Mel 😛✨

we don’t have to imagine

i’d do anything to live the life i made up in my head

I’m the same me, just less available, less forgiving, and way more aware of shit

All niggas do is fuck up & miss me, i really dont give a fck

I don’t like niggas that be taking advice from their non emotionally intelligent homeboys who have never tasted happiness a day in their lives

& i don’t want a trick. i want a provider & leader

I’m grown enough to admit I’m not the easiest person to love. Life put me through a lot, so yeah… I overthink, I get triggered quick, I shut down, and sometimes I don’t even make sense. I’m sensitive as hell and I need patience. But one thing about me? My love is REAL.

Free will and side quest are the theme this summer

I’m tired of going to the gas station !!!

I wanna go to the PR parade in NY this year

i like being able to smell the laundry detergent on my clothes after washing them

Being with a man who WANTS to be a father>>>>>>> having a supportive and equally excited and present partner during pregnancy is important for baby's imprint and for mom's perinatal/postpartum period. Pregnancy is too risky of a situation to be having babies with loser ass men.

Yes, I wish I acted worse!

Sometimes as a woman you don't understand whether you are hormonally sad, menstrually sad, ovulationally sad, seasonally sad or actually sad

I really wanna be a successful young lady that’s all I think about.

I’m still salty about my first Mother’s Day and it’s been 6 years but idc I’ll never get to have a first Mother’s Day again. It was supposed to be special. I didn’t receive no gift, no flowers, not even an appreciation post. Just a verbal “Happy Mother’s Day” and that’s it…

Absolutely nothing like always 😌 he’s never made Mother’s Day special for me when we were together, and even after not being together, I’ve never gotten a happy Mother’s Day text so I’m keeping that same energy

SAME 😭

Idc, get your education. They telling y’all there’s no value now to discourage everyone from getting their degrees. Eventually, it’ll be essential again. You’ll see jobs posting they’re required. And in certain fields, it surely is required. Beyond a bachelor’s actually!

A good sign you're healing is when you recognize dysfunctional behavior and realize it's not your job to fix it, explain it, or even entertain it.