Login Noggin

"All change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and beautiful in the end. " -Robin Sharma

@waysofawinner @sxhealth101

@sxhealth101 If you are distracted in the gym you are not training hard enough

Single men who go to the gym, how do you control your sexual urges, because going to the gym makes you horny 24/7. How do you survive?

In divorce, women are more likely to cite: Domestic violence/abuse (emotional, physical, verbal): Significantly higher for women (e.g., 44% vs. 8% for men in one study; also noted in Amato & Previti).0c0233 Emotional neglect, lack of affection/support, poor communication, or feeling unappreciated. Unequal division of housework/childcare and traditional gender roles. Overall lower relationship quality/satisfaction. Infidelity (common for both, but often framed in relational context). Growing apart or incompatibility. Men are more likely to cite (or report at similar/higher rates in some areas): Growing apart or differing interests/values. Infidelity (sometimes higher emphasis). Conflict/arguing. External factors like finances or in-laws (in some older studies)

@Cr7Godbrand Widowed women also have a better quality of life than windowed men.

I’ve never seen a video of a man celebrating his divorce. Never seen a man set up ring light to announce his divorce and blame his wife. I’ve never seen a man talk about a ‘divorce glow-up.’ I’ve never seen a man celebrate putting his own happiness above his family. I’ve never seen a man proudly leave his marriage and family to ‘find himself.’ I rarely see men openly talk about stress related to mental load or emotional labor, especially as fathers. I’ve never seen a man leave a relationship because his partner didn’t keep him in his ‘masculine era.’ Why is it always women? Why is it always you? Why can’t you just move on silently like the man?

I don't quite understand your post. Both men and women face endless bills, loneliness, and other challenges whether they're married or not. Single men often pay for sex—through OnlyFans, pornography (where they make up about 70% of consumers), or other means—and that money typically goes to women. When men pursue women, the primary driver is usually physical attraction rather than values or character, and the same factor often plays a role in cheating. That said, around 18% of stay-at-home parents in the U.S. are now fathers. Maybe we should focus more on promoting better communication and clear boundaries upfront, so people can better identify and avoid incompatibility early on.

Married men are quietly suffering in silence every single day. He wakes up next to a woman who barely respects him, works a job he hates to pay bills that never end, and comes home to nagging, complaints, and zero affection. Sex is a negotiation he has to earn. His opinions are dismissed and the wife never listens to his words. He’s trapped in a contract where she has all the power and he carries all the weight. One wrong move and the divorce courts will bleed him dry - house, kids, savings, gone. Most married men aren’t happy. They’re just too scared to admit how miserable they’ve become. Wake up before it’s your turn. Marriage is a cage sold as paradise.

@cyrilXBT Where is privacy and proprietary in your post?

THE JOB MARKET IS ABOUT TO GET WEIRD. And most people are not prepared for what is coming. Companies in 2026 are not looking for data scientists. They are not looking for ML engineers. They are not looking for people who can build models from scratch. THEY ARE LOOKING FOR AI NERDS. The person who walks into a meeting, sees a 4 hour manual process, and kills it in 10 minutes with Claude Code and LLMs. The person who refuses to do anything manually twice. The person who looks at every repetitive task and asks one question: Why is a human still doing this. That mindset is worth more right now than a machine learning PhD. More than five years of Python experience. More than any certification from any university. THE NEW VALUABLE SKILL IS NOT TECHNICAL. It is a refusal to accept inefficiency. The people who develop that refusal this year will be completely unemployable in the old way and completely irreplaceable in the new one. Which side of that line are you on.

Hey Ashley, it would be good to know about you and how you make a change in the world. I know a lot of people who feel passionate and volunteer annually to save women and children from trafficking, engineers who build systems for underdeveloped regions around the world etc. Good people exist.

I cannot do surface level conversations. I don’t know how to relate to people who don’t see what’s going on. Who still think life is “normal”.

@_falsi1ke Mothers will blind themselves, so a wife for sure.

Between a wife and a mother, who do you think truly knows a man’s real character better?

Survivors of narcissistic abuse often carry a level of anger or rage for what their abusers did to them that feels overwhelming, explosive, and incredibly painful to carry and contain and it can feel like that anger and that pain will never go away. But this anger is actually a deeply healthy and intelligent response to being chronically violated and is part of the healing process. Narcissists attack a person’s dignity, safety, identity, and stability for years. They steal reality, twist intention, and dismantle a survivor’s sense of self. Anger shows up because the body finally recognizes, “What happened to me was a severe violation of my humanity.” Processing this anger isn’t about suppressing it or “forgiving” the abuser—it’s about giving yourself the justice, validation, and internal protection you never received. 🧵

Apart from marrying a good person,also pray that you marry into a good family, Family matters a lot.

@EmilySm43 No, they only care when they like someone.

Be brutally honest 🤔

@Allen54_sanders @DanielMMcGinn @Rach4Patriarchy He quite literally explained the extent of abuse in his post, which explains why this happens.

@DanielMMcGinn @Rach4Patriarchy That maybe true for some, but explain why some call the police and don’t testify and during the time they suppose to have no contact, contact the accused to get him to stay with them? Some are legit cases and some use law enforcement to manipulate.

In relationships where there is one sided violence, the woman is the aggressor 70% of the time. This proves that MOST men are benevolent, and women know they are safe enough to feel comfortable doing this ALL THE TIME.

"One thing that became clearer as I got older: People are not beautiful for how they look or speak. They’re beautiful for how they love, care and treat others.” ~Unknown

@AdamLaneSmith Why do you think that is?

Most men cannot pass the test of being a reliable and consistent partner for a lifelong relationship.

Genuine laughter lowers cortisol, raises endorphins, boosts natural killer cell activity, reduces arterial inflammation, and improves HRV. The people in your life who make you laugh aren't just fun to be around. They are literally extending your healthspan. Protect those relationships. Prioritize them.

@pynkswt @ReclaimD1 To put it in simple terms: there is a warning sign stating, "Do not cross this gate because you will be eaten by a pack of lions," yet you decide to cross it anyway.

@pynkswt @ReclaimD1 I agree it's ok to be upset. But don't also act like you didn't know.

Modern woman attempts to do a casual hookup situationship and gets her heart absolutely shattered 😂. Women think they can have meaningless emotionless S🐱X like men can only to get their heart broken then have a pessimistic mindset when it comes to dating for the rest of their lives. The dire consequences of being a H🐱3 🤭👑

@pynkswt @ReclaimD1 Yes. Crying is a human emotion. I am not stating she is manipulating. I simply don't understand her statement, "he knew, I wanted more," if she knew what he wanted and how they misaligned, yet she pursued an intimate relationship with him.

@Loginthenoggin @ReclaimD1 have you people never cried over something you knew you couldn’t change? it’s a common tandem it’s not some manipulation tactic for sympathy, it’s just called being heartbroken

It's a huge misalignment in values. People seem to put themselves in their own misery and then accuse the other party of knowing and manipulating them or taking advantage of them when the truth was there. She clearly states this in the beginning, only to finally hear that the misalignment was having children, which she does not want. That is huge.

@Loginthenoggin @ReclaimD1 she never said it was his fault she’s just sad abt it 💀