NoGiveUp

I regret marrying a single father and I'll advice my fellow women not to marry them too. I really need to talk about something because it’s starting to get annoying and I don’t even know if I’m overreacting anymore. I married a single father. His son is 7 years old and according to him the mother died while giving birth to him and he's the first and only child. From the beginning, I knew I would have to accept the child, and I did. I came into the marriage with a good heart, ready to love and build a home. But what I didn’t know was that I would become a second option in my own husband's house. This man treats his son like he can do no wrong. The boy cannot do anything in the house… not even wash a plate, not even sweep or clean. Everything is “leave him, he’s still a child.” But how long will he remain a child that cannot do anything? If I even try to correct him or discipline him like a mother should do, his father will shout at me like I’ve committed a crime. So now the boy has gotten used to it… he talks back at me like am his mate, he refuses to do simple things because he knows his father will always take his side. The last time, I sent him on an errand, something very close to our estate. He looked at me and said the place was far. Far? I got angry and tried to discipline him, and in the process I mistakenly hit his eye. It wasn’t intentional. When my husband came back and saw it, instead of asking what happened, he beat me mercilessly without waiting for me to even explain. Me… his wife. Since that day, I’ve just been asking myself… what exactly is my place in this house? Because at this point, it feels like I’m just there, with no authority, no respect, and no say. is it now bad for my own stepson to do things in the house?”

I just found out my wife has been pregnant for almost 3 months… and she never told me. I saw folic acid on our bed and asked her what she was using it for. She said she is pregnant. I was shocked and asked her why she didn’t tell me the good news, and she said she forgot. I remember about a month ago, I noticed some changes in her body and asked if she was pregnant, but she said no, and I didn’t think much of it. I feel really bad that she kept such wonderful news from me. What hurts the most is that she is almost three months gone, and I still had no idea. How can she forget to tell me she’s been pregnant for almost three months?

Ndi Igbo of the great Ndi gboo is not a tribe They are nations of many tribes such as; Nsukka Arochukwu Aba Izzi Ngwa Owerre etc We must as a nation of great people strive to making the entirety of Igbo land great again.

This is a terrible thing to do to a widow. I’m sure when this man was alive , he will swear that his family cannot do such because his trusts them more than his wife. WRITE YOUR WILL,a widow shouldn’t be borrowing money to bury her own husband or his kids made to suffer. They won’t see those kids & their bride price returned! You don’t negotiate with terrorists. You will use craze to cure craze.

What do you think?🤔

Yesterday, While I was returning from the market with my neighbor's wife, A man called her, not up to a minute, she started saying " Sir I am not interested" When she ended the call, I asked her if it was about business, she said no. The man saw her and liked her . He wants her to see him date him.. I immediately asked her to block and delete the number ASAP! This lady, declined it . She said it's nothing. That she has told him she's not interested.. Wait, I didn't tell you she's already married and was currently 6 months pregnant... Yes! The man told her he loves pregnant women cause they are not troublesome. My neighbor's wife refused deleting the number.. I told her she has already considered the man cause tell me who cheats with pregnancy? I jokingly told her I will tell her husband if she tries it, but she got angry and told me to mind my business. This morning, she saw me and ignored me when I greeted her. This left me wondering if the husband was actually the owner of that pregnancy.. And who dates a pregnant women for Christ sake..? This is my third time I am hearing about some men loving to date pregnant women.. Do you think I should tell the husband or mind my business?

The earlier we discuss how this criminals will leave Terrorists in their land, come to Eastern Region and Start terrorizing our people They hate the life we live here in Igbo Land, whenever they see you driving Luxury car they are angry. How dare you? This people are worst than Criminals

a guy swapped my girlfriend iPhone 16 to 17pro max. Took her on a date yesterday and she ignored my call all through yesterday, today she's saying it's nothing, that they're just friends.

My friend has been having serious issues at home because he refused to take a loan for his wife’s younger sister’s wedding. Her family had a meeting and shared responsibilities. Every son-in-law was assigned ₦300,000 each for the wedding. Meanwhile, the girl has two older brothers who are working and doing well. He told his wife calmly: “I’m not saying I won’t support it, but I can’t go and borrow money for something that isn’t my direct responsibility.” That didn’t go down well. She said he was embarrassing her. “That’s my only sister. What will my family think?” He stood his ground: “I’ll give what I can afford, but I won’t go into debt to meet a fixed contribution.” She reported him to her family. They called him. At first, it was calm. Then the tone changed. “So you can’t support your wife’s family?” “Other men are doing it without complaining.” He replied: “I’m not refusing to support. I’m refusing to be forced into a specific amount, especially one I have to borrow.” That was where everything scattered. They said he lacked respect. Told him to forget about contributing entirely. At home, things got worse. His wife stopped talking to him. Cold replies. Silence. Tension. The same support he was willing to give freely… turned into a problem because it wasn’t on their terms. Now the house is divided. And he’s the one being painted as the bad person for choosing financial sense over pressure.

I don't see criticism over nepotism or tribalism now, but if the appointment had gone to a Yoruba person or nortberner, there will backlash. Mind you, we have other tribes that continues to get marginalised.