Jolund

@ComfortLolaa Because women are waste of time. Single men choose peace and prosperity without women

40+ plus single men are actually red flags because why are you single at 40??!

@dqveed It’s because of misandrist society

This is because of patriarchy and cultural misogyny btw

@Mr_Husky1 Historie inventé. Les hommes aiment les femmes au naturel

“I don’t pay for women,” wrote a 52-year-old man. I showed up to the date without makeup and wearing sneakers. We had been talking for about two weeks. Giovanni was one of those rare people—polite, straightforward, no mind games. Divorced, two grown kids, worked in construction. He had humor, balance, culture. When he asked me out, I said yes without hesitation. Then came that message—clear, almost sharp. “Let’s be clear: I don’t pay for women on dates. It’s my principle. Hope that’s not a problem.” Honestly, it wasn’t. In fact, I appreciated the honesty. Better to know upfront what you’re getting into than to face the bill and pretend nothing happened. I replied: “Fine, no problem. See you Saturday.” Inside me, an idea was born. A simple, honest experiment. Saturday morning, I woke up early. I’m 46 and I know exactly what “getting ready” for a date means. I opened my closet, picked the right outfit. Then makeup: foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, mascara, lipstick—the usual ritual. And then I stopped. Why? If we’re truly equal… if everyone pays their own way… if there are no roles… why should I spend two hours getting ready? Why should I look flawless while Giovanni probably shows up in jeans and a T-shirt, ready in ten minutes? So I decided. Jeans. Gray sweater. Comfortable shoes. Ponytail. No makeup. Just me. In the mirror, I felt strange. Not worse. Just… different. Used to seeing myself “constructed,” I now looked simply normal. “Let’s see,” I thought. At the café, Giovanni was already seated. He greeted me, smiled, everything calm. The first few minutes were pleasant, natural. I almost thought I’d overthought it. Then he paused, looked at me more closely, and said: “You didn’t get ready much to see me, did you?” “What do you mean?” “In the photos, you looked more polished… the dress, the makeup… Now you look… like you ran an errand.” I smiled. Because in that moment I knew the experiment was working. “Giovanni,” I said calmly, “remember what you wrote about the bill?” He nodded. “Yes.” “You talked about equality. Everyone pays their own way. No roles, no expectations. You’re independent, I’m independent.” “Yes… and?” “So I asked myself: why does equality only apply to money? You showed up comfortably, no special effort. I did the same. Isn’t that consistent?” He stayed silent. Then tried to explain. “But these are different things…” “Why different?” I asked. He spoke about habits, “female nature,” the fact that women like to take care of themselves. I listened. Then I said something simple: “Taking care of yourself costs. Time, energy, money. And it’s often taken for granted. We talk about equality when it comes to paying, but still expect a woman to be perfect… for free.” He tried to defend himself: “But women like it…” I smiled. “Yes, I like feeling beautiful. But I also like being myself. Sleeping in. Not worrying about makeup. Wearing comfortable shoes.” He looked at me, unsure what to say. We finished our coffee talking about something else. Then the bill arrived. Split in half. Perfect. We said goodbye politely. We never contacted each other again. No, I don’t regret it. That date taught me something. We live in a time when everyone talks about equality, but often only where it’s convenient. People want an independent, autonomous woman—but also flawless, polished, perfect. True equality isn’t splitting a bill. It’s sharing the same effort, the same respect, the same investment. If you don’t want to pay for dinner, that’s fine. But then don’t expect someone to spend hours looking perfect for you. If we are equal… we’re truly equal. No double standards. Giovanni wanted equality. He got it. Just not the kind he imagined. Credit - Mr. Commonsense

@WorkElizab Equality. We do that only to real women worth of attention and AFTER those some have earned our trust and respect. First date is just a test for us men to know if the women is worth

Can we actually do that?

@NeverteIImeodd I love when men defend themselves

I was shouting " What a gentleman" till i saw the last 4 seconds.

@omgsidewalks @moidsexposed Not all men treat women the way you treated them. Not normalize your behavior

so you admit that men's greatest fear is being treated like they have treated women???

@itsnwts There is not benefit to make women feel special. Men go their own way

Men aren’t special.

@hell_line0 This is why most men choose to be single and there is woman loneliness pandemic. Men chose peace

“Men’s work is 9-5 and women’s work never ends”. This is why most women are choosing to be single

@RomanaFirst @Redeflection @DipshikhaGhosh Women kill continuously babies in every part of the world. Removing women from the Earth would bring more security for everyone

@Redeflection @Jolund11 @DipshikhaGhosh Women kill more children...source?

As will the men and they’re the only ones crying about it.

@Redeflection @RomanaFirst @DipshikhaGhosh Women are Evil

@RomanaFirst @Jolund11 @DipshikhaGhosh 'Women' kill more children every year than all wars combined... They are also often involved directly or indirectly in many of the killings done by men. They just don't have the fucking integrity to make it known because they know many of them will get beaten to death.

@missssssaaaa @DipshikhaGhosh The internet is created by men, the smartphone has been created by men, the infrastructure is maintained by men, the alphabet and the writing has been created by men.

@Jolund11 @DipshikhaGhosh Huh? I can text myself?

@Clarity_Esper @missssssaaaa @DipshikhaGhosh Women are not capable to offer companionships. They are too much selfish

@missssssaaaa @Jolund11 @DipshikhaGhosh The same thing everyone else has to offer in a relationship: companionship.

@mileys926 @DipshikhaGhosh All men have been harassed by women at least once in their lives

@Jolund11 @DipshikhaGhosh You arent getting harassed by women

@yvessirae It happens all the time. I have seen it

“Women are too emotional” but I have never seen a woman punching a wall or throwing a wedding cake just because she was angry.

@jess_ann_pin Women are just pedo pigs

All the hottest most successful female celebrities are with younger men. That says a lot about what women actually prefer when they have options.

@princesalamwane Women love these men

“humor” and it’s a compilation of videos showing men who hate their wives.

@wynrosei Men have trauma caused by women and their centuries of oppression

When I make a man- hating joke in front of the wrong people and they start lecturing me on how men have feelings too

@ma1ybe That’s the culture of matriarchy. Women love violent men

he killed a child because she didn’t want him. this is the product of incel/redpill culture.

@WomenBeingAwful And women are so stupid that they agree to work for free