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Guys masih inget kan twit gw yg ini? Yg resto padang sebulan libur pas ramadhan? Kan ini gw kesini lagi yak, terus pas gw lagi makan ada bapak2 gitu berdiri di pintu diem aja, akhirnya ibu yg punya resto nanya ada apa mau bungkus nasi atau gimana? Taunya si bapak tuh nawarin pupuk gitu sekarung katanya tadi ada orang pesen ga mau bayar akhirnya ditawar2in orang. Nah si uni nya tanpa ba bi bu nanya berapa harganya, taunya cuma 20 rebu doang, langsung sama uni nya dibayar Ga hanya itu, si bapaknya tadi disuruh makan, bahkan dibungkusin 😭 bahkan pas ngasih makan pun dilayanin lho 😭 Pas gw tanya ga curiga apa kalau misal dia bohong, dia jawabnya “ya kalau bohong urusan dia sama Allah mas, kalau urusan saya sama Allah berbuat baik aja, lagian harganya cuma 20 ribu doang” YaAllah pengen jadi orang sebaik ini yaAllah 😭 Dan liat nih beberapa menit kemudian yg tadinya kosong sepi langsung rame 😭😭 Btw itu aku makan sop iga ENAK BANGET SUMPAH GAPERNAH FAIL DISINI TUH 🥰 Ku spill alamat tokonya di komen yaa, siapa tau ada yg deket mau mampir hehe

@Hello131luv @junhandoa @tanyakanrl Iya biasanya itu dr rs nya atau dr dokternya yg mmg berpandai2 buat ngeklaim sesuai dgn syarat BPJS. Aslinya itu kamu dibantu untuk dipermudah sm nakesnya. Kalau dr syarat BPJS nya sesuai sm yg kk td bilang, lahiran dgn penyulit atau lahiran normal bukaan yg besar baru bs BPJSnya

@Mipadehlevel1 @junhandoa @tanyakanrl Tapi waktu itu aku masih bukaan 1 udah ke igd kak, cuma waktu itu emang langsung dikasih rujukan dokternya langsung sih dan alhamdulillah emang kehamilan normal dan tidak ada kendala apapun 🥹

💚 abis nonton vt ini aku juga langsung kepikiran kenapa ya orang yang mau lahiran dibawa ke rs rata-rata harus SC meskipun gak ada urgensi?

@riot124578 @junhandoa @tanyakanrl Bisa normal tp datangnya pas bukaan dh besar, dan itu masuk ke igd

@junhandoa @tanyakanrl Penyebar hoax lu, dulu lahiran pakai bpjs bisa kok lahiran normal

@novitabwp @junhandoa @tanyakanrl Betul

@junhandoa @tanyakanrl padahal yg dibilang ini bener kok. kalo mau lahiran normal dan dicover bpjs bisanya di RS tipe A atau di faskes 1. RS tipe B ke atas yg bisa dicover bpjs itu buat lahiran SC dengan indikasi. kalo gak ada indikasi tapi mau SC itu baru bayar pribadi.

@Hello131luv @junhandoa @tanyakanrl Bisa kalau bukaannya udh 9 bukan bukaan awal, trus masuknya lewat igd. Kalau misalnya lahiran normal biasa itu bisanya ke faskes 1 utk klaim bpjs. Betul kok yg dis bilang. Nanti rs klaim bpjsnya cuma bisa kalau udh fase hampir melahirkan atau mmg ada penyulit (atau dibuat2)

@junhandoa @tanyakanrl Hai siapa bilang ini, aku bpjs dan lahiran normal malah dokternya yg menyarannya lahiran di RS saja jadi emang kalau sudah ada tanda-tanda melahirkan langsung ke IGD saja dan alhamdulillah lancar jaya

@DakotaGoyo5 @filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg Apasih gajelas banget

@Mipadehlevel1 @filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg

Orang yg ngebelain kerjaan LC karena LC itu perempuan sebenernya misogynist. Karena dengan begitu dia jahat ke perempuan lain yaitu seorang istri. Kalo yg single? Ah bacot yg make LC rata2 pekerja om om yg udah kawin.

@DakotaGoyo5 @filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg Nyenyenyenyenye

@Mipadehlevel1 @filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg Kalo bodoh minimal diem puti babi

@DakotaGoyo5 @filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg Apasih bodoh

@Mipadehlevel1 @filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg Kalo gk cwo tolol yg tertarik selingkuh ya LC gk bakal laku paok. Golongan kau yg paling sering koar2 kita gk bisa ngatur org tp kita bisa ngatur diri sendiri. Tp disaat kyk gini hal itu gk berlaku? Munafik wkwk ya lu aturlah suami masing2 spy gk main LC HAHAHA PLENGER

@ribbonable @baseconvo Kalau jokesnya kerasa gak nyaman berarti ada yang salah di mindset nya si adek, mana reaksinya ngambek pula, berlebihan betul. Itu kan bukan dia gak mau beliin, emang dia nanya ke adeknya, kalau dia yg beliin siapa? Kalau adiknya mikir dan hub sehat dgn kk bisa dia balas balik

