Rob
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Rob
@RJReagin
Founder, Voluptas | Eroticism is the secret to an elite marriage.









Christians are the BEST at making marriage sound like the worst… “You may hate each other’s guts, but at least you’re still married! Oolololol” “Love is a CHOICE! You just gotta muscle through!” “There’s nothing more romantic than being devoted to someone you actually hold no romantic feelings for!” Essentially the current Christian message regarding marriage is to settle. That mere tired endurance is a virtue. The entire focus is “whatever you do, just don’t get divorced.” Not “Here’s how to have a marriage neither one of you will ever want to leave.” Obviously there is some stick-to-itivness that’s necessary. There’s a reason Christians who attend church at least once a week have one of the lowest divorce rates. However, Christians have become too comfortable with cringe and passivity disguised as patience. If you shame people who make sex sexy, people who are upset the spark has gone, people who want more than tolerance… and your only message is to white knuckle it… Youre not being a good witness.

“Given the scientific literature, our neurologic wiring, the millions of years of evolutionary adaptation that shaped our relationship to pair bonding, the societal and psychological benefits of monogamy, and the risk that chronic loneliness poses, I can’t imagine why we don’t celebrate romantic love more often.” @0rang3youglad makes a very strong case for centering your life around romantic love. A great, informative read for Evie Magazine: eviemagazine.com/post/the-case-…

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