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@ShitpostRock2 Why do right wingers all hate dark souls 2? Every single person who shits on it happens to be conservative. DS2 is like a political compass test.

''Yea i think Dark souls 2 is better than Dark souls 3''

@murkulous @boogietothemax I’m sure the game in which one of the main bosses has an exposed bleeding womb after being forced with a child from an outer god has nothing to do with motherhood. Or when you fight said child’s wet nurse. This is like saying dark souls has nothing to do with fire. Idiotic

@boogietothemax Bloodborne is about cool ass aliems and their relation with humans. Humans include mothers. But it isn't about motherhood.

Boy it sure is weird how no one was saying this type of stuff about the game prior to 2024 when a bunch of people dropped video essays with the exact same rhetoric

@billyteeth @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry But the only thing that makes that more reasonable is your feelings. You simply feel it more acceptable for one to satiate their lust with other women but to not satiate their romance with other women. It’s fine to feel that way but hypocritical to find sexual devotion absurd .

@Light08314198 @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry Yeah I mean it’s simply reasonable to say hey don’t be in a relationship with anyone but me since we’re monogamous, even if you have like a crush on a guy at work. That’s actually probably a situation that just jacking off to some porn would resolve easily

this whole "should you watch porn in a relationship" discourse could be solved if y'all just realized you're supposed to sit down and set clear boundaries with your partner that you're both comfortable with

@billyteeth @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry What about romance, what makes demanding romantic devotion to some one more reasonable than sexual devotion? Can’t one argue that it’s normal to want to be romantically intimate with multiple people? You can’t say romantic devotion is fine and sexual devotion isn’t, hypocritical

@Light08314198 @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry It’s obviously much more reasonable to ask somebody to not have sex with anybody else than to ask them to never masturbate to pornography. Everyone is gonna be having sexual thoughts about a variety of people they encounter, and it’s normal and healthy to jack off about it

@reverse_faults @billyteeth @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry Yeah I agree, I’m just saying it’s hypocritical for a monogamous couple to act like another monogamous couple is crazy for being sexually devoted to each other, while they themselves see nothing wrong with demanding emotional devotion to themselves

@Light08314198 @billyteeth @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry You can ask whatever you want, you just can't be upset if the other person isn't interested in continuing a relationship that operates along those parameters. People aren't owed romantic relationships with specific individuals 🤷‍♂️

@reverse_faults @billyteeth @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry I agree, I just don’t see how someone can demand emotional devotion from their partner while also thinking sexual devotion an absurd thing to ask. As a monogamous person, I find it hypocritical for other monogamous people to act like not watching porn is too much to ask.

@Light08314198 @billyteeth @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry It can, which is why poly couples exist lol. If only one partner is oriented that way the relationship won't work, hence the importance of discussing all of this with each other.

@billyteeth @dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry How can this argument not be applied to monogamy. Can’t one argue that is excessive to try to control one’s romantic thoughts to just one person with this logic? I think it’s a hypocritical opinion that one can satisfy their lust with multiple women but not romance with others

@dee1yume @ANerdNamedJerry I think it’s understandable to *want* that, like emotionally. But you just can’t have total control and ownership over a person like that, it’s delusional to think anyone could just turn their brain off to all sexual attraction but one person. That level of control is excessive

@jakeblennings A large chunk of the world does live by it and even if it didn’t that’s not somehow going to change my mind. Whether it’s unhealthy or not, you can apply pretty much all your points to be against the idea of monogamy. I say this as a monogamous person

@Light08314198 Again do what you wanna do but I’m just saying it’s not a standard most people prefer to live by and a lot of the time it’s not based on a healthy mindset.

I don’t quite consider watching porn to be the same as cheating but I genuinely wonder what these people would think if hypothetically, their partner were to have unromantic and unemotional sex with a sex worker with minimal to no communication. Is that not cheating to them?

@jakeblennings Having a partner at all is an extra wrench in the system and that’s okay. Healthy life is built around wrenches in the system. One could argue you’re insecure for preferring a monogamous relationship. There’s a difference between insecurities and preferences

@Light08314198 I’m not saying having this insecure of a standard is impossible but it’s certainly an extra wrench in the system

@jakeblennings The idea that there can never be a relationship between two people who are sexually and romantically devoted to each other is absurd. There’s honestly no way you truly believe this

@Light08314198 I believe time will decide that not you lol

@jakeblennings Well you’re objectively and empirically wrong, just straight up.

@Light08314198 And I find it doomed to fail so agree to disagree

@jakeblennings I think it’s quite special for two people to be sexually and romantically devoted to each other so thanks

@Light08314198 And good luck with that ❤️

@jakeblennings Well yeah because porn is objectively not physical infidelity. Do what you want dude but to me, the idea of getting off to another woman’s body who isn’t my partner makes me want to vomit.

@Light08314198 Yeah everyone has different boundaries but I can safely say the vast majority of people see porn and physical infidelity as two different things sorry to say

@jakeblennings Dude everyone knows this, trying to act like you’re talking to a child doesn’t somehow make my points less valid. If it being completely tangible is where you draw the line in cheating then that’s fine, but don’t act like it’s crazy for people to think different or like a vidgame

@Light08314198 Porn is fantasy. Sex is real life. I truly do not know how to make it more clear so if this doesn’t get through to you I give up.

@jakeblennings Boiling down sexual pleasure to just “joy” is the only way your argument works

@Light08314198 Joy can be achieved by eating and by doing heroine. We can do this all day your logic is extremely flawed.

@jakeblennings But getting on orgasm can be achieved by both porn and sex. Killing someone can’t be achieved on gta nor the urge to alleviated

@Light08314198 Not inherently and that’s exactly what I’m saying. People that watch porn don’t inherently want to sleep with another person other than their partner

@jakeblennings Do you think people who play GTA genuinely want the feeling of committing crime

@Light08314198 The same difference that separates killing in gta and killing in real life. The real life part.

@jakeblennings What makes having unemotional sex with a sex worker different from watching porn? Is it quite legit just the woman being present as compared to on the screen?

@Light08314198 Romantic interactions with another person yes like emotional or physical adultery. Not a one-way entertainment source no I do not consider that cheating.

@jakeblennings I mean they are both painkillers, philosophically they can be argued to be the same. Is your definition of cheating legit only physical intimacy with another person?

@Light08314198 Tylenol and advil can alleviate the same pain symptoms too but that doesn’t mean they’re the same thing

@jakeblennings It’s not a contradiction, I’m saying that killing a civilian in a game isn’t responding to the same urge to kill irl. Whereas getting off to other woman online is responding to the same urge sex with a partner can alleviate.

@Light08314198 You hear your own contradiction in this right? “People don’t play gta as an outlet to kill but people watch porn as an outlet to cheat” both of these are separated by the fact that it’s fantasy/entertainment.