@WickedNFine My child wouldn’t be going either. Don’t want her around that.
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Uh huh.. But like your mom should’ve been teaching you that just because your friend became a teen mom, doesn’t mean she should be treated as an abomination. & That was the time she needed all of the support she could get.
Pattagold 🐱✨@everytimeigoout
A girl stopped being my friend cause my mom didn't let me go to her baby shower. I was 14 and she was 15. I was sad and upset then and blamed her for me losing my friend but now I understand her saying why should a 15 y.o. have a baby shower. 😐🤷🏿♀️
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@mssperfecttttt I don’t care. As long as it’s in the guest room and I don’t hear it 😂
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@FridayFoster05 @ksdotlewis Yeah I know. I have that. Because he’s mine, not somebody’s husband 😂
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@LooveIm @ksdotlewis I get the vitriol...but you really can get a pretty decent version of a man, I mean 🤷🏾♀️considering...he's calm, funny, charming, eager to help, generous, resourceful, an attentive and passionate lover, not a headache, can't smother you...🤷🏾♀️ its a good time, you should try it
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Side chicks get the best version of a man because when he’s with her he’s carefree.
There’s no bills.
There’s no kids.
There’s no work.
No responsibility.
The company of a side is to escape the reality of actual life.
It’s easy to treat a man well when all he expects from you is sex. Throw a home cooked meal in every now and then and he’s going to feel like a king.
Even if his wife is home doing the same thing, her presence still comes with the stress of his responsibilities.
Sonia@BalogunSonia4
Why do side chicks know how to treat a man better than their actual wives do? I really want to know. 🤔
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@Balladotkom @DrewFoxingt0n Exactly 😂 they making shit up now. Bc if you know you and this man are just fucking and you single out here fucking casually, why would you not be on and using birth control. That’s a common sense and birth control issue.
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@DrewFoxingt0n This is not the space for this topic lol getting to know who you’re casually seeing a bit better doesn’t change the bm bd dynamic lmao most separated couples with kids were actual couples lmao
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This whole casual sex conversation is exactly why yall end up with baby mommas and baby daddies yall hate. Yall never took the time to hold a conversation with the people you fucking.
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@NinaPanickssery The grandparents are at work. You’re assuming everyone’s parents are retired and available.
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@anonymitee_____ @timidivy I don’t think there’s any confusion. I think men simply don’t want to do it and women aren’t willing to accept that reality.
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@DrewFoxingt0n Apparently it is hard for y’all or you wouldn’t have to lie about wanting casual sex 😂
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Yall acting like it’s hard to get one of these bum was niggas to call you “girlfriend” 😭
MS.JAZZY@MsJazzybelle
The girls are redefining what “casual sexual relationships” mean, because that’s all they’re getting and that’s ok…but keep the rest of us out of your bs sister
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@kgurlballin You sound delusional. I don’t date married men, I have no qualms in this discussion. You’re a bird 🐦 have a good day
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@LooveIm You sound hurt and you’re projecting. Have a good day babe.
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You totally misinterpreted,
babe@LooveIm
@ksdotlewis The fact that a woman can convince herself that a man’s best version is him being a cheater and hiding her in the shadows just shows how stupid y’all are. Men don’t have to lie to you, you lie to yourselves. You’re a piece of ass to him. That’s it.
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@kgurlballin But you don’t know how presents to his wife to even make a comparison about who’s getting the “better” version. Y’all like fucking married men and have convinced yourselves that you’re the better woman in this scenario meanwhile he’s probably fucking multiple other women.
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@LooveIm She’s merely talking about how he presents himself and his energy. Especially men who hide that they are in a relationship
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@ksdotlewis I know woman who got mad that the man she was sleeping with was cheating on his wife with other women and not just her. Lol she thought she was special. Y’all so fuckin stupid.
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@ksdotlewis The fact that a woman can convince herself that a man’s best version is him being a cheater and hiding her in the shadows just shows how stupid y’all are. Men don’t have to lie to you, you lie to yourselves. You’re a piece of ass to him. That’s it.
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@ebereobua Seriously 😂 I’ve been saying that all day. Why are we redefining words in an attempt to prove to men you’re ok with casual sex. You don’t like that shit. So say that and date men who want a relationship like you do. Too old for this.
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@blixberrie Because they want a relationship and apparently the only way they can get one is manipulating and lying. If you want a relationship, say that. Stop pretending you’re down with casual sex. It’s ok to not be.
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Why do you need dates to sustain the desire to keep fucking? That’s not your man 😂
Lee@AccordingToLee
Casual sex doesn’t mean not getting to have experiences together. What do you think sustains the desire to keep fucking? Being treated like a doormat?
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@fairyh0re @BeyondBeautiful All of that is irrelevant. If that person is at a place in life where all they want is sex then that’s what it is. If u want more then y’all aren’t on the same page. &both are okay. The point is, be honest about the type of connection ur seeking instead of trying to redefine shit
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@LooveIm @BeyondBeautiful Sex with no mental connection gets boring FAST. Nobody’s saying fall in love, but if you’re not even trying to learn each other, of course it won’t hit the same. That’s why people stay unsatisfied and keep hopping around. It’s not about dates, just basic conversation.
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And the only mf benefiting from that is men
femto@dirtycatlitter
People having causal sex without dates is very funny to me
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@jeffwellz Exactly. Stop trying to manipulate people and redefine shit. Be an adult and be honest about the type of connection you’re seeking.
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I feel like most women need to come to terms with the fact that they can’t do casual sex. And that’s really okay, go find your husband.
Lee@AccordingToLee
Casual sex doesn’t mean not getting to have experiences together. What do you think sustains the desire to keep fucking? Being treated like a doormat?
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@MsJazzybelle That’s what I said 😂 like are you hard pressed for dates to the point that you have to try to manipulate men who just want to fuck into dating you? Like are you not being taken seriously by men ever. Why are you finding this necessary.
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@JadedCourtz Misogyny is why you feel the need to pretend you want casual sex when you know dam well that when a man says that, he is not talking about dating you. Misogyny is why you lack the confidence to be honest about what you want from men. That is something YOU need to unlearn.
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Tbh yes it is lol… any sex outside of an official relationship counts as casual, “dating” doesn’t imply commitment to each other
K@LongLiveK_
That is not casual sex. That is dating. Y’all tryna change the meaning of shit again!
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