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@beherleader I wonder what's your take on amazon.com/Way-Men-Maids-… by @GiffLasta, if you happen to have read it?

When Your Wife Goes Cold 1. Do not make your wife’s mood your compass. Measure yourself by whether you acted with reason, charity, and steadiness, not by whether she felt warm toward you that day. Every deliberate act should be ordered to the true good and ultimately to God, not to the immediate reward of emotional reassurance. 2. Ask: what good is missing here? When the marriage feels cold, do not treat the problem as a dark mystery. Evil is not a thing in its own right but a privation of a due good. So ask: what is absent here—peace, hope, justice, affection, gratitude, truthful speech, shared purpose? That question is usually more fruitful than “Why is this so awful?” 3. Correct gently because correction is an act of charity. If she is rude, dismissive, or contemptuous, do not explode and do not retreat into silence. Fraternal correction is an act of charity and mercy, regulated by prudence, using suitable words to turn a person from sin toward virtue. Say what happened, say how it affected you, and ask what is going on. 4. Lead with prudence, not impulse. Prudence is not caution in the weak sense. It is the virtue that applies moral truth to particular situations, and its acts are deliberation, decision, and direction. So before a hard conversation, think: What is the real problem? What is the right aim? What words will help? What concrete next step should follow? 5. Do not confuse cleverness with prudence. A man becomes falsely prudent when he grows strategic, manipulative, image-conscious, or merely efficient in pursuit of a bad end. If your “leadership” is really about controlling her reactions, avoiding discomfort, or securing sex, it is not prudence. It is cunning. 6. Master fear because fortitude holds you steady in difficulty. Fortitude makes a man unshaken from the right by danger or difficulty. In marriage, the danger is often not physical but relational: anger, rejection, separation, shame, loss. Fortitude means you still ask the needed question, still tell the truth calmly, and still choose the good without panic. 7. Master appetite because temperance protects love from pressure. Temperance moderates sensible pleasure; continence and meekness are its allied strengths. In practice, this means: do not turn affection into pressure, do not turn disappointment into seduction, and do not let sexual desire rule your conduct. A man who cannot govern his impulses will eventually make his wife feel handled rather than loved. 8. Treat your passions as energies to govern, not masters to obey. Passions are good in themselves but morally dangerous if left unruled. Fear, anger, and sadness can be checked by command of the will, by contrary thoughts, by lawful diversion, and by redirecting the mind toward higher goods. That means when you feel rage or despair, do something active and ordered before you speak. 9. Build habits because character grows by repetition. A habit is a stable quality that disposes a power toward good or evil. Men often want one heroic conversation to fix a marriage, but the deeper work is repetitive: daily steadiness, truthful speech, small acts of service, controlled reactions, prayer, restraint, follow-through. Repeated acts become the sort of man you are. 10. Carry burdens before you make demands. Charity produces external acts such as beneficence, mercy, and fraternal correction. So ask first: what concrete weight can I remove from her life? Take initiative with chores, logistics, repairs, children, scheduling, money, planning. Many men want closeness while still leaving the woman to carry the practical load of the home. Love moves outward into service. 11. Do not be negligent. Negligence is not just forgetting things. It is a defect of the inner act: a lack of promptness of will toward what you ought to do. So stop saying, “I meant well.” Ask instead: did I move promptly toward the good I already knew? Many marriages decay less from dramatic sin than from repeated negligence. 12. Speak truthfully about what you feel, but do not enthrone your feelings. Your feelings matter because they reveal how events strike you, and truthful speech belongs to virtue. But they do not become the final judge of reality. Use feelings as data, then submits them to reason, charity, and purpose. You can say, “That hurt,” without making hurt the ruler of the marriage. 13. Suffer meaningfully, not theatrically. Suffering is capable of becoming virtuous when endured with resignation and right intention. In marriage, that means you do not waste suffering by turning it into self-pity, grumbling, or passive aggression. You bear it patiently, learn from it, and let it purify what is weak in you. 14. Aim at the real end: a holy, truthful, rightly ordered marriage. The point is not to “win her back,” “keep the peace,” or “manage her moods.” The point is to bring your actions into right order under God. Once that is the aim, many decisions get simpler: tell the truth, remove pressure, correct charitably, carry burdens, pray, endure, and ask for the next right step. TLDR Be prudent in judgment, truthful in speech, merciful in correction, fortitudinous in suffering, temperate in desire, and steady in service.

