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@hell_line0 Harry Potter is an interesting case study because it’s a woman writing a male protagonist. How often does that occur?

Men’s “cultivated ignorance” is Patriarchal sexist bias: Research confirms that while women read books by women and men equally, men overwhelmingly reject books written by women in favour of male authors.

@esther_stan Lie of omission- purposely leaving out relevant information with the intent to deceive

Once did this with a guy I was talking with for four months . It was our second date and we decided to watch movies and eat takeouts at his house . He picked me up and we were having such a romantic evening until we kissed. I just wanted to kiss and kiss , but the moment I told him I was on my period , he got angry and booked an uber for me ……I’ve never been sent home so fast in my life. It gave me a brain reset

@AsaditoRojo @esther_stan The assumption you’re making is that she didn’t want to disappoint him. That getting him turned on knowing she wasn’t going further & purposefully hiding that information from him to get a reaction wasn’t part of how she wanted the evening to unfold.

@esther_stan Not defending him being rude but on occassions like this, girls always have told me sooner than later like “Hey, just so you know, I am on my period, so we can have fun but manage your expectations” and it’s great. Maybe waiting until he is turned on isn’t great communication?

@bibzyCarter No science but a tenet of radical feminism is ‘no woman should do anything for the expressed pleasure of a man.’

Why are many unmarried ladies angry when when wives say they take care of their husbands? What's the science behind it?

@djinn_the @afroanalytic I don’t think you have to be super femme for folks to perceive you as gay. That perception whether it’s true or not leads to kid glove treatment

@Million2RC @afroanalytic Only of they are super femme and even then they are supported like a pet or a joke. If anything, black girl reinforce the ostrasization by painting str8 guys with gay friends as DL. After I was outed I had friends id go fishing with who ended up with gay rumors.

The “antiblack misandry” thesis collapses the moment you introduce sexuality. Black gay boys outperform straight Black boys despite greater marginalization, which means the mechanism is not hostility to boys—it’s something else entirely. The recent research on sexuality, race & educational outcomes completely shatters this thesis. Black gay high school boys outperform straight black boys while experiencing worse discrimination & mental health challenges in school than straight boys.  Antiblack misandry can’t explain this because the theory would have to incorporate heteronormativity/masculinity norms, not just “misandry.” Gay boys outperform straight boys & often close gender gaps. In some cases, gay boys match or even EXCEED the educational outcomes of straight girls, despite greater marginalization. Misandry can’t explain that, because the framework would imply gay boys would actually perform worse—they perform exceptionally well even amidst structural homophobia & mental health challenges.  Aside from this afro-androcentric and misogynoiristic erasure of black girls as also targeted racial victims of the school to prison pipeline and racist school practices, this is why believers in “antiblack misandry” or black male studies have to believe white boys & men are victims of “misandry” as well.  Every intra-racial gender disparity they point to is mirrored in some way across all or most other races—-with racism exacerbating it for non-whites. white, asian, black boys all perform worse than their same-race girl counterparts in school. In the same groups, the men are more incarcerated than women, & are murdered more than women.  Somehow, misandry only explains these BLACK intra-racial gender disparities in education, imprisonment, etc, but not the other intra-racial gender disparities. This is analytically incoherent in both social science & philosophy.  Across races, the gender gap persists, but within that gap sexuality reorganizes outcomes. Antiblack misandry can’t explain that, unless misandry overall can explain the same disparities among nonblacks.  If (straight) boys across all races are experiencing negative disparities in education, & schools are structurally antiblack, then black boys will be on the antiblack end of negative gendered disparities. Black feminists already taught us how to analyze compounded social locations.  What must also be taken into account is the feminization of literacy in the late 20th century, adolescent masculinities’ cultural (in)compatibility with “good student” conduct, and for black boys what Vershawn Ashanti calls the “sociolinguistics of racial performance” and its irreconcilable conflict between racial authenticity and white standards of conduct.  “Misandry” is being used to misname the consequences of patriarchal masculinity itself. If boys who deviate most from dominant masculinity outperform those who conform to it, then the problem is not hostility to boys——-its the structure of masculinity itself.

@Spoekeya @namestelove @limitlessleila @girlfromsouthie If it’s not the man’s fault, then THE PATRIARCHY is too blame. Everything positive is the result of feminism

@namestelove @limitlessleila @girlfromsouthie Sounds like everything wrong is done by men…

For those who think women should keep separate finances and income “just in case” her husband stops providing for her… What do you think men should do to prepare for “just in case” his wife stops sleeping with him?

