Rose_Liz

@Adasu_d_gr8 Work out for her....might not be the same for others.....let's be careful out there

There's this girl I met during my service year at my PPA. I was in batch A2, she was in B1. While we were still serving, she became pregnant. The guy responsible denied the pregnancy completely and disappeared without a trace. He was not even a fellow corper. Till today, he has not shown face or called. One day, with tears, she confided in me that she wanted to terminate the pregnancy. She said her parents would klll her if they ever find out. We were not even very close, but somehow she felt safe talking to me. Maybe because I always tried to be welcoming and never looked like someone who would judge another person’s mistakes. “Please don’t do it. Keep the baby. If you think your parents will be angry, then don’t tell them for now. Stay back after service and raise your baby here.” To avoid the shame and embarrassment of an unwanted pregnancy, we bought a ring for her to wear so people would believe she was married. Lol Looking back now, it sounds funny, but at that moment, it was the only protection I could give her against naysayers and gossips. Yesterday, her little boy turned two years old. You should see the gigantic cake she baked. She called me with tears of gratitude in her voice and said, “thank you for not allowing me to destroy the greatest gift God gave me.” Those words touched me deeply and still rings in my head. It made me feel fulfilled. Please before you seek an advise from a person, even if you don't love God, make sure the person loves and fears God. E get why. After service, she got a job in Calabar and has been raising her son all by herself happily with no regret. Till today, her parents still do not know they have a grandson somewhere. But seeing her smile beside that handsome little boy filled my heart with joy. Life may not always begin the way we planned, but sometimes the child we fear the most becomes the greatest blessing we never knew we needed. No matter the situation, no matter how the pregnancy happened, ABORTION IS NEVER AN OPTION. Yes, she gave me the honor to name her baby and I called him ZOE—The Life of God.

@Adasomma1 Integrity cannot be over emphasized... Some people will want to encroach on the fact that you are in a relationship and not what to pay back.....yuck

My boyfriend once lent me ₦500,000, and I promised him I would pay it back in 5 months. That meant every month after my salary dropped, I would send him ₦100,000 until I completed the money. So every month, I kept to my word. First month = paid. Second month = paid. Third month = paid. Fourth month = paid. Now, on the last month when I wanted to complete the payment, he had earlier told me to call him immediately after sending the money. And I did. Immediately I sent the money, I called him like he said. While we were still on the phone, I suddenly received an alert of ₦500,000😭 I was confused and asked him why he sent the money back. And then he said something that melted me completely😭❤️ "Well done my Queen. You see, babe… the money was never the issue. I could never collect that money back from you. I just wanted to see if you were truly a woman of your word. A lot of people make promises, but only a few actually keep them. You did… and that says a lot about you. You can keep the money. What mattered to me was your sincerity… and you’ve already shown me that❤️ And honestly, that’s one of the best qualities a woman can have"❤️ Omo… I replayed those sweet words in my head for two weeks straight😭😍 Sweet words from someone you love can stay in your heart for a very long time❤

@Ighokarop @DamilareOdulate @talk2veee 😂😂😂😂

@DamilareOdulate @talk2veee I dey plan marriage and I nor even get 1k. But the marriage must hold. I nor gree

I don’t think it’s enough to divorce but there are ways to talk about it. Kilo of meat -7-8k 1/2cups of egusi 500 naira ugu Small palm oil Few maggi & small pepper Can cook a meal. X billionaires,avoid this post if you want to sound Nigeria as if we’re a rich country.

@kenkenlewu Hospitals in Nigeria...hmmmm... imagine going to the hospital and you are scared of the outcome....I lost a friend last week because of their nonchalant attitude at the hospital....

This watch belonged to a pupil in my class who unfortunately is now of blessed memory. He passed on last week Thursday, April 16, just a few days before school resumed. According to his mother, he started complaining of a headache from Sunday through Monday. He was given Paracetamol, but he did not feel better … the complaints continued. On Tuesday, after taking breakfast, he was sleeping when he suddenly woke up vomiting. Then his body became stiff … he could not move any part of his body, and even his eyes could not close. He was a JHS 1 student, only 12 years old, very lively, full of life, and full of dreams. I wish I could say more about this issue of no beds in our hospitals, but I will overlook it. I will only encourage our health workers to at least find a way to assist those who need help, even if it means laying a mat on the floor for them. These patients have relatives who, I am sure, would support with anything necessary just to keep their loved ones alive. Back to the watch incident … a day before we vacated on April 1 this year, Frederick, the young man of blessed memory, complained that his watch was missing. We searched everywhere in the class, but we found nothing. Everyone said they had not taken it. We resumed just yesterday, and all the children in the class were informed that their colleague had passed on last week Thursday, so they would not be seeing him again. Today … the watch was found in the class, exactly where the owner said he had kept it before it went missing. The thief had returned it because he or she heard that the owner had died. The day this watch went missing, Frederick cried so much. He had bought it just a few days earlier because he wanted to wear it to our day, which was the very next day. These children know what they are doing … and so do the hospitals that could not help Frederick with a bed from Tuesday until he left this earth later on Thursday. Ccloveandpillsgh

