Jane

I saw this quote today and thought, how very true. “Love is the beginning. Choice is what you build on. You deserve someone who knows the difference”

Happy heavenly birthday dad ❤️ thinking of you

A good life is not a perfect one 🤍🌸

As a woman… You should either have a supportive man by your side or no man at all.. There’s no other option.

When life is good, no real worries, but you’re still on the edge of tears… that’s grief. The guilt of living a life the people you lost don’t get to be part of.

A woman's brain can't relax until she feels physically and emotionally safe. Most men don't understand how much energy women use checking whether they're safe. She’s reading the room. Watching your tone. Noticing the small shifts in behavior. Calculating risks you don’t even realize exist. It’s constant, quiet work that drains her long before she ever says she’s tired. That’s why safety isn’t just about protection, it’s about consistency, reassurance, and emotional stability.

This is so true! It’s better to want someone than need them I can support myself in all ways But a man who can cook for me is 🔥

If you cheat on your spouse, and you’ve got children together, you’ve also cheated on your kids. Your spouse can recover, but you just destroyed your kids’ family. You betrayed their need for stability and trust. They’ve got a right to be angry. Heres what the science says:🧵

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To anyone missing their Mum in heaven this Mother's Day, may these be the words for you, If you need some words to say. #MothersDay #HappyMothersDay #MotheringSunday

your SPOUSE is the one who’ll sit beside you when your PARENTS DIE. who’ll hold your hand through CHILDBIRTH. who might have to BATHE YOU if you’re ever too sick to stand. this isn’t just about BUTTERFLIES or DATE NIGHTS. it’s about choosing someone who SHOWS UP... in GRIEF, in MESS, in UNCERTAINTY. so no, LOVE ALONE isn’t enough. COMMITMENT, MATURITY, and the ability to ENDURE life’s ugly parts... that’s what sustains a MARRIAGE. because when life gets PAINFULLY REAL, ROMANCE won’t carry you... CHARACTER will. and the truth is, FOREVER is only possible with someone who knows how to STAY when it’s HARD TO LOVE

There is NO REASON you should ever be in a relationship with somebody who will sit back and WATCH YOU STRUGGLE and then applaud you for not needing them. Independence is for single people. So if you gotta be independent while a man is sitting in your face, you might as well be by yourself boo.

Do you know the absolute sickest dynamic in modern dating? ​It is the illusion of endless options. ​Nobody is actually building anything solid anymore because everybody secretly has a "roster" in their DMs. The moment a relationship hits a normal, human roadblock, an argument, a financial dip, a slight misunderstanding, instead of communicating and fixing it, they just pick up their phone and reply to someone else's Instagram story. ​We have become a generation of window shoppers. People will confidently throw away a 90% genuine connection just to go entertain a 10% fantasy, and then cry on the timeline about being lonely.

I don’t have favourite places, I have favourite people, and whenever Im with those people, that place becomes my favourite place 🥰

day 365 of 365 and with that… the 2025 season comes to an end