Naseemah Sodeinde Adeyanju

He would set out very early in the morning and would not return home until very late in the night - all because of what to put on the table for his wife and children. He feeds the family, clothes them, shelters them, pays school fees, settles their hospital bills, caters for his parents, siblings and extended relations, stretch his good hands to his in-laws et cetera. Give it to that responsible man who works tirelessly only to spend the proceeds of his sweats on his wife, children and others. He, undoubtedly, deserves all the accolades in the world. Sanni Kay Yūsuf

@YusufAsunmogejo Kojebosheje nbeun

You think it’s by reading book only? Lol 😂 I like it when motivational speakers speak with confidence. All we hear is the Process: be diligent, form a community of dream executors, always show up, and so on. But have you noticed that they often sell the process, yet rarely acknowledge the variables? Otedola didn’t either in his book. This is because there is no guarantee those processes will make you an outlier. It probably won’t, because the variables on which the processes depend are rarely discussed. They can’t actually because there are no patterns to that. lol 😂 Just as Robert Herjavec, the billionaire of Shark Tank said, "I can tell you the person who will succeed if ten people walk into this room." He was asked how, and he said that anyone who follows the process — e.g, being confident, always prepared for opportunities, etc — will succeed. He then said, But to be super successful? To be a Billionaire? To become an outlier? You just have to get lucky or find some grace on your way up. The most important factor is Grace. Many people who would ordinarily have been successful by the scale of their efforts/process have gone into the ruins of history because they lack Grace. The process matters, and I preach that too; however, always pray for God’s grace because grace perfects the variables to make your process shine. Remember: at the end of the day, only winners become motivational speakers.

Tomorrow is Monday. Fast if you are able to, if not earn reward by reminding others. Remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers (Q51:55). Baarakallahu Feekum.

@Lady_imoleh Its called apple, i ate kisa to its body as a child in my estate.

I am seeing this fruit for the first time, does anybody know its name? Mind you, it's not cashew.

@Adamthallith The last line 😬😷, may Allah bless their union wọn gbiyanju. Different strokes for different folks

I asked one of my married friends (though older) this question after I visited him and his wife in their UK home. We’ve also been friends since 2010. He said the followings. “Well, we fight, we fight very well, because fighting is inevitable, but in our fight, every single time we’ve had fight, we still remain lovers, we remain kind. Non of our fight no matter how tough surpass our kindness for each other. The next one is, we consider everyone after both of us as third parties, especially our parents and siblings, we started dating during our remedial program in 2012, and till today, I’ve never discussed her wrong doings with my parent or siblings before, I am sure she never did too, the only person I’ve discussed our matter with was her twins sister, they love each other so much and it’s just one time and that was even before we got married. So literally in our 14yrs of togetherness, we both have never discussed our issue with anyone. And nobody has ever helped us settle fight. Hmm, next one is sex, you’ll not have it every time, understand this and it’ll help you navigate your sexual life better. I get tired on some days, she get tired on some days too, both of you should understand that you’re human and tiredness is inevitable. And as a man especially, if your wife is not someone that deny you sex, please don’t force sex on her any day she said no, don’t get me wrong o, even if she deny you sex often too, don’t force sex 😂 but what I’m saying is, if she’s someone who tends to your sexual needs, anyday she said she’s not interested out of tiredness, let her be, you can do cuddles, kisses and other foreplay if she want. Because if it get to a point a woman is having sex with you just so you can be pleased or not angry, trust me you’ll lose her in sexual aspect. Don’t be boring in bed too, try sexual activities that is in line with your religion and belief. Being a parent and being a couple are two different things. Our marriage shakes a lot when we gave birth to Ahmad, my wife forgot me totally, no time for me again, we had to go for counselling before it gets better. So make sure you both understand parenting and its concept before you start giving birth, in fact if there is anytime our marriage had problems, it was when we gave birth to Ahmad because we both are new to parenting. Another one is no raising of voice and no raising of hands, no matter how mad we are at each other, non of us is raising voice at the other person and non is raising hands to hit the other person. We also don’t use foul words during fights. Also during our fight, we don’t sleep separate rooms, we sleep on same bed, under same duvet in fact. We set this rules specially on our wedding night. Another thing is, yesterday fight doesn’t stop today’s love. I’m someone who keep malice if we have unfinished fight, but my wife isn’t like that. I remember one day we had fight a serious one, I was at fault, and the following morning, after prayer, she rested on my laps, for few mins I was like who’s doing this one but I can’t even push her away, then she wake up and prepared my favourite food, prepared my lunch box and still continue fighting. She did everything that she’ll do when we are not fighting. The only thing we don’t do during fighting is s*x, every other thing we do it, that it’ll be as though as we are not fighting. We don’t argue in front of our kids, or anyone else. During last year Eid for example, her mother asked if we’ve ever had a fight because she never see us fight and we never report each other to her before . You can never catch us fighting. There is nothing like 50/50. We bring our hundred to the table. And there is nothing like someone’s money is their money and someone’s money is family money. Everyone money that comes to the family belong to the family.” A thread 🧵

This dua, in tahjud is a constant for me and my household.

@RealSamboFatiu 😂 Use the energy for tira buy jilbab collections and nice matching bag and shoes

You better stop this thing My wife must not see this Sho da ki a ma sa tira si ara wa?

