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In other words, People advocate for strategy based on the trade off they prefer making.

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@Saxena5p @SamSiff Do you believe that men who unilaterally want a no fault divorce should not have to pay anything?

@SamSiff Taking alimony is a bigger sin

Set a reminder for my upcoming Space! x.com/i/spaces/1pkqr… If dowry is a sin, then dowry givers are sinners too. Why are only receivers blamed while families proudly spend huge amounts to “buy” social status, rich grooms, and elite family connections? Why is no one questioning the mindset that treats marriage like a financial deal? Join us for an open discussion on dowry, hypergamy, status obsession, and the hidden hypocrisy in modern Indian marriages.

@prabhakar003 @venom1s it's one of their rituals during nikkah in Islam// I think you are referring to mehr but that is to be paid from groom to bride.

@venom1s I have never seen a muslim married guy charged for taking dowry, though it's one of their rituals during nikkah in Islam.

I won't take a single rupee as dowry. But, I also won't give a single rupee as alimony.

@Porkchop_EXP What about the GCC?

The poorer the country the more you’re expected to feed other people. It’s not complicated - even on this map you can clearly see this correlates (inveserly) with economic prosperity.

@thesurepath1 But you did not explain the criteria you used to come up with the ranking.

Read the replies to understand how Muslim minds are colonized. We need a practical solution to the inferiority complex, otherwise it will be hard to move forward. With that being said, I can see plenty of proud Muslims who are awake and aware of the Western manipulation and brainwashing. Alhamdulillah.

Bruh, who tf Claude think he is

There is a difference between considering something and actually doing that something. To actually do something you must first consider doing it.

- Consistency The same input should produce the same output repeatedly under the same conditions. Random fluctuation undermines trust. - Proportionality Changes in the measured thing should correspond appropriately to changes in the result. 3/

- Calibration to a true reference The scale must be anchored to something objectively known. Without a reference point, “accuracy” has no meaning. -Sensitivity without distortion It must detect differences that genuinely exist while avoiding exaggeration or suppression. 2/

An accurate scale is fundamentally about consistency between reality and measurement. Abstractly, a scale becomes accurate when several underlying qualities are present: 1/

Important thing to note here is that boundaries can play both the function of widening and narrowing the filter funnel.

@oldluth @realrichbo What was the average age of the husbands of the girls that you grew up with?

@realrichbo Not a single girl I grew up with married a man with a lower standard of living than her 20-30 years older father provided her with. A few lucked out early, still more had to wait until their 30s/40s when the bachelors were earning more, and many are still unmarried.

The women are very mad about this because it goes against their core operating principle ("More!!!"). The truth is that women are programmed to not accept a lower standard of living than their baseline at any point, ever. A woman's thermostat for what standard of living is acceptable is set in her father's house. If he sets that thermostat too high she won't likely find a young man who can clear the bar, leading her to postpone marriage (perhaps indefinitely) as she searches for someone who can. This problem is aggravated in our time by the fact that Boomer affluence set the thermostat for Millennial/Gen Z girls to a civilizational record high while concurrently Millennial/Gen Z boy jobs were being offshored, given to foreigners, or (most especially) given to women. As a result, Millennial/Gen Z men pale comedically in earning potential compared to their peer women's fathers. Learning from this involves the current generation of fathers being intentional about where they set the standard of living thermostat for their daughters. Not to open the door to every Tom, Dick, and Harry, but to ensure that there's more of a pool of men for their daughter to feel comfortable choosing than the 6 foot 6 figures crowd, which statistically prohibits most women from marrying if adhered to. If you love your daughter, you won't raise her such that she can only find happiness by being one of the few who lands a man in the top 1% of the bell curve. This is basic common sense, which is why most people in my mentions don't understand it.

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@coachdebruyns What inspired this post?

Societies operate at various complex levels. We tend to talk about one layer of society only because we actually lack the ability to see all the layers.

@omar_dddg x.com/i/status/20541… See this. At the end of the day, there are allowable courses of action whose pros and cons differ as per context. Another example being endogamy vs exogamy.

@Livinginthis Weak argument, implies the Quran allows the weakening of Islam.

Why do a lot of the same Muslims who say stuff like: criticising polygyny is Haram and Kufr also criticise a Muslim man marrying a Jewish or Christian woman? Keeping in mind the conditions in the Quran for marrying a Kitabiya were much softer than marrying multiple women.

@omar_dddg In the current era, where some non Muslim groups are dominant, they may also feel that their marriage/divorce code disadvantages them as Muslims 2/

@omar_dddg I have not personally come across the category you are describing, but if I were to speculate, it may be that this group views polygyny and marrying Muslim women as actions that strengthen or advance Islam.1/

This chart hurt my head at first. What makes a good trademark? Test the trademark of your business or your employer against this 1950 graphic.

Another source of conflict is peoples' different approaches to dealing with stress.