Glorious God@GloriousGod01
Just so you know, Cohabitation is a must for me.
I will never marry any woman until she has lived under my roof for at least 6 months to 1 full year. No shortcuts, no excuses.
This is how I protect our future. I need to see the real her every single day, not the weekend version, not the dating mask. I watch how she sleeps, when she wakes up. If she sleeps beyond 7am often, that's a hard red flag. Lazy woman ruins a home. I won't accept it.
I test our sexual compatibility the right way. No pretending, no surprises on the wedding night. I love sex and I expect us to have sex at least twice in a week not a woman that will be telling me "I'm not in the mood" or "I don't feel like".
I observe how she handles real disagreement and conflict. Does she stop cooking my food because she's angry? Does she lock me out of my own house because I came home late from work or hustle? Does she challenge my authority? I see everything. No hiding behind sweet talk or short visits.
Cohabitation exposes character. It separates serious wife material from time-wasters and pretenders. I don't marry blind. I guard my peace, my home, my life.
Above all, I love God.