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@delapilap @sapphicnightowl Her success is measured by money. It's a capitalist world. The female homemaker & male provider roles are still present, but aren't the powerful societal forces they used to be. All of this is pointless, it's an objective fact that it's easier to be openly lesbian, than a gay man

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl And they are berated for it exponentially more than men in similar positions, which is the exact fucking point I'm making. Women's success is not measured by society in how much money they have or how much power they achieve, but how well they raise a family...

This is actually a rare example of what you might call healthy and decent masculinity, but of course most heterobrained normies find it cringe and inconceivable that a man could accept his wife's self discovery as a fact of life and not act like an entitled abusive prick

@Freddies_boy @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl Yeah I do want to blame her, for marrying him and having never been attracted to him, have they never loved him romantically

@GameinformerTM @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl No, they didn't. There are loads of things about yourself you might not realize. You really don't know what you're talking about, you just want to blame her. It's motivated reasoning.

@FemaleVampire99 @sapphicnightowl Straight love isn't Superior to gay love. But on a biological level, heterosexuality is absolutely the necessary one. I must say, I'm grateful my parents were straight. I think a little over 8.3 billion people feel the same

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl It shouldn't be the standard cause it's not the only sexuality in existence. The fact that it can generate babies doesn't make it "superior" to homosexuality. Also, there are many straight people who are child-free.

@Freddies_boy @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl The people who are 30+ and just figuring it out, knew on some level the entire time. Their internal struggle does not absolve them of their fault in the lies it took to create a false marriage

@GameinformerTM @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl No? Some gay people know from an early age, some get confused and don't figure it out until later in life.

@FemaleVampire99 @sapphicnightowl It's natural and normal, but heterosexuality will forever be the standard. It's quite literally how the species exists. Expecting anything else is ridiculous. Acceptance is all we can aim for.

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl You are saying that those cunts who think that being gay is not normal are right

@delapilap @sapphicnightowl And similarly, some of the most successful and richest women in the world are also divorced and have no kids.

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl That's literally just not true. Men can be considered successful for things that have nothing to do with families. Some of the richest and most powerful men on earth are single, divorced, or have been divorced multiple times, and still garner great public respect for their power.

@FemaleVampire99 @sapphicnightowl If self hating means being realistic, having a really hot boyfriend and would choose being gay even if it was a choice, then.... All right

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl Ok self-hating gay man

@FemaleVampire99 @sapphicnightowl I'm just realistic? Heteronormativity Will always be the standard. Humanity is built upon heterosexuality, straight to always be the majority of the population. To expect anything else is completely unrealistic

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl Why do you hate yourself then?

@Freddies_boy @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl I'd honestly bet money on bi+ fell out of love. Then being 30+ and going "hmm, I might be gay". Real fags know young

@GameinformerTM @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl Yes? That's relatively common with closeted gay people. Because of how omnipresent heterosexuality is, they end up conditioned to think they're straight until well into adulthood. It's a fairly well documented phenomenon. It sounds like she just didn't know.

@delapilap @sapphicnightowl The entire idea of being a man, revolves around obtaining a woman, and then providing for said woman.

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl Bull fucking shit. Women's entire perceived value in society is literally based on creating a family. Men can gain social value without being married, but women's perceived value, regardless of their personal achievements, are directly tied to "breeding" and creating a family.

@FemaleVampire99 @sapphicnightowl I'm dating a man

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl All this words when you could have just admitted that you hate gay people

@moid_destr0yer That's not what comprehend means. That's just how you feel, not what's objectively true.

Dick worshippers can't comprehend that masc lesbians/masc women in general are just hotter than a man. They look better, smell better, feel better, sound better and have a woman's body under their clothes.

@Freddies_boy @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl She didn't know she wasn't romantically or sexually attracted to him?

@GameinformerTM @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl Nothing in the story indicates she knew this about herself before marriage?

@steview0nders_ I think he put it in a harsh way, but I feel like a sizable majority of gay men, are primarily attracted to "straight passing" men. Which is just to say a somewhat traditionally masculine man.

Heteronormativity is a disease. Free yourself from this loser mindset I beg

@FemaleVampire99 @sapphicnightowl Of course we live in heteranormative world. And it will always be that way, because that's how the species continues to exist. To expect anything other than acceptance, is a waste of time. But for them, on some level, you know you're not attracted to the person you're marrying

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl If we didn't live in an heteronormative society this wouldn't happen. Search the meaning of the word "heteronormativity" on Google.

a lot of people, especially westerners, especially-especially americans, conflate considering others with being controlled & respond with defiance. it’s very weird behavior.

@Freddies_boy @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl The selfish decision was marrying this person in the first place. You know you're not attracted to this person

@GameinformerTM @ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl The selfish decision of *checks notes* not staying in a relationship that wasn't right? Not lying to him about who she is?

@DarkHorseWrites @sapphicnightowl Platonically. Not romantically, never was she genuinely physically attracted to him. Those things were lies. Imagine looking back at your marriage and knowing your partner never felt those things about you genuinely

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl But she *did* love him, because she married him and had children with him and they were seemingly happy up until this point. This is a really complex situation, not a selfish one.

@ihateatsushi @nonbinaryfenris @sapphicnightowl Fine ig

@GameinformerTM @nonbinaryfenris @sapphicnightowl we can never know what the majority are, which is why i think it’s best to not just always assume the worst.

@ihateatsushi @sapphicnightowl No, I don't think being too harsh for any cause of divorce, other than infidelity, is necessary. But the insinuation that it is wrong to be upset at your spouse for marrying you without having genuinely been attracted to you or loved you in that way, is wrong is what I don't like

@GameinformerTM @sapphicnightowl I just think we shouldn’t be too harsh, if homophobia didnt exist, this wouldn’t be an issue but we live in an imperfect world so I don’t see us ever getting rid of this issue anytime soon, all we can do is try to improve things somewhat which we’re not doing a good job at imo