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Mayela HJ
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Mi locura es portentosa. Dueña de mí misma.
Isla Morenita Katılım Eylül 2013
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Mueren peces del parque Alameda por descuido municipal
Decenas de peces murieron en el lago artificial del parque Alameda de Cuernavaca por omisión del personal del Ayuntamiento, al no abrir las compuertas que permiten la entrada de agua limpia y la oxigenación, reconoció Desarrollo Sustentable y Servicios Públicos del municipio.
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Halle Berry e Sandra Bullock foram traídas no dia que ganharam o Oscar
Katy Perry recebeu telefonema pedido divórcio 1h antes do grande show de Copacabana
Traição [em especial nesse meio] não é sobre beleza, é sobre tentar destruir o sucesso do outro.
REAL MIL GRAU@realmilgrauu
Meu mano Piqué é o homem mais otario da história Que isso
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85 to 90 percent of women physicians are eldest daughters.
That is not a coincidence. That is a pipeline.
Eldest daughters are trained, before age five, to over-function. They take on a parent's worry. They organize the family. They clean up without being asked. They do not ask for help, because they were rewarded their whole childhood for not needing any.
Then they walk into medicine.
A career that demands hyper-responsibility, hypervigilance, perfectionism, and silent sacrifice does not have to ask these women to give those things. They were giving them before they could read.
The system is not stumbling into a burnout problem. The system is recruiting from a pool of people whose entire childhood was a training program for it.
This is what pediatrician and certified coach Jessie Mahoney has been finding when she asks the room. In every group, in every retreat. Maybe one or two women are not eldest daughters. The rest have been carrying something since before they could spell their own name.
Most of those women blame themselves. "Why don't I have boundaries?" "Why do I over-function?" "Why can't I delegate?"
Because at five years old, your family rewarded you for over-functioning. Because every teacher praised you for it. Because the medical training system selected for it. Because every job since has reinforced it. The pattern is older than your medical degree by twenty years.
The other piece nobody names: by the time these women are in their fifties, they are carrying eldest-daughter responsibility for aging parents AND running a department as chief AND running a household. The role does not retire when the children do. It just compounds.
Jessie's reframe is the part worth bookmarking.
The "hero" framing is the trap. Eldest daughters were made the savior of the family before they could read. Then medicine made them the savior of the patient. Then the department made them the savior of the team. At every stage, they learned that if they did not do it, terrible things would happen and it would be their fault.
Awareness is the first move. Non-judgment is the second. Excellence is not doing everything yourself. Excellence is letting other people do their jobs.
You are allowed to gift some of it back. You can ask your siblings to carry the aging parent. You can let your medical assistant do the medical assistant's job. You can stop covering the gap that nobody actually asked you to cover.
Most eldest daughters in medicine have never asked for help. When they finally do, they discover people are willing to help. The asking was the whole obstacle.
Listen to the full conversation on The Podcast by KevinMD. Link in the replies.
What is the one task you have been carrying for your family or your team that no one ever actually asked you to carry?
#ThePodcastbyKevinMD

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これは脳科学的にも証明されていて、人は同じ環境に長くいると、脳が「省エネモード(オートパイロット)」に入り、新しい思考回路を使わなくなります。
つまり、見慣れた景色は「脳へのサボり許可証」。
行き詰まった時にカフェに移動したり散歩したりするのは、単なる気分転換ではなく「強制的に脳のオートパイロットを解除する」という、極めて理にかなったハックになります。
思考遊戯@think_hacking
同じ場所に長くいると考え方まで固定されていきます。部屋、席、カフェ、通勤ルート。毎日同じ配置で過ごしていると発想が狭くなるのは自然なことです。 人は見慣れた風景の中では判断を省略します。省略は効率的ですが新しい結論は生まれません。行き詰まりを感じたときに環境を変えるのは気分転換ではなく、思考の再起動です。考えが停滞している日は考え方を変えるより、立っている場所を変えたほうが効果が出ることがあります。
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#ULTIMAHORA
En completa obscuridad se encuentran las Instalaciones del Metro de Ciudad de México 🇲🇽 @MetroCDMX
Usuarios Denuncian miedo y preocupación al transitar por los pasillos del #MetroCDMX 🚨
Los Usuarios tienen usar la lámpara 🔦 de sus celulares para alumbrar su camino‼️⚠️
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Cada árbol excesivamente podado, cada árbol que cortan, cada vez que siembran 3 arbolillos pinches para "reemplazar" un árbol de 30 años, es dispararse a los pies.
Como ciudad, como pais, como mundo.
Héctor Velázquez@hectorvelazhv
Con el calor tan intenso que se vive en la CDMX y en gran parte del país, debería ser obligatorio que arquitectos, constructores y desarrolladores incorporen vegetación en los proyectos urbanos, adaptándolo siempre al contexto climático de cada región.
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