"You have to believe in yourself when no one else does. That's what makes you a winner." — Venus Williams

@naffaish01 How I won look like this 🤧

I went for 6 weeks check up today and the doctor couldn’t recognize me. I was telling him I am the same person and he was confirming from another person 😂😂😂😂😂. What this pregnancy did to my appearance no other pregnancy has done it to me . My sister in-law was even telling me that while I was still in the hospital that someone was saying is this the woman your brother is marrying in a sarcastic way, she was the one explaining to the person that it’s pregnancy that changed me that I am very beautiful. #copied #postpartum #6weekspostpartum

@ummuh_Zahra 😂😂😂😂😂you want to change him

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He’s 36. From day one, he promised me marriage and said I’m the one who will mother his children. Because of that, I gave him everything. For 4 years, I’ve basically become his house help. I spend weekends (and some weekdays) at his place washing his heavy clothes by hand, scrubbing floors, and cooking soups to stock his freezer. I even travel to his village every planting and harvest season to work on his mother’s farm under the hot sun, just to prove I’m “wife material.” Yesterday broke me 💔. After washing a mountain of clothes and cooking until my body ached, my mum called needing urgent help. I told him I’d return the next day to iron, but he got angry and called me lazy. He said I’m not ready for marriage because I couldn’t iron after everything I’d done. He showed no concern for my tiredness or my mum’s needs. Now planting season is here again. I told him I can’t travel because I have a professional exam I’ve already paid for, my future is on the line. He said if I don’t go, I should forget the relationship. He called me weak, disrespectful, and not “submissive” enough to be a wife. I’m tired. I feel like a servant, not a partner. But I’m 28 and have given him 5 years of my life. Starting over scares me. How do I make him change, or is it time to walk away after everything I’ve invested? 😔

@AdegbolaEsther7 Funny how most women encourage this....I had same argument with someone that I will employ someone to clean my place. if you see how this woman (married) shouted at me that I am lazy, that it is my duty as a woman to do that...I told her it is poverty talking through her...😁

Some men are not real 😂 This reminds me of the time I was on the phone with a man when I heard a knock on the door. I went to open it and it was the woman my sister hired to help with laundry and cleaning. She already knows what to do when she comes, so I didn’t have to say much. Then he asked who it was, and I told him it was the lady who helps us clean. This man said, “Oh, you people hire someone to do that?” I said yes. He then goes, “Why don’t you just do it yourselves?” I explained that my sister and I are busy and don’t always have the time. I mean, not like I can’t clean my house and all but we’re just busy most of the time and I don’t see why hiring someone is a problem. Tell me why this man now said, “If we were dating and you came to visit me, you would do chores.” I said, “Before you met me, weren’t you doing those things yourself? And why are you even asking? Do you want a partner or a maid?” Then I added, “If I can afford to make my own life easier, what makes you think I’ll come to your house and start working?” And honestly, it’s funny how some men get intimidated when a woman is comfortable and can afford convenience. Instead of seeing it as normal, it becomes a problem because it doesn’t fit into the role they’ve already created in their head. Because truly… some of you don’t want love, you want unpaid staff with emotional benefits 😂

@ummuh_Zahra That man hate you girl.....

I'm 32 and tired. I need honest advice. I lost my husband when my daughter was just 5 months old. He left everything in her name. I'm a nurse and run a small shop, so I've always stood on my own. Two years later, I remarried. Just 4 months in, my new husband said his business was failing. Since then, I've been handling almost all the bills. I even gave him ₦2M to support him. Instead of things getting better, he kept demanding more. When I asked what happened to the money, he got upset and left. Now I've found out he secretly married another woman and even built a house for her. She's pregnant for him. We've been apart for 4 months. During a family meeting, he claimed he left because I refused to buy a car in his name. The painful part? My own mother and siblings are supporting him. They say I should transfer my shop and car to his name to “save my marriage.” They're also pressuring me because of my age and my child. But he has made it clear, he's not leaving the other woman. Now I'm stuck… Should I give up everything I've worked for (and what belongs to my daughter) just to keep this marriage? Or should I walk away and start over?

