
Ian McLoone
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Ian McLoone
@IanExpanse
Addiction Psychotherapist / Co-Founder & Director of Clinical Services @ExpanseMN / Community Faculty at University of Minnesota IBH&ADDS graduate programs



An absolute fantasy. A hopeful fairy tale for children. “I have an undamaged and natural and pure Core Self.” Guys, this stopped being true the moment you were born into the world within relationships to Others. By the time you developed language, man oh man, was it truly over.




🧵A challenge: Can you tolerate being the Bad Object, temporarily, even for just a *second*, without going straight to defensiveness? If you represent or symbolize something to someone else, given your innate characteristics, even if what they are projecting onto you seems




I highly recommend reading more about Psychopathic behavior and its Psychoanalytic approach. I was reminded of may people here, some of them ‘Therapists’ 😉

Dr. Gabor Maté’s 35-second gut punch on depression: “Depression comes from having to push down your emotions… to stay connected to your parents.” It’s not a disease — it’s a coping mechanism from childhood. A child shouldn’t have to choose between feeling their feelings and keeping their parent’s love. Indigenous cultures carry kids everywhere. Modern society? We force emotional suppression early… and wonder why depression explodes later. 35-sec clip — raw, uncomfortable truth 👇 Does this resonate with your own story? Or someone you love?


“It was a shitpost.” This is very insightful analysis.












