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This is 2all my mutuals (past, present &future), know this👇🏽 I am neither a girl's girl nor a guy's girl. I am simply a truth's girl. I do not support gender. If a girl is at fault, I won't support her. If a guy is at fault, I won't support him. I am on d side of truth. Thank u.

@Row_Haastrup @MrIfeanyiforyou You are the one being emotional and religious. Oga, confess righteousness out of your wife if she cheats. Women should pray for cheating husbands, una dey forbid make men pray for cheating wives? *hiss*. Sorry for yourself sha.

@GIC_NWJ @MrIfeanyiforyou You are only emotional, that’s all I see here. Sorry

I made this comment when this video was flying around and I’m going say the big BUT I mentioned earlier… We must understand that there are 2 options biblically when your man cheats on you in marriage: 1. You either walk away and dissolve the marriage OR 2. You pray for him. Both are correct. Choose whichever you want to do if your husband cheats on you. The pastor here was only making reference to the 2nd option above. He never made reference to the first. I understand how and why everyone was triggered at that statement — that’s a logical thing to do. Infact, you ask yourself, what if it’s the woman that cheated, will the man pray for her to change? Same applies to both as triggering as this can be. However, the truth of the matter is what he said sounds senseless logically but that’s God’s way too. God’s ways always most times never make sense to the human mind. It’s just like telling you to turn the other cheek when slapped on the other one — how does that make any sense? But that’s God’s way too. And as Christians, if it’s God’s way, you don’t dispute it. Life is a choice, you either take it or leave it! Selah

@Row_Haastrup If you want to pray, pray. Don't say the Bible says we should do so.

@GIC_NWJ Go and ready your Bible again

@Row_Haastrup I have read it. Stop being religious. At least we can both agree that the Bible says we can divorce on the grounds of adultery, but where did God say "pray for your cheating spouse". Please stop this. This is not the 80s or 90s. People are reading their Bibles 4 themselves now.

@_makkiee @dammiedammie35 God has to help us, because not everyone can leave.

@GIC_NWJ @dammiedammie35 I do pass like this my sister. Even for my small neighbourhood. Peter lost.

This man saw people wearing APC cloths on the road and he did this to them 😭💔

@instablog9ja What is going on for crying out loud??? Why this wiçkedness???

G¥nmen k+ll Edo businessman hours before his child’s dedication

@Nonycutie1 I don tire. What's going on?

My landlord's Elder brother's wife lostt her mum in Abuja, the burial was fixed for las week and some people were sent to convey the corpsé from Abuja to our place, on there way, they got kidn@pped, abandoníng the corpsé and one person who will take the message home. They demanded for 50m naira r@nsom for the 3 persons they took. Till now, no news of them, bûrial cancelled, corpse, not home yet. It's been over a week. Nigeria is døømed!!!!

@Deseiye_ 💔

I was in a queue at a POS stand in Lagos when a little boy, maybe 10 years old, walked up. He handed the agent ₦500 and said, “Aunty, help me send it to my mummy.” The agent asked, “Where is your mummy dey?” He replied, “Hospital.” Everyone went quiet. She asked again, “Why did you not go with her?” The boy looked down and said, “The doctor said they won’t touch her until we bring money.” Nobody spoke for a few seconds. Then the woman behind me stepped forward and said, “How much do they need?” Before you knew it, strangers started contributing. That day, I realised something: In Nigeria, people are struggling, but they still show up for one another.

@Warepamorsammy Amen.

Atiku that deleted this tweet condemning the death of Deborah, he did not just end there by deleting the tweet he went ahead and typed a very long paragraph in hausa apologising to the northerners that called him out and told him they will no longer support him. He said he wasn't the one that typed the tweet, that the tweet does not include his signature "AA". Atiku will never be president in this country Nigeria, not in this lifetime!!!! @atiku You will never be president!!

@Firemankingsley @KunnujiC I hope he has cut off from that family? This one can even maltreat her late sister's kids. Please let him not agree, and cut off from the family. It's not Nollywood to think she has been eyeing him even before her sister died, or/and that she kill3d her sister to be with him.

@KunnujiC You did no wrong! Crazy things happen within some families. That was how my cousin's late wife's family was pressuring him to marry her younger sister up till the point the lady started making bold advances towards him under the guise of coming to check up on the kids.