@LukaUrh @PoloncaSOKOL Ne

@PoloncaSOKOL @Nejk0 Zakaj bi si delila delo doma, če pa je bog reku da je baba za rojevat pa otroke vzgajat in možu za kuhat.. a ni to miselnost ljudi ki vzklikajo bog, domovina, družina...

Toplo povabjeni! @Nejk0 govori moškim po moško, ampak ženske ne moremo, da se ne bi strinjale z njim. Pridita oba. Če mora en pazit otroke, potem pošlji raje moža. PS: Delitev prinese nov val strasti v vajin zakon (če še nisi v zakonu, se to prenese na dan po prvem prepiru)

@ZivljenjeinS @PoloncaSOKOL Hvala. Willa sledim, ne poznam ga pa zelo dobro - malo me skrbijo njegove izjave kot je "Your wife should be your best friend and come above everyone else in your life."

@PoloncaSOKOL @Nejk0 Sicer pa Bog lonaj @Nejk0 za knjigo in prenos teh vsebin v slovenski prostor. Na temo katoliškega moškega vodenja zakona in družine vama zelo priporočam tudi Willa Knowlanda 👇 x.com/beherleader

@ZivljenjeinS @PoloncaSOKOL Bo!

@PoloncaSOKOL @Nejk0 "Če mora en pazit otroke, potem *pošlji* raje moža." Morda bo tudi kaj povedanega o tem, da žena nikamor nikoli ne "pošilja" moža. 🙂 Mogoče mu predlaga ali ga spodbudi. Pošilja samo mož ženo, "kajti mož je glava ženi" (Ef 5,23).

Book events in my upcoming trip to Slovenia: May 25 7PM Live podcast conversation at Rajhenburg Castle hosted by Benjamin Siter of FAMILY & LIFE May 27 6PM Book signing, Interview, Q&A at Antonov dom auditorium, Ljubljana The central public event of the visit. Book signing, conversation with Giff, and questions from the audience. 400 seats available. May 30 Full-day workshop at the Franciscan Monastery in Nazarje In-depth workshop for men who want to put the truths from the book into practice in their lives. 40 spaces available.

@ZigaTurk Prva in zadnja alineja spodaj sta praktično enaki, po mojem je vseeno bila umetna inteligenca vmes.

Izdelano brez umetne inteligence. In brez naravne tudi. gibanjesvoboda.si/wp-content/upl…

Our AI just flagged a client's entire business as inappropriate content. One of our clients manufactures adult wellness products. Legitimate company, eight-figure revenue. The moment we deployed AI to their CRM, everything broke. 340 of 412 deals flagged as "potentially harmful". The other 72 were only spared because their product descriptions were still empty. Half their contacts quarantined. Not for anything suspicious -- just inbound emails containing words like "intimate", "arousal", and "stimulation". Product inquiries. From purchasing managers. Their trade show leads got bulk-flagged because the event was called "Intimacy Expo 2026." A re-engagement email got blocked too. Subject line: "Ready for Round 2?" It was about a reorder. The CEO called me personally. "Your AI just flagged our entire European distributor as explicit content. They're based in Middlesex." We spent three weeks teaching the system that "shaft diameter" is a manufacturing spec. It works now. Pipeline is flowing. Deals are closing. But every now and then, a deal still gets flagged, and my engineering team has to explain to a room full of adults why the AI has a problem with the word "thrust" in a logistics context. Yeah, the future is intelligent. Just not always mature.