@b_myrra @princess_yfe Nothing.....app gone, website gone 😤

@OMALISA5 @princess_yfe Has anyone heard anything yet?

If truly truly Cribstock has disappeared, I honestly blame myself for wanting to invest in them Before I started investing in them, my mentor asked me to pray and ask God I said "He gave His go ahead" Maybe I was being hasty I wanted to prove something to myself because at that time (300 level), I was suffering My money was never adding up I worked, but I didn't have anything to show for it People made fun of me Some even gossiped about me behind my back But I said even though I'll make sure that I invest in this thing and save this money I did I was so proud I remember telling my friends about it, and they were so happy for me It was 48k It's small to a lot of people, but to me, it meant so much because I worked for it Like a dog This is 3 years since then I'm doing better now, but I was looking forward to reaping the fruits of my labour Invested in 2 properties One matured in 2024, but I said "No. I'll withdraw the money for the 2 at the same time. I'll wait" And wait, I did The second one was meant to mature next month I just said "Let me check how my money is doing", only for me to find out that their site is gone And you think I'd have left them in 2024 when their mobile app suddenly disappeared I was sensing red flags, but I couldn't liquidate my funds then, so I had to wait Ladies and gentlemen, this is 2026, and Cribstock is nowhere to be found My heart is shattered 💔 It's not even about the money It was the effort, the sweat, the work that Princess of 2023 put into get it All the insults and shame she endured to prove that "I am capable of make wise, responsible choices" If truly Cribstock is gone and my money is gone too, my God will avenge me On my Mother's side of the Family, they would curse those who cause them pain, but I promised myself that I'm not going to be that kind of person God will vindicate ad avenge me Because I know what I went through then before getting that money @cribstocks, if you see this, may God have mercy on you

@Araoluwanimi01 Heat

What’s stopping Nigerian ladies from dressing like this?

@Mobb1011 @maryakpa_n 🙄

@OMALISA5 @maryakpa_n Rose, but you know he’s not 🤣🤣

I once had a neighbor who looked like everything was working for him. Clean clothes every morning. Always on calls. Sometimes he’d step outside and say things like, "Send ₦520k now, I’ll confirm." "I’ll send you ₦2m right now." You’d think life was moving well. But somehow, paying NEPA bills was always a struggle for him. The calls were always about big money. The people coming to meet him were always about small debts. The next morning, you’d see him again. Same clean clothes. Same loud phone calls.

@kheme @princess_yfe They are not responding.....e no uo better for all of them at Cribstock

@OMALISA5 @princess_yfe I've also been waiting too. This is nearly the end of March, and no info... Their Whatsapp ain't going, email unavailable, I'm just weak!

@Cocolet10 @AdageorgeA Which one is no man?...... people can act funny sometimes... So speak for yourself

@AdageorgeA I hope you all realize that this never happened. No man will actually do that. This is just a story for engagements. Nice one, writer.

"I am a man of 35 years old, but today,I feel like a stranger in my own house. I live in a one-room apartment with my wife. Last year, when my wife gave birth to our first son, my mother and my younger sister moved in to help with "Omugwo" (postpartum care). I was so happy. My mother is a widow; she sacrificed everything to send me to school, so having her around felt like a blessing. But it has been 14 months. They haven't left. Every night, my wife and I sleep on the bed with the baby, while my mother and my 22-year-old sister spread their mat on the floor right next to our bed. We are all breathing the same air in that small room. I'm frustrated, my mind is burning like fire inside & can't hold this to myself anymore. For one year, I have become a "celibate" man in my own marriage. Anytime I touch my wife at night, she jumps like a snake has bitten her. She will whisper, "Are you mad? Your mother is right there! Your sister is watching!" I got frustrated and did something I now realize might be strange. I went to meet my mother and sister to talk to them "man to man."My mother laughed and said, "My son, don't mind her. I am your mother. I have seen it all. Just do your thing, I will cover my ears. It doesn't bother me." My sister even joked about it, saying she would put on her headphones so she wouldn't hear anything. I was relieved! I went back to my wife and told her the "good news" i explained things to her, i told her mom & my sister says they wouldn't mind and besides they're not kids Instead of being happy, my wife looked at me with pure disgust. She said, "You went to discuss our private life with your mother? Have you lost your shame?" Now, she won't even let me hold her hand. She has turned her back to me for 3 months straight. She says if I want "action," I should rent a separate house for my mother. But how can I throw my widowed mother out when she has nowhere to go in this Lagos? Is it wrong for a mother to stay with her son? Why is my wife making this look like a crime? My mother says she is comfortable on the floor, so why is my wife the one complaining? I feel like my wife is using this "shyness" as an excuse because she secretly hates my family and wants them to suffer. Am I supposed to choose between my mother’s comfort and my wife’s "shyness"? this is exactly how women push a man out to another woman yet start complaining! I love my wife and i honestly don't want to cheat on her but the way things are going i might have no choice " Husband from temu

