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This video reminds me of my ex and how I gave her stability, and how it was evident that she would end up as my wife. Every girl that came around me knew she was the one, and they all left me alone, as expected. I was there for her in all aspects except that I was not financially buoyant enough to take her on fancy dates regularly or get her Valentine gifts and all that materialistic "romantic" stuff (I know this because she told me prior to the breakup). The first thing she did was convince herself that I didn't love her (I made a post about compromise and love on my WhatsApp, and she replied, "I know I am not the love of your life"). She focused on the things I didn't do and ignored everything I did, just to play the "you are not doing enough" antics on me. She then played the religion card as the final one to end things. I didn't even try to explain because I knew I had given my best at that time. The funnier thing is, she ended things when I brought up the topic of marriage casually: "You will get married to me." "Who told you I will marry you?" And the religious excuse followed, lol. Sometimes, I think about the thought process that influenced that decision, and it makes me marvel at how the minds of women work. It's all "if you give a woman reassurance, she won't leave," but this one convinced herself that my reassurance was fake, even though all prior actions suggested otherwise. That experience taught me a valuable lesson about women, and I realized that all women are the same in that aspect, because I would have sworn that this was a very good and understanding woman. But you see, when someone doesn't believe in you well enough to stay, they will hold onto the flimsiest excuse to leave. Which brings me to my conclusion: if you are convinced you are doing right by someone, and they believe it is not enough for them to stay, never try to convince them. Let them leave without making a single effort to make them stay, like I did. Prioritize yourself, do your best for your partner and people, and if they say your best is not enough, leave them be. Life is good.

Congratulations 🎉👏 big Timmy, please give me the 9k at the back 🙏