Mr.Kyari

Why can't every street in Nigeria be like this 😭😭

Easemoni inside OPay wants to borrow me 540,000 to pay back 1.1million in one year? How is this even legal? over a 100%! Lmaooo, please avoid debt by all means

REMINDER Try and cut your nails and shave your hair before 1st dhul hajj for those sacrificing animals. You'll not be able to do that until after the sacrifice.

Dear Unilorites, What is one special thing about Unilorin masjid??😊

“The best punishment a man can give a woman is malice 😭 just ignore her, stop talking to her and come home late… It’s better than physically beating a woman. Any man that beats his wife is a BIG FOOL” — Frank Edoho

Dear sisters, this is Tabarruj! There is nothing like Niqab chain.

I largely agree with everything you said here, I however think you misinterpret what equity means as regards dealing with wives and I will take it from your statement. “If you buy high-quality items for one because of her taste, you buy the same quality for the other.” That quote up there is part of the equity you are trying to dismiss. Equality in that instance will be injustice and I will explain. Wife A wants an iPhone 17 Pro Max, equality demands that you buy the same iPhone 17 pro max for wife B but this is absolutely not fair as wife B hates iPhone and she would never use it, why buy what she doesn’t like in the name of equality? She wants a Samsung Galaxy Fold 7 which might even be a bit more expensive than the iphone, that’s equity. I will give another example. Wife A uses 10 yards for her jilbaab while wife B uses 15 yards, does it make any sense buying 10 yards for wife B in the name of equality? something that will not be enough for her? No of course, the same way it wouldn’t make sense to buy 15 yards for wife A cos it’s too much. Being just in polygyny is the goal but wisdom is also profitable and I dare say equity bring about that wisdom and balance

Equity vs Equality in Polygamy? I dare say that: equality is the baseline in polygamy, not equity. People use the word equity to hide their own favoritism. They try to make a marriage feel like a performance review where you get bonuses for "bending backwards." One of equity advocates said this. We must know that a wife’s rights aren't prizes you hand out. They are fixed. Equality is the math of the marriage: the same nights, the same housing, and the same quality of life. If you say one gets more because she is "better" or more pleasing, you aren't being fair. You are being an oppressor. Even the Messenger of Allah was worried about the smallest tilt in how he treated his wives. I also see people bringing up the number of children or the "needs" of a wife to justify being unequal. This is a weak excuse. Taking care of your kids is a separate duty from how you treat your wife. If one house has more kids, you pay the food bill for those children, but you don't lower the status of the wife or take away her time. If you buy high-quality items for one because of her taste, you buy the same quality for the other. You don't get to decide who "needs" less respect. The Prophet (PBUH) was so careful he prayed: اللهم هذا قسمي فيما أملك، فلا تلمني فيما تملك ولا أملك He knew he couldn't force his heart to love everyone the same, but he made sure everything he could control was perfectly balanced. If you can't meet this baseline, the Quran’s verdict is clear: Marry only one. You can't use fancy words to ignore a woman's rights. There is a heavy price for favoring one over the other. You will show up on the Day of Resurrection with half your body leaning as a physical sign of your injustice. Justice isn't a feeling. It is a duty to be equal in every way you have power over. This is what ‘Adl means in its core, not the dictionary meaning they are parroting. Don't trade a divine law for a system that just feeds your own desires. Allah knows best.

He can now pick you🤭