@5RandomName5 @returnofchurn @namestelove @limitlessleila @girlfromsouthie You underestimate women’s desire for power and control over men. Sometimes it’s just that simple. And if she wants she can still enjoy sex with other men while exerting power over the husband by denying it

@returnofchurn @namestelove @limitlessleila @girlfromsouthie Women actually enjoy sex, excluding some with serious health conditions. Why on earth would women trap men for their non-existent wealth and then punish themselves by refusing sex? Your theory is completely illogical. Males often get lazy in marriage and no longer put effort in.

@djinn_the @afroanalytic Gay black boys are supported within the black social structure especially by black girls so they don’t experience the same levels of social ostracism you would expect from a marginalized group. Also black boys perceived as gay are also less threatening to the majority community

@afroanalytic Its pretty obvious. Gay black boys aren't chasing women, so experience no material social cost to being studios. Gay boys also need an outlet away from peers. Gay boys also generally are trying to escape our communities and attain higher social status. So we pursue education

@Blacksword011 If you ever had any doubt that the black American community is a matriarchy just watch this video.

He just destroyed Coon Black men who hate on Black women hair

@force72880 @francemothers Colorism in the black community is passed down by the MOTHERS. Women do this to each other.

@francemothers Older black women have always told the dark skin family members they were "black and ugly". Its normal in the community. Or they would say, "you look just like yo black ass daddy".

The only reason y’all ever thought she was anything otherwise was simply because she was dark skinned with locs.

@starsforyoongs So if you have breasts you’re supposed to have children, right?

BREASTS exist to FEED BABIES, not to fulfill men’s fantasies

@Lsankei99 Marriage takes more from men

Sitting with older women opens you up to so much on what marriage takes from you as a lady in the systems we have most common - you’ll lose your job when you’re pregnant and raising babies while your husband gets promoted because he now has dependents and shows stability

@JadeMarinoes1k @alfkkifine The laws allow it and the women are compelled to do it. It’s one of the fundamentalist Muslim countries

@Million2RC @alfkkifine Cuz it’s not their body??? I don’t understand how a man could terminate a woman’s pregnancy if it’s in her body

“Women are just as bad as men.” Okay. Then show me men being gang-raped by women at scale. Show me adult women trafficking adult men for sexual exploitation. Show me laws written to control men’s bodies and reproductive autonomy. Show me sororities known for drugging and raping men. Show me men living with the threat of gender-based acid attacks. Show me men being killed for rejecting women or for trying to leave relationships. When those things start happening on a systemic level, then we can have a conversation about women being “just as bad as men.” Until then, stop pretending the scale of harm is the same.

@BigMamo_ It’s not a theory, it’s projection. Women often tell you how they feel about themselves by what they accuse others of.

I have a theory that men who cheat with alot of women all at once are fighting and concealing a homosexual identity. Having a hard time with accepting his true identity that's why he makes a point to convince himself that he's not gay by running through multiple women 😬

@bellaraices What you’re seeing is a woman looking for other to validate the decisions she made in her youth by making the same ones. She needs them to do what she did.

just last year they were talking about how gen z needs to have a hoe phase to be empathetic. they resent the fact that gen z seemingly aren’t following in their impulsive foot steps misery loves nothing more than company

@MeghanEMurphy You are useful to those men. They get to practice relationship skills and perfect them for the women they really want for long term relationships. Thank you for your service 🫡

This idea that men are shutting down actually doesn’t parse with my in real life experience with men… younger men—like men in their early-mid 30s—actually seem much more open and interested in women as people. They listen, ask questions, etc. it’s the older men who seem to have become bitter and resentful—and somehow never learned conversation skills, talk at you rather than asking questions etc. The terminally online Gen Zs are checked out because they live online, not in real life, but in general I’ve found the 30-something men very pleasant and open.

@The_Only_Barbie I learned that you will lie about being threatened because you were mad. You’re the type of person who would make up ab*se allegations because of a breakup.

& THIS is how BW should handle colorist/self hating BM in society moving forward (watch till the end)

@lyssasphere You’re asking the wrong question. The salient question is ‘are the women likeable anymore?’

Do men even like women anymore? Or do they just like porn? Honest question

@Tiffany_Blue88 @GrotchMike @jiggyjayy2 youtu.be/u1VVxLEkFhg?si…

@GrotchMike @Million2RC @jiggyjayy2 yeah cause SOME of those guys expect you to pay and they dont wanna contribute in other ways the way women do. They still dont want to cook or clean, take care of the children etc. Also this is semantics, plenty women provide period.

Men in the comment saying they dont care about women success, only about their ability to submit and femininity, but submissive and feminine women get cheated on and left with nothing on a daily basis if they dont have their own success to fall back on. #noticing

@TheEmpressTiff @jiggyjayy2 The biggest amount of unpaid labor in any relationship is the emotional labor required of men to manage a woman’s emotions and moods.

@Million2RC @jiggyjayy2 Men don’t share anything. You use women for tons and tons of unpaid labor and pay bills you would have already been paying anyway