Vidya विद्या

Nalanda University in India, founded in the 5th century CE, as the world’s first residential university

My older sister was 17 when our mom left. She dropped out for a year so I wouldn’t have to switch schools. She packed my lunch every day. She lied and told me she wasn’t hungry so I would eat more. I didn’t understand then. I do now. She’s 29. I’m 24. Last week I paid off the last bit of her student loan without telling her. Just sent the receipt. She called me crying. I said, “You carried me when you were still a child. Let me carry you now.” She still checks if I’ve eaten. I still make sure her bills are covered before mine. Two kids who had no manual. Now we’re building a life that doesn’t feel like survival anymore.

give me your survival arc:

Another tragic incident has occurred in Bengaluru. Whether it was a momentary rage or disgust with life is unknown, but a horrifying incident has taken place under the Whitefield police station limits where a mother killed her daughter and then committed suicide. This act took place in Immadihalli, near Whitefield in the city. Suvarna (40) and her 14-year-old daughter Karunya are the deceased. According to preliminary information, Suvarna first smothered her daughter Karunya to death. After confirming that her daughter was dead, she hanged herself from a fan in the same room. When there was no response from inside the house on Saturday and the door remained closed for a long time, suspicious neighbors and family members informed the police. When Whitefield police arrived at the spot and broke open the door, they found the mother-daughter bodies. The daughter's body was lying on the bed, while the mother was found hanging from the fan. The exact reason for the suicide and murder is not known yet. It is suspected that internal family discord, financial difficulties, or some mental stress that Suvarna was experiencing might have caused this incident. The fact that 14-year-old Karunya, who should have lived a full life, was killed by her mother has plunged the entire Immadihalli area into grief. Upon learning of the matter, senior police officers from the Whitefield division and local police visited the spot and conducted an inspection. An FSL team also arrived and collected evidence. The bodies have been sent to the hospital for post-mortem. A case has been registered at the Whitefield police station, and police are recording statements from family members. Investigations are also ongoing to determine whether mother Suvarna wrote any death note before her death.

hit me with the harshest reality truth

I once had a fight with my then-boyfriend (now ex), because I refused to have s£x with him one night. The most annoying part was that I was on my period, but he insisted I was just wearing a pad to deceive him. I got really upset and, out of anger, spoke to him harshly. He responded by slapping me, and it escalated into a full fight. He injured me badly that night, and I ended up destroying most of his valuables. His neighbors eventually intervened, and I slept at one of their houses. I left the next morning and blocked him everywhere. He was just a dog, and I don’t understand why some men act like they’ll d!e without s£x.

Why is it so too difficult for men to be in a relationship without sex?

You are from India, a country with no toilets 😂