Ontlametse Thato Montsho

@AfricanPatriot_ @jamesonen And do you see the state Nigeria is in?

@jamesonen Nigerian streets are filled with hawkers and people doing mineal labour from Niger, and other neighboring countries. But you will never know because we don't talk about it

To the Ugandans complaining about South Africa - how would you react if your streets were filled with hawkers from foreign countries? When I look at the people harassing immigrants in South Africa, I notice it is the lesser educated, lesser privileged ones, attacking foreigners doing petty business rather than foreigners working in offices. And you will notice it is the south African elite that seem baffled by the xenophobia, urging their people to show restraint. There is a nuance to this problem that is not being discussed. This is partially a class issue. The people most affected by the influx of illegal immigrants doing petty work are the people at the bottom socio-economically in South Africa. Isn't it fair for a poor South African to ask why they need Nigerians and Zimbabweans selling tomatoes on their streets and running neighbourhood kiosks? I do not see them bothering bankers, economists and other professionals from other African countries working in South Africa, because they are far fewer in number and are not an economic threat to the middle class or elite black South African. And because of largely undocumented (illegal) status of many of these foreigners, when they commit crimes there tends to be less consequences because they are not even easy to track. Don't get me started on the legitimate concerns about fraud, drug and sex trafficking that are perpetrated by certain specific nationalities that I shall leave unnamed for now. While of course we must denounce violence, we also have to be fair to the black South Africans - especially those at the bottom of the socio-economic ladder. There are indeed many things to criticise about them, but on this issue we have to look at the matter more broadly.

@duwadh @Chizitere_xyz I think she has been through a lot in her life and hasn't healed so she bleeds on people 💔. But that's very toxic and as an adult your own healing is your responsibility hey

@Ontlathato @Chizitere_xyz The latter may have been a narcissist

Female friendships can be significantly more dangerous and draining than toxic relationships with men. Some of y'all have 'besties' who secretly resent your progress, actively compete with your aesthetic, and are just waiting for a weak moment to sleep with your man. But they will still be the very first ones to comment 'My whole heart 😍' under your pictures. The call is coming from inside the house.

@Thooso_M @nonkululeko1402 @EvansSiphoMsiza Others buy betway vouchers 😭💔

@nonkululeko1402 @EvansSiphoMsiza You are the first person I’ve ever seen use this money wisely.. and I’m sure you are not the only one. My you find a job soon

My R370 SASSA grant. Thank you fellow tax payers❤️

@GogoMuhlavasi @HunnyDipr Found out the hard way 💔. Better late than never though yho, cz that woman nearly destroyed my entire life just because she has a bone to pick with my mom mxm.

@HunnyDipr Yes, a sad reality

If you knew the lengths people will go to destroy the lives of others. You would ensure that you take your spiritual life seriously.🙏🏽❤️

@ttfalor Keep seeing someone's status and I already deleted her number 😭 I don't know how to permanently delete the number because I also deleted our chats mxm

it doesn’t man they just keep coming back

@Lulu_Hon @nobkwelo2 While we are tackling this issue you can mobilize with other South Africans and tackle the colonizers 🥺 imagine how productive that would be

@nobkwelo2 Why not do the same to the colonisers? And also why now? Why now all of the sudden?

When did South Africa stop being Pan-Africanist ? When did we stop having the interest of Africans at heart? …This is sad and heartbreaking.

@GinGinTautona I legit thought she's a doctor💀🤞🏾. Lastly, when people disagree with you, which I wasn't, it doesn't mean they are offended👀

@GinGinTautona If you were not so ready to argue you would have realized that I was adding on to what you're saying, bla bla bla no sex appeal and she's a doctor. I don't think it's offensive to not have a sex appeal, actually think it's kinda a good thing. So no, I'm not offended.

I see this is - there is no “bimbofication” marker with her. a very beautiful woman just only short of sex appeal.

@miyelani_mabasa @noeleensaid @Saw_Leyy No, it's not.

@Ontlathato @noeleensaid @Saw_Leyy That was a question 🤷

My singleness by choice is at the point where I don't even want to talk to men much. I have no interest in texting back or anything that could lead to a relationship.

@MancYardie @Sona12077 @vasasvada @muheediva01 🤣 You still live in a backroom

@Ontlathato @Sona12077 @vasasvada @muheediva01

If you "don't like" wigs and lashes why approach a woman with a wig and lashes and try to convince her not to wear them?

@noeleensaid @mbaleighBrown Same same💀✌🏾 my problem is I want kids someday but I'm not sure how I'll go about that cz bashimane bona haikhona shem ke shapo hey👍🏾

@mbaleighBrown Sana 😭 I'm at peace tho so I'm not complaining

@miyelani_mabasa @noeleensaid @Saw_Leyy What's your point?

@noeleensaid @Saw_Leyy Are you aware that you are more likely to "die" at the hands of someone you know than a complete stranger?

@LeratoLeek @__Mbaliz Eating clean wena😂 I know it's a typo, just teasing

@__Mbaliz Training, cleaning eat and minding our calories is the hill my husband and I are dying on.

The growth in this relationship 😍

@Nomonde_chom Does nolali mean dumb? 😭 If it does, she's a medical doctor.

Ngunolali omhle just like aMawhoo.

@mqhelenqabankos @DrRebrand Any beautiful girl who happens to get married to a rich guy is a baddie to yall. If she wasn't objectively beautiful you wouldn't say that. Lapho she's a whole Medical doctor so ga nyala because of tlala man

@DrRebrand You baddies don’t strike each other as baddies. Leleti is a baddie just like Lee Khuzwayo, but don’t you dare look at Cyan and think Leleti is better than her. They’re all baddies, just at different levels.

Don't know why people call her a baddie, she doesn't strike me like one. Yes, she married a man with "money" and got accustomed to an expensive lifestyle, but she seems like a normal, loyal Zulu woman. She is just light in complexion. Can't put her with Cyan, Faith Nkesi and them

@DrRebrand In addition, she's a medical doctor. Sure that alone cannot afford her the lifestyle her husband gives her but it has to count for something and she definitely did marry because of hunger.

Maybe it's giving the Khanyi Mbau effect. Because in reality she was spending her husband's "money". So you can't call her a baddie or slay queen if you understand the institution of marriage. Where the money comes from is another story, which of course can never be justified.

@MancYardie @Sona12077 @vasasvada @muheediva01 You live in a backroom somewhere 🤣

@Sona12077 @vasasvada @muheediva01 I’m not bitter im just sick of women always moaning about men this men that but as soon as a man say anything about a woman it’s a huge problem like stfu

@sudahottie @MancYardie @vasasvada @muheediva01 He's lying 🤣

@MancYardie @vasasvada @muheediva01 LMAOOO RIGHT..