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“My wife happens to be my student; she grew up in my hands.” - Teacher and blogger reveals how he met his wife

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Stuffs that traumatized you as a kid??

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DEAR MEN, A VIRGIN GIRL MAY NOT BLEED ON THE FIRST DAY OF SEX. NO. SHE DIDN'T LIE TO YOU. READ. SHARE. REPOST. Walk with me, Men. The Hymen and Other Heavy Myths: A Small Tissue, a Large Silence As a gynae doctor, let me speak gently, and slowly, and clearly about the hymen, because this small, shy fold of tissue has been forced to carry a suitcase far heavier than it deserves, and because too many hearts have cracked under the weight of a myth dressed up as biology. First, let us be firm and tender at the same time: on no account should any girl or woman be subjected to a so-called “virginity test.” There is no medical test that can prove virginity. None. And any healthcare provider who claims to diagnose virginity by peering at the hymen is not practicing medicine, except in the narrow and painful situations of suspected child abuse or sexual assault where injury must be assessed. Virginity is not an anatomical finding, it is a social invention. The body does not keep receipts of first times. The body does not run a guest book of who entered and when. Many men imagine the hymen as a stubborn door, sealed and waiting for a heroic knock. They picture what medicine calls an imperforate hymena hymen with no opening at all, and they imagine it as the standard design. But this is rare. Very rare. And when it happens, it announces itself loudly: the girl will not menstruate, blood will collect inside, pain will rise like an unanswered question, and she will need a simple surgical opening. This is not purity. This is pathology. This is not a moral story. It is a medical one. In truth, the hymen is a democracy of shapes. Some are ring-shaped, and some look like lace, and some have a band across them, and some are wide and elastic from the beginning. These differences are as ordinary as different noses and different ears and different laughs. The hymen is not a gate that opens once and collapses in shame. It is a thin rim of tissue at the vaginal entrance, and nothing more dramatic than that. And time, that patient sculptor, reshapes it. Sports and cycling and dancing and gymnastics and tampons and the simple choreography of daily life can stretch and thin the hymen without any sexual story attached. So when a woman has sex for the first time and there is no blood, it is not evidence of deceit. It is evidence of anatomy behaving like anatomy: flexible, responsive, alive. Bleeding at first intercourse often comes from fear, from dryness, from hurriedness, from force, not from a mythical seal being broken like a red ribbon at a ceremony. With arousal, and patience, and consent, and lubrication, the vagina opens as it was designed to open, and sometimes there is no blood at all. A virgin may not bleed at her sexual debut, and this is not scandalous. It is medical. Men, please, do not turn blood into a lie detector. It is not one. Blood is a fluid, not a confession. So let us pass on this knowledge gently, and stubbornly, and with love. To men, I say: trust science and unlearn folklore. To women, I say: your body is not on trial. Your anatomy does not owe anyone evidence. Your worth is not hidden in a fold of tissue. And your truth does not need to bleed in order to be believed.

Someone ghosted me once after a very very very perfect date. He just dropped me off, ignored my messages, and never contacted me again. I took it as a L and moved on. We still viewed each other’s WhatsApp status o, but that was it. Then one day I posted on my WhatsApp status complaining bitterly about the rising body odour in town and he responded to my status with a question, asking how he can politely tell someone they have body odour. I told him there’s really no easy way o, but if it were me, depending on the relationship I have with the person, I’ll probably just ask them something like “did you change your body cream or get a new one recently? You smell funny o, are you sure they’ve not sold you a fake?” His next message was “when we went on that date, did you change your body cream or get a new one recently? you smelled funny o, are you sure they didn’t sell you a fake?”

There’s this corper on TikTok that got posted to a nursery school, he started creating lip sync and dancing contents with the kids and they have been going viral lately, one of the kids (Dolapo) which seems to be the “life of the party” has now earned recognition from Qing Madi ☺️❤️

It is not permissible for her to travel for hajj or umrah without a mahram, let alone go to study!

sexual intercourse is the second commonest cause of pregnancy. you won't believe the first.