okay

Even if our tastes are different, I'd still watch the movies and listen to the music you love just to get to know you better

reminder!

🤏🏻🤏🏻

too passionate for a situationship too avoidant for a relationship just miserable enough to yearn

I understand Chet just wanna hoop but unfortunately he’s mentally gonna have to participate in whatever this is Wemby got going on with him

chet was wearing durags and eating oxtail while wemby was training with the monks and hakeem

When someone teaches you something you didn't ask to learn, your brain reacts like it's in physical pain. UCLA scientists watched it happen on brain scans in 2003. The same wiring that fires when you stub your toe also fires when someone treats you like you need fixing. Naomi Eisenberger and Matthew Lieberman ran the study and published it in Science. The brain region is the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex, which is just the fancy name for your main pain alarm. It doesn't care whether the threat is a hot stove or a friend telling you how to live. A neuroscientist named David Rock built a framework around this in 2008. Five things make the brain feel safe in social moments: status, certainty, autonomy, relatedness, and fairness. Take away any of those and the alarm fires. Rock wrote that one of the easiest ways to dent someone's status is to give them advice they didn't ask for. Even hinting that they're doing something wrong is enough. When people are told what to do, they often do the opposite, even when the advice was good. The psychologist Jack Brehm noticed this in 1966, and sixty years of follow-up have confirmed it. The brain is trying to keep your life feeling like your own. Close friends cut each other off with unsolicited advice in about 70% of supportive conversations, often before the friend has even finished explaining the problem. That number comes from a 2016 study by Bo Feng and Eran Magen in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. The closer the friendship, the worse it gets. And the advice tends to make them more stressed, more depressed, and more lonely, not less. Giving advice gives the giver a sense of power, even when nobody asked for it. Michael Schaerer and his co-authors, working across Harvard, Duke, INSEAD, USC, and Singapore Management, published this in 2018 after four experiments with about 700 people. People who chase power volunteer advice more often than others. Whether the student actually improves is a side effect, if it happens at all. So when you feel the urge to teach somebody who never asked, that urge is mostly about you. You walk away feeling a little more powerful. They walk away feeling like they were just told they can't run their own life. Most uninvited teaching is one person's ego dressed up as kindness.

If u can convince a woman to be ur third baby momma you should be selling houses

Donovan Mitchell understands it now. The cheat code for off the dribble 3s is allowing the ball to float and then dip it as you gather it, turning a pull up into a catch and shoot.

Be careful with the idea that ‘everyone is replaceable.’ Some people are truly one of a kind. If you lose them, life won’t hand you another version—you don’t meet certain souls t

when a guy who has never asked me a single question about myself tells me that he’s in love with me

I’m ngl he ate tho 😂

double texting isnt embarassing yall turned basic human enthusiasm into a social crime

when you're 3 hours into doing absolutely nothing and God adds rain for aesthetic

What level of brainwashed are people if they consider a good view seeing an artist for a few moments of his own concert while paying full price if not even vip price just because "we're living in the moment"???? Everything is completely insane and people SHOULD ask compensation

Drake's "Make Them Cry" officially breaks the all-time record for biggest streaming day for a hip-hop song in global Spotify history (13.2 million). It surpasses Kendrick Lamar's "Not Like Us".

nipsey said “work on how you react when you feel disrespected”

You put Aytons brain in a chipmunk he’ll store nuts in his ass instead of his mouth

just kidding but if u want underground vibes i just uploaded my day zero set from bali youtu.be/vCjtEUS3IXw?si…