Kit Lavendear

Been getting a little sad when it comes to trying to write because I feel like every idea I have ends up being too similar to a story I already like

It's been awhile since I've tried to draw a female character, but I think it turned out well for being out of practice for now, I'm definitely going to need to draw her some more She's Dia Valens who is meant to be a sort of divine being, her only goal is to find a way to die

@GwynBizzy I'm pretty sure the fruit of the loom thing is because they switched companies or something so the new company claiming they never had the cornucopia isn't really a lie since it's from the old company or something

I maintain that the Mandela effect is a bunch of dickheads who can’t accept that they were wrong about something

@purity_culture Woman: “I’m actually enjoying myself and we both really like each other!” Radfem: “Don’t you realize that as a woman your brain is too weak and underdeveloped to understand that you’ve been brainwashed?”

Radfem rhetoric boils down to "just because this person or fully consensual activity makes you feel happy and fulfilled and you absolutely love it and have nothing bad to say about it and it doesn't harm anyone else doesn't mean it's okay, that's not a good reason to do it"

@702ValetParker It’s only a matter of time before they start claiming lesbians aren’t real and they were brainwashed to perform same-sex attraction for a male audience. Sex and kissing is only for men to do with other men

Radfems be like: Wear makeup? You’re a brainwashed puppet of centuries of misogyny, and every lipstick tube you’ve ever bought directly funds the patriarchy. Enjoy heterosexual sex? Haha, no, you don’t, that’s just conditioning, and also you’ve personally erased 400 years of feminist progress. Shave your legs? Obviously you’ve been programmed since birth, and each hair you remove is a subtle betrayal of womanhood. Like men? TRAITOR. Also, you’re singlehandedly propping up the entire global economy and must immediately issue a formal apology to womankind. Consent to sex work? Impossible. You don’t want it. Ever. Literally every person involved is a victim and by acknowledging desire you’ve activated the patriarchy’s secret handshake. Enjoy anal? Coerced, brainwashed, and contributing to male dominance. Stop it. Immediately. Like blowjobs? You’re complicit in systemic oppression, and also personally responsible for climate change. Question any radfem rhetoric? Misogynist. Checkmate. Want personal autonomy? Destroying the feminist movement, directly enabling the patriarchy, and somehow the stock market too. Eat peanut butter? Internalized capitalist flavor oppression. Enjoy watching rom-coms? Patriarchy propaganda. Wear heels? Oppressor-approved torture devices, congratulations on being a complicit agent of male dominance. Laugh at memes? Microaggression against women everywhere. Find out you’re pregnant with a male fetus and don’t get an abortion? YOU DISGUST ME. Basically: if you’re a living, breathing woman who has any preference, desire, or opinion, congratulations, you are a walking embodiment of the patriarchy and the most radical enemy of radical feminism imaginable.

@11kmrn Like, some of these people need to understand that the acts themselves are morally neutral, it's all about the individual situational context surrounding each incident that determines abuse

kissing somebody’s forehead in missionary is abusive

@QueenMab87 Body shaming men by belittling what a woman might genuinely find attractive and like. Truly a supporter of no one

Body shaming isn’t actually feminist

@boriquagato Should've trapped the ghost in a crystal before trying to sell it. I'm not sure if tupperware containers have the power to imprison them

honest question: what law was broken here?

@StinkRatsCharms And then "gay sex is different because men are larger". Like, okay??? I knew the infantilization of women was still a problem in our society, but I didn't know it was going to spiral in this direction at some point

Im sorry, I know these people are probably quite young, but "as a feminist I'm going to explain to you why women have weaker butts" is just not an argument I ever expected to encounter. I thought I'd heard it all, almost, and found the almost on this site

@pupmillyy It's weird when the people saying it genuinely believe it. Like, if you don't believe you deserve that love, then why not grow into the person you think does deserve it?

“ you deserve better “ is such an odd way of saying you aren’t worth changing for

@HazelAppleyard She'd have to elaborate on it further. Does she mean she wouldn't do something with him sexually she'd be willing to do with other people? Or does it stack? Like she'd want to do the same sexual things she wanted to do with other people and also marry him in addition to that?

Was what she said really that bad?

@RealPostFolder It’s either the praying or because she showed a level of empathy and care that the HR lady and the boss aren’t capable of

@alex_q111 I always thought "cumming" was the grammatically correct version, but I just looked it up and apparently both "cumming" and "coming" are correct slang terms

should i start using the word “cumming” instead of “coming” in my fics? the word “cumming” freaks me out for some reason

@edstrawbaby If a therapist finds they aren’t equipped to help you with your problems, they’re supposed to refer you to someone else and keep the fact they felt triggered to themselves. Find a better one, there are therapists who won’t get triggered and can help

my therapist told me i triggered her :(((( wtf do i do ab that

@SilverShiny And on top of everything else you said, the killer could have believably killed without the disease since it was baked into her character the possibility of the killing game getting to her

BUENO, CAPITULO 3 TERMINADO TREMENDO BODRIO DE FINAL (salvo eso último que SIGO procesando...). La resolución es una estupidez, el motivo es una estupides, ni siquiera la ejecución fue buena. Y es una genuina lastima porque había empezado TAN bien y con TANTO potencial.

The only thing I'm really worried about when it comes to 2x2 is the possibility that the characters won't feel the same

@nyaraVT It sounds like some people are scared of sex and trying to make it everyone else's problem

I find it fascinating that radfems think that peak feminism is when women shame other women for the things that men shame women for..

@alvarvacker I've been convinced he's going to be a two time survivor. It gave him resolution with Sonia, so this time he'll survive with Gundham

my no.1 2x2 hot take is that i want kazuichi to be a survivor again just because i think it’d be funny.

@kazmikeytok It depends on the rules of their relationship. Flirting is something that can be a gray area, for some couples it's 100% cheating, for others it's only cheating if there is intent behind it. Personally, I'd say flirting is cheating

Is flirting with oomf online while they are dating someone irl considered cheating?

@livvmeow This can happen as a result of low self-esteem. If someone thinks of themselves as trash they think poorly of those who love them since they subconsciously perceive it as a sign that the person who loves them can’t do better than them and is therefor trash or worse than trash

Why do men start to dislike you when you show them unconditional love