𝗦𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗷𝗮, 𝗱𝗿𝘇̌𝗮𝘃𝗮 𝘃 𝘃𝗲𝗰̌𝗻𝗶𝗵 𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗵 Nismo Argentina, kaj šele Venezuela. Nismo država, kjer bi ljudje stali pred praznimi policami in zato zahtevali revolucijo. Pri nas je vse ravno dovolj urejeno, ravno dovolj varno in ravno dovolj udobno, da se nikoli nič zares ne prelomi. Po osamosvojitvi smo bili zgodba o uspehu. Majhna, pridna, sposobna država. Imeli smo industrijo, znanje, red in odnos do dela. V primerjavi z drugimi post-socialističnimi državami smo delovali skoraj kot zmagovalci zgodovine. Zdelo se je samoumevno, da bomo šli samo še navzgor. Pa nismo. Ne zato, ker ne bi znali ustvarjati. Ravno obratno. Slovenija zna ustvariti precej. Problem je, da sistem skoraj vse, kar ustvarimo, tudi sproti pobere. Presežka ne pretvorimo v kapital. Ne pustimo mu, da bi se nalagal, investiral, tvegal in rasel. Prehitro ga obdavčimo, prerazdelimo, razredčimo in porabimo za vzdrževanje kolektivnega miru. Javni sektor raste. Država jemlje več. Tranzicijska omrežja ostajajo. Vsaka oblast obljublja spremembe, potem pa samo še malo razširi aparat. Tudi desne vlade tu praviloma ne naredijo bistvene razlike. Politika je na koncu predvsem odsev družbe, ne njeno vodilo. Na oblast pridejo tisti, ki ljudem dovolj dobro povedo to, kar ti želijo slišati. Ustvarimo dovolj, da vsi nekako živimo. Premalo pa, da bi zares prosperirali. Ne govorim o luksuzu. Govorim o tem, da bi si več ljudi lahko brez stiske privoščilo boljše zdravstvo, več miru ob koncu meseca, smučanje z otroki za več kot en dan, pošteno plačilo dobrega mojstra in več velikodušnosti do drugih. To je standard res razvite družbe. Ker pa nam je še vedno ravno dovolj udobno, do prave spremembe ne pride. Sistem nas duši, ampak ne do točke upora. Samo do točke stagnacije. To je bistveno bolj zahrbtno. Če bi bilo slabše, bi nekega dne počilo. Zahtevali bi manj države, manj davkov, manj javne porabe, manj paradržavnega gospodarstva in manj kolektivistične logike. Ironija Slovenije je, da najbolj produktivni ljudje ne pripomorejo k spremembi sistema, ampak ga s svojim delom podaljšujejo. Kako torej spremeniti smer? Kako iti po poti res bogate in svobodne države? Mislim, da potrebujemo korenite spremembe v mentaliteti populacije. Take, ki se lahko zgodijo v desetletjih, ne v letih. 1. Vsak mora najprej prevzeti odgovornost zase Preveč zlahka nam gre z jezika: “država bi morala” ali “občina bi morala”. To je že skoraj srhljivo. Slovenci prepogosto pričakujemo, da bo za ključne stvari v našem življenju poskrbel nekdo drug. In prepogosto iščemo krivca za stvari, ki se nam dogajajo. Vsak mora prevzeti več odgovornosti za svoje življenje. Socialna država bi morala biti rezervirana predvsem za najbolj ranljive in za tiste, ki res ne morejo poskrbeti zase. Od vseh drugih bi morali pričakovati več samostojnosti in več odgovornosti. 2. Od države bi morali zahtevati dejansko svobodo Najprej svobodo izražanja. Brez nje gredo stvari hitro narobe. Pri nas stanje še ni slabo, se pa vedno znova pojavljajo poskusi omejevanja te svobode, zadnje čase v imenu preprečevanja sovražnega govora. Užaljenost ne more biti razlog za omejevanje svobode govora. Potem svobodo poslovanja. Če želim nekomu nekaj prodati ali od nekoga nekaj kupiti, pa naj bo to moj čas, moje storitve, moji izdelki ali moja intelektualna lastnina, bi morali biti izjemno zadržani pri omejevanju tega. Velika svoboda gre z roko v roki z veliko osebno odgovornostjo. Najpomembnejše pa je svoboda razpolaganja s sadovi lastnega dela, torej z vrednostjo, ki jo ustvarim. Država bi si morala vzeti minimum, potreben za delovanje osnovnih sistemov: sodstva, policije, vojske, vlade, kritične infrastrukture in osnovnega šolstva. Pri vsem drugem bi se morali ljudje bolj sami odločati, kaj bodo finančno podpirali in česa ne. To gre z roko v roki tudi z več dobrodelnosti. 3. Brez kapitalizma ni visoke kakovosti življenja Slovenci ne maramo kapitalizma. Še več: ne mara ga niti velik del desno usmerjenih ljudi. Kapitalizem je osovražen, ker se ga razume kot golo kovanje dobička na račun izkoriščanja delavcev, dobiček pa naj bi končal v žepih lastnikov za nove jahte. A to ni bistvo kapitalizma. Njegovo bistvo je, da nagrajuje tiste, ki za družbo ustvarjajo največjo vrednost. Najboljše izdelke, najboljše storitve, najboljše rešitve. In jih nagrajuje s pravico, da razpolagajo z ustvarjenim kapitalom. Zelo pogosto se izkaže, da prav ti ljudje potem znajo iz že ustvarjenega ustvariti še več. Lepota kapitalizma je, da temelji na svobodi. Brez svobode kapitalizma ni. Šele ko bodo naslednje generacije Slovencev razumele, da brez teh treh stvari ne moremo narediti resnega razvojnega preskoka, bomo nehali stagnirati.

