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Greatness is sealed by God’s promises, but distractions make us forget it.Greatness costs responsibility, sacrifice, pain, and loneliness. As Ray Dalio says:“To have a great life, you must cross a dangerous jungle,or stay where you are and live an ordinary one.”

You know what's funny??? I'm loyal. I'II never leave you for someone else. I’ll only leave you for myself. For my peace, my sanity, my respect, my dignity.

Apparently, the secret to life is just having gratitude towards God all the time.

Nobody buys from a brand they don't trust. Trust is built before the sale.

James Clear on having high standards:

I have 3 master’s degrees and a PhD so trust me, I’ve tasted academic validation and I highly recommend getting academic validation.

Build something people come back to. That's the whole game.

Perfect home

7 SIGNS OF STRONG CHARACTER 1) You stand by what’s right, even when it’s difficult 2) Promises, no matter how small, are kept 3) Respect is given to everyone, regardless of their status 4) Mistakes are acknowledged and seen as lessons 5) Success doesn’t lead to arrogance, but to humility 6) You admit when you don’t know something and stay open to learning 7) Integrity is maintained even when no one is watching

be honest, do you think you’re getting married??

Dating while neurodivergent isn’t just about finding someone you like. It’s about finding someone who lets you exist without performing

Don’t let your heart dwell on disappointments from those who didn’t show up. Keep moving forward, you will find your tribe.

One day you’ll thank yourself for choosing solitude over situationships that kept you anxious for months.

Top 10 red flags in a man 🚩 1. 🚩 Disrespect – puts you down or embarrasses you 2. 🚩 Inconsistent – hot & cold, confusing behavior 3. 🚩 Poor communication – avoids real conversations 4. 🚩 Controlling – tries to dictate your choices 5. 🚩 No accountability – never admits fault 6. 🚩 Anger issues – overreacts or gets aggressive 7. 🚩 Dishonest – lies or hides things 8. 🚩 No effort – you do all the work 9. 🚩 Ignores boundaries – doesn’t respect your “no” 10. 🚩 Negative mindset –critizes all

Self-love begins when you stop chasing those who ignore your worth.

Men don't realize their superpower is safety. A woman will do anything for a man with whom she feels mentally, emotionally and physically safe.

even platonically, i love intensely. intimacy is not reserved for romance. i will always respect peoples boundaries, but i think a lot of people are taken back because they've never been loved for the sake of being loved. i don't want anything. i just really love my friends

Never change for someone. If they can't accept you for who you are at your worst, they don't deserve to see you at your best.

I'm naturally a giver. If I got it, I got you. Just don't make me feel used.

I am an adult. I am not ashamed of responding fast and double texting. I want to talk to you! 🥺🥺

Accept that it didn't work out. Accept that you two are incompatible. Accept that they weren't equipped to treat you the way you deserved to be treated. Accept that they're just.. not the one for you. Accept it and let go of the anger/ resentment. It's hurting you more than them.