Jossy Jotham

I’ve said it before but i’ll say it again. Calabar is such a beautiful city. The greenery and serenity 🥹😍

Please what else can I do on my laptop Since I bought it I’ve only been playing games and watching movies with it😭

After speaking with Nigerians in Cape Town yesterday, I was able to have meaningful discussions this morning with three South African ministers and political party leaders regarding the ongoing challenges related to immigration, regional collaboration, and fostering peaceful coexistence between our nations. I had the pleasure of meeting with Mr Leon Schreiber, the South African Minister of Home Affairs and a prominent figure in the Democratic Alliance; Mr Velenkosini Hlabisa, the Minister of Cooperative Governance and Traditional Affairs and leader of the Inkatha Freedom Party (IFP); and Mr Gayton McKenzie, the Minister of Sports, Arts and Culture and leader of the Patriotic Alliance (PA). Our conversations were productive and candid, focusing on the current challenges that affect both countries—particularly those related to migration, economic strains, youth unemployment, security issues, and the rising tensions faced by African foreigners in South Africa. I firmly believe that Nigeria and South Africa, both prominent African nations, must enhance dialogue, bolster cooperation, and seek solutions based on justice, mutual respect, and adherence to the rule of law. In challenging times, leaders and citizens alike need to demonstrate responsible leadership, compassion, and restraint. We collectively stressed the importance of law-abiding behaviour, avoiding violence, resisting hate or provocation, and allowing lawful institutions to address grievances through democratic and constitutional processes, regardless of the challenges we face. The progress of Africa hinges on our ability to create unity, foster economic inclusivity, invest in our communities, and uphold the dignity of every African, no matter where they live. -PO

Men, take note: It’s not compulsory for your wife to take your surname after marriage. There’s no law in Nigeria that forces a woman to change her surname to her husband’s. Trying to pressure or force her to do so can be seen as a v!olation of her fundamental rights and it can attract legal consequences for you as a man. At the end of the day, it’s her choice. Ignorance of the law is not an excuse.

I stopped buying foodstuffs and started eating out when going to work and before heading back home. She spent 2 weeks in my place despite promising to come just for a job interview and requested to stay 2 days She left after 3 days of no foodstuffs again with 5-minute voice notes of insults. What pained her most was that I didn’t touch her throughout her stay. She wanted to give back to the “society” with her obough but I wasn’t interest because someone told me her dad is an herbalist from way back 😂