Kdor preveri, postane tarča. To je sporočilo, ki ga pošiljajo. 9. marca sem objavil forenzično analizo posnetkov Vuković. Devet neodvisnih testov, javna metodologija, javni rezultati. Noben test ne kaže na umetno inteligenco. Kdorkoli jih lahko ponovi. Odziv: Siol.net, naslov: "Kako lahko Janšev podpornik na nacionalni televiziji komentira nezakonite prisluhe?" Ne: "Ali je analiza pravilna?" Ne: "Ali je metodologija ustrezna?" Ne: "Ali so rezultati ponovljivi?" Ampak: kako LAHKO. Kot da je javna objava tehničnih rezultatov nekaj, kar zahteva dovoljenje. Reporter je razkril moje objave na X. Ugotovili so, da imam politično stališče. To naj bi razveljavilo rezultate devetih testov, izvedenih na javno dostopnih posnetkih z javno dostopno kodo. Z isto logiko bi moral vsak zdravnik razkriti, koga voli, preden sme napisati izvid. Vsak inženir, preden sme podpisati statični izračun. Vsak revizor, preden sme pregledati bilanco. Noben od medijev, ki so me poskušali diskreditirati, ni naročil neodvisne analize, identificiral napake v metodi, predložil alternativnih rezultatov ali vprašal enega samega forenzičnega strokovnjaka, ali so moji testi napačni. To ni kritika. To je discipliniranje. Sporočilo vsem ostalim: če preveriš trditev oblasti, bomo razkrili tvoja politična stališča in te javno označili. Ustava RS, 39. člen: svoboda izražanja. 44. člen: pravica do sodelovanja pri upravljanju javnih zadev. Preverjanje trditev vlade o pristnosti posnetkov ni privilegij. Je pravica. Bralec z dejanskim tehničnim znanjem mi je pokazal napako v enem od testov. Popravil sem jo isti dan. To je kritika, ki jo spoštujem. Analiza napadov name pa ne vsebuje ene same vsebinske pripombe. Niti ene. Vsi, ki ste do zdaj molčali, ker se bojite enakega obračuna: to je bil namen. Da bi molčali. Ravno zato ne smete. Metodologija ostaja javna. In ta objava tudi.

