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Virginia, USA Katılım Ağustos 2017
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@BernardoFariaJJ @BernardoFariaJJ what were the details that caused the spikes for you?
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I was reflecting on this…
Learning Jiu-Jitsu happens in spikes. A lot of the time it feels like we are stagnated, or even getting a little worse. Then all of a sudden, we discover a new move or detail that perfectly matches our style, and everything levels up again. Another spike.
Then after that, we feel stagnated again… sometimes for weeks, sometimes for months… until the next breakthrough comes.
And honestly, it feels like the cycle never ends.
When I look back at my career and my own Jiu-Jitsu journey, there were a few moves and details that completely changed my game in training and competition. Every time I found one of them, it created a huge spike in my progress for days or weeks. Then eventually came another period of feeling stuck again… until I discovered the next move or detail that made a difference.
I just wanted to share this in case you’ve been feeling stagnated lately. It’s part of the journey for all of us. Would also love to hear about YOUR Jiu-Jitsu journey and if you’ve ever felt the same way.
Let me know in the comments…
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@chrismwojcik I thoroughly enjoy your thoughts and insights, Chris. You're wise beyond your years. Congrats on the successful 2025. Onward!
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5 important lessons I learned in 2025:
2025 was one of the busiest years of my life.
• I got engaged
• I competed in some important events
• I went on 26 trips (mostly for Jiu-Jitsu)
• We Woj Locked the World
This year, I learned a lot about life, Jiu-Jitsu, training, creativity, and more.
Here are the 5 most important lessons I learned this year.
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1. You need to train resilience and durability.
This is something I am still working on, but at least I have begun to work on it.
Earlier this year, I was not resilient, not durable, and honestly just frustrated with my progress as a whole on and off the mat.
The catalyst for a breakthrough here was challenging myself physically and mentally.
Training to become more resilient and durable.
I didn't realize that resilience and durability are skills, just like the ones you build on the mat.
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2. There's maybe a better way to train Jiu-Jitsu.
One problem with Jiu-Jitsu culture is the widespread idea that if you learn the one secret technique, you'll beat everyone.
It's just not true. That's not how skill works. You don't need more facts or ideas; you need more skills.
You should mostly be training to build skills, not to pick up more details.
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3. Balance is messy.
Sometimes, I need to work harder.
Other times, I need to chill out and take myself less seriously.
Sometimes I am being soft. Other times, I am being stubborn.
The lesson for me is that the idea of perfect balance doesn't really exist.
You'll always lean too far in one way or the other.
The real focus should be on improving your self-awareness, your focus, and staying calm in the storm.
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4. The work isn't always the most important thing.
I work as hard as I can. I pour hours into learning as much as I can and doing the best work I can.
But this year, I've learned that the work is unforgiving. You need to detach from it.
Some things (and some people) always will be more important than the work. That's a sign you're doing the right stuff.
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5. You need to build a good team.
If you're an athlete, you need coaches. You need training partners. Teammates.
I think the writer in me glorified having to do it all on my own for too long.
Surround yourself with people who know better than you about the skills you're looking to build.
It helps if you just like them for who they are :)

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@OpenNoteGrapple That's awesome! Would you say you were a hobbyist or a competitor when you opened your gym? And has that changed since?
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Threw my corporate career away to teach jiujitsu and open a gym
My only regret is not doing it sooner
Riley Hill@Coachhill_24
What’s the craziest move you made in your coaching career? Mine was taking a full-time offensive line college job 11 days before training camp well only ever playing receiver and coaching wide receivers…. Best move I could have made to be the best I could all round but crazy.
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Bryan Battle drops an all time post fight speech. I think this applies to everyone whether you’re a combat sports fan or not. I debated posting this but i announced recently that I was going to be a dad. The love of my life and I had our first ultrasound yesterday and there was no heartbeat. I am beyond devastated but trying to remain strong and Bryan’s words just hit in a way I don’t know… maybe other people should hear as well. Maybe a fight post isn’t the best place to do this but I found his words profound. “God will never give you more than you can bear.” ❤️🙏
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Lerone Murphy puts Aaron Pico OUT COLD with a spinning back elbow 🤯
#UFC319
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