Quintessence

@BadSeedBooks @Ryan_Daigler I think they generally come up with some reason to justify it. In my case it was "it should have been me who had those qualities all along, im just righting a mistake"

@Ryan_Daigler Shockingly malevolent. These ppl must know how unwell they are somewhere deep down inside.

A narcissistic abuse tactic I call “Leapfrogging” is a form of predatory behavior where a narcissist targets someone they envy—often someone who possesses traits, status, or social capital the narcissist lacks or is threatened or envious of. The malignant narcissist makes a conscious decision to destroy or discredit the target before initiating the friendship or connection. The entire relationship is a setup—an infiltration. They study their target, mimic their behavior, and mirror their values, all while planning their psychological ambush.

Discernment is key but it won't make you popular

Its easy to be authentic when you've experienced being the target of hateful hypocrisy. You choose to do better than those who can't.

DISLIKING someone is human. Trying to destroy their REPUTATION because your EGO feels threatened is weakness, not power.

Silencing someone’s voice because you did wrong to them is evil .

The feeling of KNOWING so clearly that someone is a manipulative, deceitful, abusive narcissist and seeing them fool crowds of people is one of the most frustrating and isolating things a person can experience

you know you’re powerful when people have to gang up to hate you.

Credit: FToxicPeople

If you ever need to figure out who the real workplace bully is and who the actual victim is, look at who stands alone. The victim is always hated for carrying the abuse all on their own, while the bully is surrounded by toxic groups, enablers who laugh along to keep it going.

100%. And weak character

People try to bully you through exclusion when they're jealous of you.

They will. And its the support of the enablers and flying monkeys that push it through. No narcissist is powerful on their own.

#baiting #scaremongering #stonewalling

Why is a woman who survived abuse expected to heal quietly while the person who caused it continues publicly without consequence ?????

@CoachElizabethS They'll rewrite history even if the facts are staring them in the face, just so they can convince themselves you deserve the abuse

Narcissists know exactly what they're doing-either they're sadistic enough to enjoy your pain or so delusional and grandiose that they genuinely believe you deserved it.