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As a man,

As a man,

Major cheat code in life; Be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser. Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.

A poor man's greetings are mistaken as begging. Make a lot of money. You'll save yourself from a lot of disrespect.

Open an egg shop in front of a gym. Open a laundry service in front of a corporate office. Open a mini golf center in front of a car wash. Open a toy shop in front of a children's hospital. Open a pharmacy next to a hospital. Open a car wash center in front of a shopping mall. Open a barber shop in front of a car wash center. Open a pharmacy close to a medical lab center Open a large scale condom shop in front of a university Open a fast food kiosk near a bus stop or a mass transit Open a flower shop next to a wedding or event venue Open an ice cream/juice stand outside a park or children playground Open a dry-cleaning service near an apartment complex Open a pet shop near a veterinary clinic Open an ice vending or cold drinks kiosk near a construction site Open a snack or drink stand near a cinema or theater Move where money is. That's how you get rich.

HOW TO COMMAND RESPECT AS A MAN; 1. Never let anyone hear you complain. Your feelings are irrelevant to others; do what needs to be done with a smile on your face. 2. Act with irrational self-belief. It doesn’t matter if others say you can’t, since you know you can. Ignore their opinions; you can do anything. 3. Admit when you are wrong. You don’t know everything. Own up to your mistakes as quickly as possible as it’s the fastest way for you to learn. 4. Progress is made through iteration. If you claim you’re going to do something, hold yourself responsible. Your reputation is your sole asset. 5. Control your emotions. Your emotions cloud your judgment. People will look to you for guidance and leadership. Don’t react; be decisive. 6. Meaningful influence. Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs, and lead them.

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As a man,

Go to the gym, Even if you’re tired. Start that business, Even if you’re poor. Invest in education, Even if you’re broke. Approach that girl, Even if you’re shy. Do that work, Even if you’re unmotivated. You're a man, Find a way to get things done.

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Fuck being shy. Fuck being an introvert. Strangers will make you rich. Start networking. You're a man. Silence is impolite. Make small talk everywhere you go. You never know what kind of connections you'll create. Closed mouths don't get fed.

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1. Porn = loneliness sold as sex 2. Alcohol = escape sold as fun 3. Drugs = numbness sold as peace 4. Scrolling = distraction sold as rest 5. Fast food = poison sold as pleasure 5. Luxury = emptiness sold as purpose 7. Smoking = addiction sold as relaxation 8. Notifications = control sold as importance 9. Social media = validation sold as friendship Try this instead; > Travel > Meditate > Get sleep > Teach others > Learn to cook > Keep a journal > Seek mentorship > Learn a new language > Call your parents > Practice gratitude > Listen to podcasts > Cut off toxic people > Practice forgiveness > Groom yourself properly > Reflect on accomplishments > Don't care what others think > Practice/learn about religion > Have the courage to make mistakes This should be peak living experience, right?

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Bro to bro 1. Dress well no matter what the occasion 2. Never take credit for work you didn't do. 3. Take the blame, and give credit when due. 4. Always carry cash. 5. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy. 6. Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you. 7. Never insult the cooking when you are the guest. 8. If you are not invited, don't ask to go. 9. Always aim for the head. Never beg for a relationship or a deal. 11. Never shake a hand sitting down. 12. Never make the first offer in a negotiation. 13. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact. 14. Show restraint in expressing anger, no matter what. Being angry is a waste of energy. 15. Whether is dinner, drinks, or both, avoid placing your phone on the dinner table. 16. Never pose with alcohol. 17. Proper grammar will get you far in life. Leave the foul language for the less educated. 18. Ask more than you answer. 19. You can tell a great deal about a person by their handshake, so make your strong and firm. 20. Speak honestly. Say what you mean and mean what you say. 21. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy. 22. When someone else is paying for your food, never order something expensive

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As a man, from age 20 - 35, 1. Spend as little time at home as possible 2. Stake zero emotional investment in things that are yet to come 3. Only drink/party if you have something worth celebrating 4. Legit never be upset about a girl, you can always find someone hotter/cooler 5. Most “friendships” at your age are proximity, not loyalty. Don’t confuse the two until someone proves otherwise 6. Never explain yourself to people who don’t have what you want 7. Go somewhere alone, different city, different country. You don’t know who you actually are until there’s no one around who already decided 8. The men you admire who are ~40 didn’t get there by being reasonable in their 20s 9. Audition, fight, pitch, approach. Shame tolerance is an actual skill 10. If you have a dream, stop at nothing to actualize it. Letting anything get in the way is failure of the highest regard