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Marthah🧚‍♀️

@Marthaaaaaaah

Singer and song writer On Code OUT NOW!

...in your heart❤ Katılım Ekim 2021
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Marthah🧚‍♀️@Marthaaaaaaah·
My first performance last night @ Eko hotel Peep that entrance😌🔥 Ya girl is a performer 🔥 Tags: #AppleEvent Cécred Jayz
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Deja💮@unblockmebbypls·
Pussy so tight when he pull out it sounds like champagne pop .
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🧚@paloma_datgirl·
What other abilities does Airbending have asides this?
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Mazị Ifenna
Mazị Ifenna@Mazi_Ifenna·
I learnt something profound in my last romantic relationship a while ago. This has helped me a lot. Then, when my girl came to me complaining about a situation, my immediate approach was to proffer logical and practical solutions to the problem. And to me, it was the best thing to do. Why gloss over the problem when we could use the time to find possible solutions? For instance, let's say she complains that her income is no longer enough to sort her daily expenses. My response would be something like “let’s apply for a better job” or “find a side hustle, I can help you set it up.” Something like that. I was being solution oriented, and I thought that was what she wanted by sharing the situation with me. And then one day, she told me something that troubled me. She said "Ifenna, you are a great guy, but I don't feel safe with you." All my efforts to understand what she meant proved abortive, and after much trial, I shrugged it off. This lack of "emotional safety" would later become the reason we broke up after six months. When things ended, I took a cooling period of three months to do some self-assessment and healing. During that time, I read books. I consulted my female friends on how I could do things better. In that process, I learnt a new approach. So when I met this one whom I am currently in talks with, I decided to try the new approach. When she comes to me complaining about a situation, I avoid offering solutions immediately. Rather, I offer emotional safety. How? I simply join her in insulting or criticizing the people who created the problem. Take the previous example again. Now, my response would no longer be "let's apply for a new job". That is not what she needs at that moment. My response would be something like “your company is so wicked. How can they pay you such a ridiculous amount?” or “you are worth more than this girl. They don’t deserve you”. And then she goes "Do you get? Even last year..." Notice anything? More details. With this approach, I subtly invite her to share more, creating a safe space where she can ventilate those emotions. Yesterday, I got an interesting feedback from her. She said "I feel very safe with you." Same situation. Different feedbacks. My theory is that what women want in moments of emotional despair is not solutions. Its emotional safety. Sometimes, she just wants to let it out (because the emotion is killing her inside). I know that as a man, your immediate instinct is to think of solutions, but if you offer it at that moment, you interrupt that process of emotional purgation. Offer the solution later, when the atmosphere is lighter. In essence, do not just listen to what your woman is saying. Listen to what she is not saying. I know all women are different, and it may be difficult to state this as a rule. But I have shared this with a few ladies in my circle, and they confirm that there is truth in it. Perhaps, there are some general principles that apply to women. This could be one.
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Gabonie
Gabonie@soultie1988·
"Zombie way na one way jo ŕa joʻ" These guys did justice to the choreography of Zombie by Fela. They took the dancing personal. I never expected the ending.
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Daniela
Daniela@_wej01·
I just saw a post where a Girl said, A random kid just hugged me at the mall. He must have been about 8. He gave me a tight hug, smiled at me, said "thank you", and walked away. Me to his mom: Wow, you have a really friendly kid. Boy's mom: *visbly shocked* Uhm... no. He's autistic. He doesn't let just anyone near him. The last time he did that, it was to my sister, and she turned out to be pregnant. Anyway, I apologize on my son's behalf, bye now. Me:
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CandyLove🍭@DazylingQueeen·
GUESS THE PHONE THAT HAVE THIS CHARGING INDICATOR
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praise john@praisejohnn·
Jesus ! No be my body be this ?
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H🎀@ykbprst·
Dark skin>>>
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H🎀@ykbprst·
Being Light skinned is a cheat code fr Now @grok change her to dark skin let’s see the difference.
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stressed@onlystresstoday·
Ever lost interest in someone you really liked because of bad communication and unmatched energy?
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Sir Dickson
Sir Dickson@Wizarab10·
You don’t need to ask. You should stop asking. How you know you’ve fucked with a girl’s mind is that, she goes out to fuck someone else and you’re the only one on her mind. You’re now the yardstick with which she measures sexual performance. She will be back. She will hate you for making her unable to enjoy sex with other people and have to come back to you to get her thrill, and she won’t be able to stop herself from fucking you. She might go ahead to date other men or even marry, but you’ll always own that pussy. Sometimes, the reason your babe is often “not in the mood” is that you’ve become a waste of body count, because you’re forever in competition with a man you’ll never know, and will never live up to the man that hold her mentally captive. A good sex for a man is still just a good sex. Variety is more important to men. A good sex for a woman is colonialism.
Tank@TimsDatDude

“Whose pussy is this” has never crossed my mind to say during sex. Not once, I’m good lol

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Sci_Interest@Brian_Ybzee·
@jiggyjayy2 So good sex ain't enough to sustain a relationship, you got to have good character too🤔🤔
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