I.J. Neubauer

I'm 38. I'm living my best life. Inner state, career, family, leisure, property: - 80% feel fulfilled - 10% to overcome - 10% to accept It's working. So why build something on X? To help millions to live their best. (Not just the 2000+ I've helped). To build something on my terms. To make the world a better place. Your inner world isn't open till you open it. Your best future waits patiently for you. Pleas take your chance.

@IndigoArete Yes, that's what fascinates me about working as a coach.

@IJ_Neubauer What an awesome art form, to gently encourage people to unlock their inner wisdom, watching them realize it was always there.

Coaching isn't about having all the answers. It's about asking the right questions. The client has the wisdom. My job: Help them hear it.

@itsdratalwar You go on a search together.

@IJ_Neubauer The best coaches help clients find their own answers.

@NoVicesArx This is often easier for the other person to understand.

@IJ_Neubauer Show them what to avoid not what to do.

@batincaylak Developing a mastery of this is the best thing.

@IJ_Neubauer This is the right approach. A coach isn't there to give orders, but to be a mirror reflecting one's thoughts.

@theumariaz Yes, thank you for sharing.

@IJ_Neubauer As a person with training in therapy, I completely agree with this. Your client subconscious knows what’s best for them. They just have to bring it into the conscious. That’s where coaching helps.

@zafarmirzo I can confirm that. Both together make you satisfied.

A rational worldview becomes more holistic when enriched with philosophical feelings.

@IndigoArete Thank you very much, I'm glad you like it.

@IJ_Neubauer That's great, sit with yourself in silence often & especially in transition times, so you can hear your hearts wise guidance more readily.

Most people mishandle transitions because they rush to fill the void. I've observed the powerful alternative: Sit in the discomfort of the "messy middle" Note emerging wishes without judgement Experiment small before committing big Build transition support proactively The quality of your patience determines the quality of your next chapter.

@theumariaz That's how it is, but most people stop agreeing with failure at some point.

@IJ_Neubauer Make more decisions. Fail. Learn. Make better decisions.

The hidden truth about decisions: They're never made in a single moment. I've mapped the actual process: - Silent contemplation phase - Evidence gathering phase - Testing phase - Commitment threshold - Implementation scaffolding The quality of your decisions improves dramatically if you respect each phase.

@_CharliePalmero It's really worth taking this step.

@IJ_Neubauer I tend to get stuck in the evidence-gathering phase. Working on stepping into the testing phase!

@itsdratalwar That's the way it works.

@IJ_Neubauer Decisions aren’t made in an instant. They build up over time through thought, evidence, and action.

@orangebook Those who manage to gain strength from this acquire a very important skill: resilience.

Getting rejected early in life is actually one of the best gifts one can get.

@RobertGreene Life feels much more interesting when we experience it with willpower.

Do not be afraid to exaggerate the role of willpower. It is an exaggeration with a purpose. It leads to a positive self-fulfilling dynamic, and that is all you care about. See this shaping of your attitude as your most important creation in life, and never leave it to chance.

@FitFounder A great gift that most of us bring into the world from the very beginning.

Health is like a crown. But only the sick can see it on people who are healthy.

@batincaylak Yes, it feels good and is a shortcut to more happiness.

@IJ_Neubauer Learning to do less with more quality. Focusing on what is important. That's serenity.

The path from overwhelm to clarity isn't about doing more faster — it's about doing less better. Constraint is the hidden key to freedom.

@JoeWriteCopy That's how I think too.

@IndigoArete Yes, that makes a lot of difference.

@IJ_Neubauer Sacrifice is necessary for success. Get your specific priorities in order & those choices will be clear.

@TheWillCarter We bring a lot into the world and yet we can decide every day who we want to be.

If whatever we consistently attach to ‘I AM’ with conviction, emotion, and repetition shapes who we become… Then the most important question to ask ourselves throughout the day is: ‘Who am I being?’ (Milo is being effortlessly zen 😂)