@Mipadehlevel1 @baseconvo kalo tersier aku setuju yoi. tp sender ga nyebutin itu baju apa, jd siapa tau bajunya emg udah belel dan butuh kakaknya ga ada kewajiban hidupin adeknya kok, kalo ga mau ya tolak aja, aku setuju. balik lagi, aku cuma ngerasa jokesnya ga perlu & ga lucu, bikin ga nyaman 🤔

💙 numpang curhat ya dari abang² merangkap jadi bapak ini

@tanyakanrl Suruh aja si "pacar" itu pinjol lagi dgn akun dia pribadi sejumlah uang yg dia pakai utk si temannya itu. Langsung lunasi yg dr akun si "temannya" drpd repot pakai surat materai dll

💚 Adakah dari kalian yang punya pengalaman yang sama? Boleh minta saran ga biar yang ditagih tuh si pacarnya bukan si temennya temenku? Kalau kayak gini kurang gak ya guys? Mohon bantuan dan koreksinya

@filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg Yg misoginist itu ya pembela lc 🤮

@filledestar @_69boyka69_ @Si_Meengg Salah dua duanya dengan bentuk kesalahan yang berbeda lah anjay

@lauuugggg @keboyoranbaru Terlalu formal

@keboyoranbaru penetrasi?? terlalu panti pijet

ngentot terlalu vulgar. senggama terlalu sok iye. berhubungan seksual terlalu kaku. kimpoi terdengar ringan dan fun.

My favorite Qur’an reciter is my mom. and wallahi, nothing comes close. Every day after Asr, she would sit on her prayer mat and recite, and the whole house would go quiet, not because we were told to, but because her voice would calm everything inside us. After Isha, she would gather us in the living room and teach us the Qur’an. One page every week, and on Sunday we would give hadda. If you failed you already knew there was punishment with house chores. No one ever wanted to fail, Because if you did, you’d be stuck doing chores, and my siblings would tease you for the whole week But today, I’d do anything just to fail again and hear her correct me one more time🥹😭 My dad used to say whenever she recited, he would listen until he fell asleep. Until she passed away and left us in this world, and the house has never sounded the same. May Allah grant her Jannatul Firdaus and forgive her shortcomings. Ameen ya Rabb🥹😭🤲🏾

@YusufAsunmogejo *resonate

@YusufAsunmogejo Despite from Indonesia, I found your post more reasonate with me as an Indonesian muslim. Really worth to follow. Thanks for the insight,

Since the past 24 hours that I made the tweet on child parenting solution, my DM has been buzzing. I checked them, and one thing was quite common to all: Parents who are not happy about their kid’s performance in school, and they have approached it the wrong way. If you fall in this category, this post is for you. Many of us use brutal force because expectations are too high, and the anger is just too much. The scholar Ibn al-Jawzi explained in his book Sayd al-Khatir that intellect is a Rizq (provision) from God, just like money or health. He said some people are born with a wide vessel and others with a narrow one. If you try to force the water of a whole sea into a small cup, you will only spill the water and ruin the cup. This is what many of us are doing. We are trying to force a "doctor's brain" into a child whose cup was designed for something else. By that, it causes a soul-crushing resentment in the child. Imam Al-Ghazali described this beautifully in Ihya’ Ulum al-Din. He warned parents about a state called “Al-Malal”, where a child builds resentment because they are pushed beyond their limit. Everyone wants the best for their child. No doubt. However, if you keep yelling at them for things they cannot grasp yet, you make them hate the very sight of a book. You are closing the door to their heart while trying to kick open the door to their mind. Then what is the solution? It is simple. Going forward, every parent should make efforts to start looking for the Fath (the opening) in their kids. What does this mean? This is the lane the Almighty has prepared for them. In our history, if a child is slow with grammar or math, the scholars don’t call them a failure. They move them to a trade, a craft or a service. How then do you identify this Fath (Opening) in your child? Please pay close attention to me… (1) The first phase is Observation. Ibn al-Qayyim mentioned a concept called Istid’ad (natural readiness) in his book titled: Tuhfat al-Mawdud. This means you want to watch/observe/look at the child when they think nobody is looking. This is your first tool. For the next two weeks, stop talking about school. Do not worry yourself about how they perform on their homework. Instead, keep a "Strength Log." Every evening, write down one thing they did well that had nothing to do with a classroom. Did they fix a broken toy? Did they calm down a crying sibling? Did they organise their shoes? You are looking for their Istid’ad (natural readiness). If they are "book-slow" but "people-smart" or "hand-smart," that is where the key has been placed. (2) Introduce “Project or Craft” early on. Ibn Khaldun, in his Muqaddimah, argued that projects/crafts are high forms of intelligence that build civilizations. He argued that some minds are designed to understand the physical world better than the abstract one. Give them a "Project Day." Buy a basic tool kit, a sewing machine, or a coding starter kit. Give them a broken radio or a piece of furniture to fix. Delegate. Give them a real-world task that has a visible result. When a child who fails at math sees that they can build a table or bake a perfect loaf of bread, their internal shame starts to heal. They realize they are not stupid; they were just in the wrong room. (3) Kill the Comparison Virus. Imam Al-Zarnuji, in his classic work Ta’lim al-Muta’allim, explained that a student should only study what fits their nature. He said that forcing a student into a field they have no taste for is a waste of their life and the teacher's time. When you compare your child to others, you are catching a virus that blinds you to their path. Always filter. When family members start bragging about their kids' grades, you must be the shield. Tell them, "My child is mastering the art of (so so and so)." You are teaching your child that success is not a single ladder. There are many ladders to it. And if you do not value their ladder, they will stop climbing. (4) Prioritize Character Building. Put more efforts to praise your kids for their good character. Always tell them you love them when they behave well or show good character. Character recognition helps the child build a good self-image, which translates into self-confidence and barrier-breaking for the child. Prioritise this. (5) Don’t underestimate the power of your words. Always pray to God to grant them their opening. The scholars taught that the "opening" is a gift from Al-Fattah (The Opener). Supplicate. In your Sujud or in your prayers, stop asking for them to be a doctor/engineer, and what have you. Ask for the door that was made for them to be opened. Ask Him to show you the Fath so you can stop pushing them against a closed wall. Always remember, a parent who finds the "Fath (The Opening)" for their child has given them a gift better than a degree. You have given them a purpose. Start that journey NOW. It’s never too late… Thank you for your attention. Allah knows best.