@DominiBouchard Absolutely

@Nejk0 Is he still your lawyer after that?

My lawyer just admitted he hasn't read a contract in four months. Called him at 11 PM last night. Contract redline needed to go out by morning -- big potential client, tight timeline. He picked up on the fourth ring. Background was suspiciously quiet for someone who's "always at the office". Said he can't take it on. Completely swamped. Three closings this week. Thursday at the earliest. I pushed. Told him this client could be worth six figures annually. That we might need to reconsider the retainer. Long silence. Then a sigh. "Fine. I'll be honest with you. I hit my Claude Pro message limit earlier tonight. It doesn't reset until midnight." I asked what he meant. He said, and I quote: "I'm not reviewing a 43-page MSA with my actual eyes. It's 2026!" Hasn't read a full contract since November. Pastes them in, asks for a risk summary, bills by the hour. I asked what he'd been doing since 7 PM. "Reviewing case law." Pause. "On Reddit." I asked about his associate. "She's on the free tier. Useless after three messages." We waited until midnight. Redline was done by 12:07 AM. He charged me for two hours. I'm upgrading him to the Max plan for his birthday.

@Delo In to je vse na kar kažejo posnetki?

Posnetki Zidar Nine Klemenčič kažejo na podobno zgodbo kot posnetki nekdanje pravosodne ministrice Dominike Švarc Pipan. Posneti so bili brez njenega vedenja med sestankom v tujem jeziku v restavraciji. delo.si/novice/sloveni…

@surfon Za začetek je treba podnapise gor dat in povsod to šerat

Kdaj bodo protesti? Kdo prinese projektor in ozvočenje. To je treba na trgu republike vse te video in avdio posnetke je treba 247 na Trgu republike oredvajat.

@KokJan @surfon @alenkamajsep Desnica doma otroke vrdeva

@surfon @alenkamajsep Protestov ne bo, ker desnica nima organizirane profesionalne, plačane aktivistične baze.

@KokJan @surfon @alenkamajsep No, pa rabmo tud mal več optimizma :D

@surfon @alenkamajsep Ne rabimo akcij, rabimo infrastrukturo.

We just banned our employees from working. Effective immediately, @SellestialApp has adopted a strict No Manual Work Policy. All employees are now forbidden from performing any task themselves. Every deliverable must be produced by delegating to AI through one of three approved work modes: 🗨️ Chat -- for thinking 🤝 Cowork -- for doing 💻 Code -- for building Any employee caught typing a document, making a spreadsheet, or (God forbid) writing their own email -- will face disciplinary action. Why did we do it? We looked at the data and realized our people were still doing things. That's completely unacceptable in 2026. Key highlights of the new policy: → Meetings are now just prompts read aloud → Performance reviews are based on prompt quality, not output → The employee of the month is whoever burns most tokens → Our CTO has been replaced by a system prompt We believe this new policy will contribute to making us the first company to achieve Full Human Obsolescence™ while retaining a full headcount.

@GiffLasta Typography of the title - it should be the same as the typography of your name, or more different, right now it's "uncannily" similar

I'm thinking of having the artist do some edits. My list? 1. Make it OBVIOUS that the blue light is coming from the jewel (not her whole chest) 2. Giving her some more sensible footwear for an adventure. What would you change?

Men should always take full responsibility and blame for everything and have zero expectations from their wives.

@Sparkylong @GiffLasta It's called "potica" (pronounced potitsa).

@GiffLasta Slovenia had some nice kitchen implements in their nifty hardware stores that we use every day. They also have delicious cake made from finely ground walnuts or something. This is not critical information.

Am I going to sell more copies in Slovenian than English?

@adammichaelwood @GiffLasta I think it's worse. WWII and the communist revolution took or incapacitated many (Christian) men. Women ended up raising many boys on their own. Many of those boys never became men.

@GiffLasta Somehow I’m surprised Slovenia has comparable masculinity problems to America.