@Calina_purity @instablog9ja You dey mind them.....well na them sabi

But was it necessary?? The bible says we can wear your gold and jewelries what the lord look after is your heart....if Jewelries was a sin why did God said in Ezekiel 16:11-13 Read full chapter Ezekiel 16:11-13 King James Version 11 I decked thee also with ornaments, and I put bracelets upon thy hands, and a chain on thy neck. 12 And I put a jewel on thy forehead, and earrings in thine ears, and a beautiful crown upon thine head. Why would he ardone his people with what is a Sin???

I Threw My Expensive Gold Jewelry into the Lagoon the Moment I Became a Born-Again Christian— Pastor Adeboye’s Wife, Foluke Wife of Foluke Adeboye has revealed the drastic step she took after becoming born again, throwing away her gold jewellery into a lagoon. Speaking candidly, the pastor’s wife shared that like many women, she once loved fashion and had even prepared expensive gold items for her young child. However, everything changed after she joined the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), where wearing earrings was frowned upon at the time. “The moment we were born again, it was a taboo for you to have earrings. So everything, I dropped it in the lagoon,” she said. She recalled how a family friend questioned her decision, suggesting she could have given the jewellery to her mother to sell instead. But She stood firm, “Whatever is not good for me is not good for my mother.” Reflecting on her journey, she made it clear she has no regrets about her sacrifice. “I don’t miss anything, not much, because I have already sold my life,” she added.

@_Spirit2Spirit @instablog9ja 😂😂😂😂

@instablog9ja This is why the early RCCG had so much power because the leaders were actually sold out. Today, we want the miracles without the sacrifice. We want the anointing but we want to keep the jewelry....

@AskOlotuomotayo @instablog9ja 😂

@instablog9ja Pastor Foluke Adeboye didn’t just speak about faith she acted on it. She discarded all her gold jewelry upon becoming born again. Would you have the courage to make such a bold spiritual statement?

@Tundesalamii @Ihunanya_chi 🙄 Pas what

Your President has been married to a Redeemed pastor for over three decades. Fashola, a former governor, is married to a Christian. Truly successful people don’t let religion or tribal bias cloud their judgment; they rise above fanaticism. I’d encourage you to cultivate spiritual discernment and let go of bigotry. You’re not the gatekeeper of Christianity, and your performance on social media isn’t a ticket to heaven.

Christian women, stop marrying Muslim men‼️ Stop it! Their aim is to convert you and your children to Islam. Read your Bible and get to know God. Stop being deceived by the lie that “we worship the same God” no, we don’t and never will. 👎 You hardly ever see a Muslim girl marry a Christian. Those people don’t joke with their faith; no matter how much they love you, they will never leave their religion for you. Read the Bible. Get to know God. Stand firm in your belief. Build a relationship with God. Love God. And raise godly Children for Jesus.

@biodagreatman @Ihunanya_chi 😂😂😂😂😂

Remove the log from your eyes, you would see that Muslim men that married Christian girls became blessing to those Christian women than Christian men marrying Muslim men. Examples abound; -IBB Vs Mariam - Tinubu vs Remi - Fashola Vs Abimbola - Ajimobi Vs Florence - Ibikunle Amosun Vs Olufunso - Olusola Saraki vs Florence - Bukola vs Toyin - Idiagbon vs Cecilia - Rtd Col Mamman Ali vs Joy Ali - Fatai Ahmed Vs Omolewa I challenge you to Mention one Christian man that married a Muslim woman and added value to her life. Infact what they do is that they convert them to Christianity and make them look ugly. MUSLIMS MEN ARE A BLESSING TO CHRISTIAN LADIES WHILE CHRISTIAN MEN ARE A CURSE TO MUSLIM LADIES

@Ihunanya_chi They will not hear.....love / money has blind them....it is a risk, I can't take