Queen Mwila Chama

one day, without warning, it gets better. you catch yourself smiling for no reason. the light returns. you’re no longer surviving. you are living!

unfortunately i'm a person who takes words very seriously, so yes i'll remember every little thing you've said about me, whether it's good or bad; it will stay in my mind for a very long time.

I'm in love with this sentence: “Forgive yourself for not knowing earlier what only time could teach.”

Always pray hard for yourself because someone, somewhere, can’t sleep—they feel like you don’t deserve what you have.

I love friendships that influence me to be kinder, smarter and healthier. I love when people have a positive impact on me.

No one saw the nights you wanted to give up. No one heard the thoughts you wrestled with. But you made it, and that’s all that matters.

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Sometimes a little rudeness to show you don’t tolerate nonsense is important.

As a woman, you need to forgive yourself for men you entertained when you had low self esteem.

Being loved is the minimum. Make sure you’re also respected, prioritized, supported, desired, and understood.

You are allowed to talk about what they did to you and how it hurt you. It doesn't matter how they feel about you talking about it, if they wanted people to think better of them, then they should have been better.

Address some weird shit done to you & watch how fast you get labeled as problematic and confrontational

if you are not going to consider me the way i consider you, there's is no reason for us to be in each other's lives

I love people that just naturally have morals, manners, common courtesy, COMMON SENSE, consideration, etc.

i just read something that said “we aren’t meant to address everything we find out. Just adjust your guard.” I finally grasped that concept.

lack of communication leaves too much room for the imagination..

I would be lying if I said I haven’t seen the hand of God this year. Time and time again, He has shown up for me in ways I least expected🥹.

When you stop talking to people, stop talking about them too...☝🏾