“Four months after removing my m0urn!ng clothes, my husband’s elder brother called me and said he wanted to speak with me. I said okay, but I am not coming back to the village. He said he was going to visit, and I agreed. Well, he finally came. Guess what he told me? He said he wanted me to have a child for him. I asked why. He said that for 17 years, he has not been able to have a child with his wife. I asked, why me? He said because he wants me to have that child for him. I disagreed. I said no, I was not going to do it. He pleaded with me, but I still insisted. I told him I cannot have a child for two men in the same family. No, I won’t do that. He a&gr!ly left my house. That same evening, I received a call from my mother-in-law saying she wanted to have a meeting with me. I agreed and went down to the village. And guess what she told me? She asked me directly, ‘Why did you refuse to have a child for my son?’ She didn’t say it calmly. It was a direct question, as if it was my duty. I replied, ‘Why would I have a child for two of your sons in the same family?’ She said it was because she said so. When I told her I was not going to do it, she said if I refuse, then I should leave their family. At that point, I didn’t even think twice. I felt oppr£ss£d and d!sresp£cted. And I said, fine, I am going to walk out of the family. Please, if you think what I did was wr0ng, kindly let me know. And if you were in my shoes, what would you do...?” - Woman shares how her in-laws asked her to have a child for her husband’s brother months after his d£@th, sparking reactions online.

@KunnujiC You did the right thing. The man is m@d. His wife may not even be aware. Also, why your brother's wife? Have women finished in the world?

@Grey37631292 @ChuksEricE You're right; the same way the husband has the right in the house, and the boss has the right in the office.

@ChuksEricE A pastor has the right to tell you not to come to his church anymore, because the church is his and he has the authority to decide who attends. So please go to another church.

“Just because I wore a bikini, the pastor suspended me. Do they know how much I spend every Sunday just to get to church? They didn’t show the pastor the video of flood entering my house, they went to show him the one where I wore a bikini.” — A lady reacts after her church suspended her for wearing a bikini.

@ChuksEricE Why will you wear bikini to church? Aunty, rest abeg.

@TonexeyOrigina I'm sorry 💔

I just lost my uncle to the cold hands of death. They were kidnapped in Jos and he was shot. 🤦🏽‍♂️💔 Nigeria has happened to my family.

@MrIfeanyiforyou @Row_Haastrup His example is very wrong.

@MrIfeanyiforyou @Row_Haastrup Okay. Can you confess righteousness out of your cheating wife? Ur wife just came back from sleeping with another man, and u knew and started confessing righteousness out of her. Oya, confess righteousness out of Tinubu 2. Confess righteousness out of d person who stole from you.

@CrypCultiveist @Row_Haastrup God SPECIFICALLY told Hosea that. Did He tell anyone else in the Bible that? Read your Bible on marriage. Jesus said we can divorce on the grounds of cheating because cheating breaks the marriage vow/covenant.

@Row_Haastrup God tells Hosea in Hosea 1:2 to go and marry a whore/ prostitute of his choice. He married Gomer and Gomer didnt change her ways. Was Hosea heartbroken? YES. But still Hosea loved her and still went on to bought her out of slavery after she left home. God never stops loving us

@Emrys295 @Row_Haastrup Do you understand that there is a difference between forgiveness and reconciliation? Forgiveness is a must, reconciliation is not. Sometimes, the woman even married wrong, and instead of her to divorce she's praying for him to change, wasting her youth.

@Row_Haastrup Let he that think he stands take heed lest he falls. If u can't forgive any and everything,marriage Is not for u.U think you are perfect, ok, time will tell. The pastor might have said it for selfish reasons o, but it has deep meanings and not applied to a cheating partner alone

@AstroDeltan @tomisin_ms Which one is woke? What has wokeness got to do with this? If your daughter finds herself in this situation, tell her to continue waiting for her husband.

@tomisin_ms I don't understand all these wokeness in the comments, abi una no dey aware of the socio-economic reasons that makes one of the spouses in a marriage relationship travel abroad, or are we being extraordinarily cognitively blind or out of touch of Nigeria economic situation???

Someone I know got married the same year I did, and she’s still waiting for her husband in Nigeria. He travelled out shortly after the wedding. I’m already three children in…she has none. These men will marry women, leave them behind for years, then build a whole life elsewhere, sometimes even with children, while expecting the woman at home to remain faithful. If you knew you were going to leave, why get married in the first place? Why put someone else’s life on hold like that?

@tomisin_ms Sheer wiçkedness!