@ribbonable @baseconvo Tepat² aja sih, apalagi krn abis minta baju. Kalau minta uang kuliah, uang sekolah, uang buat makan hari itu ya oke sih, tp kalau buat tersier ya emang nape. Sesekali biar si adek jg nyadar kakak bukan bank berjalan & yg tggung jwb ke dia ya mestinya ortu mereka lah

@baseconvo adekmu umur brp? kalo minor, mnurutku u keterlaluan, apalagi kalo dia ga rese/bandel. kan dia pun ga minta berada di posisi itu to? aku paham sakit hatimu nder, tp becandaanmu ga tepat utk disampein ke adekmu. sampein ke temen tongkrongan sih bakal lucu, jatuhnya dark jokes

I see you, sister. I know how painful it is to feel like the religion you were born into sees you as an object. Twitter/X is a dangerous place for a heart seeking peace because people love to strip the soul away from the words of the Prophet (peace be upon him). You have to be very careful from whom you take knowledge from. Imam Ibn-l-Mubaarak said this. Having said that, I want you to know you are not a secondary human. You are a complete soul with a mind that Allah commanded you to use. Let me help you understand all the Hadith so that you can be at peace. First of all, the "Prostration" Hadith is often used to scare women, however, many people say this because they fail to look at wordings carefully. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِأَحَدٍ لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to another, I would have commanded the wife to prostrate to her husband." The "If" here is everything. It is a hypothetical statement used to show the heavy weight of the marital bond. The Prophet (peace be upon him) immediately shut the door on anyone bowing to a human. He was teaching us that the contract between a husband and wife is sacred, but prostration is for Allah alone. It was an exaggeration to make a point, not a command for you to be a floor mat. Then you talked about the the "oven" or "camel saddle." Let’s look at the Hadith together. The Hadith says: إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ زَوْجَتَهُ لِحَاجَتِهِ فَلْتَأْتِهِ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ عَلَى التَّنُّورِ "If a man calls his wife for his need, she should come to him even if she is at the oven." The second Hadith says: وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ، لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ "By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman fulfills the right of her Lord until she fulfills the entire right of her husband. Even if he asks her for herself while she is on a camel saddle, she should not refuse him." What did we learn from these two Hadiths? In that time, "oven" or "camel saddle" were ways to describe being in the middle of a task. Scholars say that the lesson here is about urgency and protecting the heart of the husband. In a world full of temptations, the wife is the sanctuary for his soul. It is about a mutual duty of care. He provides, protects, and carries the heavy burdens of the world, and in return, you are his peace and his protection from falling into sin. Despite all these, you must remember the limit of obedience. If a husband asks for something that harms your body, your health, or your dignity, you have every right to say no. If Islam wanted women to be objects, the Prophet (peace be upon him) would not have sought the political advice of his wife Umm Salamah when his own soldiers were confused. He would not have spent his last moments on earth resting his head in the lap of Aisha. He honored women more than any modern system ever will. Stop looking for your worth on Twitter/X timeline. Look at the life of the man who said the best of you are those who are best to their wives. You are valued. You are seen. And you are enough. Allah knows best.

@iam_mermaid03 @Si_Meengg Sama aje sih, si Lc ya salah juga, kerjanya gak bermoral