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@MADEbyRILYN
글로 쓰는 뷰티, 메이드 바이 릴린💋🖋️💄 언어로서 아름다움을 올올이 푸는 일. 고운 단어들을 골라 나를 재구성하는 일.




A HARVARD psychologist says: “if you’ve achieved nothing by 25, you’ve avoided the most destructive illusion of youth” > In 2021, a Harvard psychologist surprised a lecture hall with an unexpected statement: “If you haven’t accomplished much by 25, you may have escaped one of youth’s biggest illusions.” At first, the room laughed. She wasn’t kidding. > The illusion of early success. In your early 20s, the brain seeks quick proof of worth ~status, attention, rapid achievements. But psychologists warn that chasing recognition too soon can lock people into roles or paths they never consciously chose. They decide too early… and spend years trying to undo it. > The exploration phase. Research on career development suggests that people who explore more before 30 often build stronger long-term directions. Testing ideas. Making mistakes in public. Changing course. At 25 it looks like confusion ….but by 35 it often turns into clarity. People who feel “behind” in their mid-20s frequently gain something others miss: Perspective. Patience. And a clearer sense of what truly matters to them. That foundation often leads to better decisions later on. At the end of the lecture, the psychologist left the students with one final thought: “You’re not meant to have life fully figured out at 25.” “You’re meant to discover who you’re not.”

아니 나도 갑자기ㅡ모공이 개커져서 넘버즈인3번 싹다삼





거울로 드나드는 여자 1,2,3 / 크리스텔 다보스 1권만 읽어보세요 그럼 정신차리고보면 2,3권 다 읽고 하이라이트한 부분만 다시 영원히 읽고 있음< 내 상태 세계관이 정말 탄탄 합니다 굳이 따지자면 반지의 제왕이랑 플롯이 비슷함 하지만 개고생하는게 남주가 아니라 여주라는 부분이 좋음..




내일 드디어 몰리브영이 개장됩니다!♡(트친들이 찐 가정방문 온다는 뜻)