll not see them again.
@Horlade01@toshine4u Yeah, because in any movie, haaaa, if they start crying and you that watching don't have mind, if care is not taking, that person may burst into tear before he/she will know.
Key points here is :
whenever we have an argument he goes silent.
And I end up apologizing and even getting him gifts to calm himself behaves childishly
All been said. You will notice there's a pattern here. She apologises whenever there was a fall out. And that's well understandable! She's 42 and he's 30. Living in her house.
You married him. You command him. You forget so quick that you're in Traditional Africa where the man of the house - irrespective of his age difference becomes your head at home and requires respect. From your logic and terms here, u keep disrespecting him and making him know he's jobless and 'eats' your food. It was all clearly evident here. And those things happen to be the weaponized models u used in making him look less of a man always and he's beginning to realise it. And instead of talking back to avoid you abruptly throwing him out or repeatedly making him know he's either jobless or U made him who he was, he chooses to stay silent. And then whenever you realize U F'd up, you go apologizing. That's very clear too..
Fact is the moment u start seeing him as your husband and stop calling him names whenever you're triggered, everything will be fine. And don't ask him to wash plates or clean the house as a command based on the fact that he's living in your house and threaten to one day throw him out.
Any man - irrespective of his age - that chooses to settle down in marriage without being forced has crossed the juvenile delinquent stage in his life, so he's no longer a small boy. Know this and know you're no longer dealing with a younger boy. You're dealing with your husband. So stop disrespecting him and stop using hurtful and weaponized words to make him look less of a man...
Don't lock him out of the house.
Don't order him around. He's not a house boy but a HUSBAND.
I said this because we all know it's rare for a woman to have money and be humble.. Only few can pass that test no matter the age.
I wish you well in your marriage.
I’m a 42-year-old woman from Ibadan, married to a 30 year-old man from Enugu.
We got married late last year.
He lives in my house.
He eats my food.
He spends my money freely.
Honestly, none of that has ever been my problem. I’m a self-made makeup artist and brand influencer, and money has never been the issue.
The real challenge is his behavior.
This man acts like a child emotionally. Whenever we have even a small disagreement, he goes silent. He keeps malice for days… sometimes weeks. No communication. No maturity. Just silence.
Most times, I end up apologizing—even when I’m not the one at fault.
There were times I bought him flowers just to make peace.
Other times, I had to buy gifts before he would talk to me again.
Once, after a serious argument, I bought him an iPhone just so he could come around.
There was also a time we fought and he smashed my glass table in anger. I replaced it. And still, I was the one who apologized.
I have always been the one begging, fixing, calming things down—whether I was wrong or not.
What finally pushed me to seek advice is what happened two nights ago.
We had a heated argument. In his anger, he smashed my phone, packed his bags, and walked out of the house.
Since then, both of his phone numbers have been switched off. I’ve tried calling endlessly—nothing.
I am tired.
Tired of the childish reactions.
Tired of apologizing all the time.
Tired of paying emotionally, financially, and mentally just to keep peace.
But the truth is… I love this man deeply.
Please, I’m begging—don’t advise me to divorce him. I can’t go back to singlehood. I’ve seen enough hardship out there.
I just want to know:
What should I do?
Please keep me anonymous.