@harrykel20 @FabianB58246501 More blessings and thanks sir. The kids are discouraged and demoralized from my interactions with them.

@Nasmamayanju @FabianB58246501 Don’t worry they will release the results eventually. It happened to my daughter last year. She was under 16 and we didn’t see her result till months after. Just be patient

JAMB HOLDS POLICY MEETING MAY 11TH ... MINISTER TO UNVEIL KEY POLICY DIRECTION The Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB)has concluded arrangements to hold the 2026 Policy Meeting on Admissions scheduled for 11th May, 2026, at the Body of Benchers, Auditorium, located at Plot 688, Institute and Research District, FCC Phase III, Jabi, Abuja. The 2026 Policy Meeting promises to be exciting as key policy direction will be unveiled by the Honourable Minister of Education, Dr. Maruf Olatunji Alausa. The Board's annual policy meeting on admissions is a crucial annual gathering where stakeholders decide minimum tolerable UTME marks, admission guidelines, and policies for tertiary institutions. Furthermore, the meeting is expected to, in particular, formally sets the tone for the 2026/2027 admission exercise while impressing it on attendees the need to adhere strictly to stipulated guidelines. Attendees at the 2026 meeting would include critical stakeholders such as Vice-Chancellors, Rectors, Provosts, Registrars and their admission officers. Others are regulatory bodies ranging from the National Universities Commission(NUC), National Commission for Colleges of Education(NCCE), to the National Board for Technical Education(NBTE), among others. Goodwill messages will also be taken from NELFUND, NYSC, and other critical stakeholders. Also slated to hold is the 6th Edition of the National Tertiary Admissions Performance-Merit Awards (NATAP-M), which has ensure strict adherence to admission guidelines and also contributed greatly to the development of tertiary education in the country. Fabian Benjamin, Ph.D., OrgExpert JAMB PCA

@FabianB58246501 @sandybabyonyii Let them see their performances, its one of the rights of sitting for an exam. You just keep making partial undulating policies and decisions.Let them see their results, and they don't have to beg you. In saner clime @JAMBHQ can't try what you all are doing now. You have no point

@sandybabyonyii If we go by that those turning In November, December would say same

@YusufAsunmogejo Palapala alusi apala, kini gbogbo katikati yi. You need to see how people also come into National Mosque sometimes to grace occasions wearing all worth not like vdm

They didn’t tell us it has reached this stage… Toor. The most painful part is they know what they are doing isn’t allowed. Or they don’t know?

@YusufAsunmogejo Radarada

@JoyZainab1 Ẹta

If the first one is TAIWO, and the second one is KEHINDE, what will the third one be called ? IDOWU?

@YusufAsunmogejo Hmmnnn

Where you and I lived for 9 months… Glory be to God who fashioned human in the best form.

@Adamthallith Confront her and seek clarification else you might die of assumptions

Good day Hajia, I hope you’re well, I’m writing this with a devastated heart, I find something strange in my wife luggage, but before I proceed, can you please block my wife? Her username is A******. We live in Australia, my wife is a medical doctor and I work as teacher. Our family is built on faith, love and compassion, i am a good husband, I don’t even need anyone to tell me, my wife tells me this often how good of a husband I am and how lucky she is to have a man like me. Here is the problem, my wife is planning to travel to Nigeria for Eid Adha by mid month of May, and for some days now, she has started arranging her luggage, on a normal day, I help her arrange luggage anytime she’s travelling, but this times she is doing the packing herself. I have a bag that I also use whenever I’m travelling, a little bag I hang around my neck, she had this bag packed up among the 3 bags she’s travelling with, I wanted to switched the bag to another one because I will be needing my own bag and I don’t want her to travel with it, while I was doing that unpacking, I found strange things. I found a pack of lube, condom and lingeries with some pills, I google search the pills and found out it’s a post sexual pills that weaken the sperm. I have asked a lot of questions in my head, why this? Is this the reason she didn’t allow me to help her pack. I left the bag without swapping it, and I left it where I found it. All of this was 3 days ago, today she asked me if I touch the bag and I said no, I denied it, she asked if our kids did and they also said no. I’ve not been processing this well in my head, I’m shaking, I’ve cried. I’m trying my best sexually, I’ve never deny her sex, even on some days I’m tired. I don’t even know what to do, I’m so exhausted from overthinking.

@Adamthallith 😂

Sometimes you look at the version of your parent that is raising your younger siblings and you just shake your head and go about your day. My mother bought soccer boot worth 50k for my younger brother. This is the same women that used to beat me back then anytime I go to field.

@egi_nupe Do your adhkar, especially the one before sleeping. It is tested and trusted. And upon waking up from any bad dream the prophet advised we seek refuge in Allah from shaytan 3 times while spitting to our left. May Allah keep protecting us all and our families

Please what does it mean to be dreaming about snakes?

@AbuMustaeina 😂

This is the point of equilibrium

Airpeace wey i dumped for local airline, e go be something else to fly them internationally. Even my kids gran saw ehwe! In Zayd's voice when she tried them. They should do better, many even forfeited using their ticket again before expiry.

@ronkecarew I have a story around this and an experience that was quite hurtful in FCT

The way to go

@ronkecarew Yeah, everywhere you go. Even masajids