@RayGonzale65296@lporiginalg Yes. It’s appreciated as well from me. Most are looking to unload instead of understand.
However, I agree, we can’t control when we fall for someone… love is risky. But it is worth it.
Not all women are worth it. But when you find the one, she’s worth everything.
This is what many men look like: deeply misogynistic, shaped by patriarchal structures and belief systems whose material consequences translate into violence against women.
#Sonder#VAW#Patriarchy#Misogyny#Feminism
@VeeVeeFreeFox@lporiginalg I will 1000000000% agree with keeping options open. and sadly most of us can not control when we fall nor are ever aware of it. It's pretty interesting how that works. Also nice chat, Twitter is generally filled with people looking to fight over crap. nice to just TALK.
@RayGonzale65296@lporiginalg lol yes the PI would be needed after the few weeks, and you’re falling for her.
But don’t fall for her just yet.
You keep your options open as well until you know she’s the one you’re going to invest time and money in.
@VeeVeeFreeFox@lporiginalg and just trust her at her word, nah I want 100% correct data, so toss a P.I on for data gathering. you are correct in being direct, it does save a ton of time. Also do women really need us to tell them this? if we are not into you we generally leave you alone.
@RayGonzale65296@lporiginalg lol noooo, ask her straight up.
When you talk to her, just ask, “are you interested in another man? Is that why?”
Be direct.
That’s super hot AF… you sound like you’re into me and want to possess me. It’s akin to some girls desire those aggressive fantasies.
@VeeVeeFreeFox@lporiginalg so besides the flowers also pay for a P.I to make sure we're the only one talking to her? because we can not trust her word that we're the only one trying to seduce her? seems like the risk all falls on men here. Makes sense, it is how nature works after all.
In her situation… I would continue the flowers and talking to her for at least a few more weeks IF she’s not talking to any other man.
However, after a few weeks of talking to her and convincing her you guys are compatible, ask her out again. If she repeats herself, then thank her for confirming and end it.
I know it sucks because it’s a game.
But life is a game. And so is courting.
@VeeVeeFreeFox@lporiginalg ...... Not giving this up are you? I have one question then, what do you think men should do to avoid being called a creep or a stalker in this context?
@RayGonzale65296@lporiginalg lol no you don’t understand.
She wanted him to seduce her!
That’s the point.
Women want to be desired.
We want to be seduced.
Men back in the day understand this.
@VeeVeeFreeFox@lporiginalg see this proves my point, if she wanted him he wouldn't have to do anything but say hello. Most of this is a blatant lie and we know this to be true.
She picked him by giving him her address to send flowers to. That takes trust.
She picked him by going on a date with him.
She tells him she doesn’t believe they’re compatible so that he could prove they are in fact compatible.
If she were to entertain other men while you court her, then I completely agree with you: don’t bother. Her desire is just to be desired.
However, if she’s only allowing you to continue seducing her and no one else, it’s a safe play to continue if he is still interested.
Men and women do not speak the same language. Her desire is to be desired—if it’s just by him, great! If it’s by everyone, then she’s a whore.
@VeeVeeFreeFox@lporiginalg no, appreciate you for attempting but no. Women PICK who they want and all other men fulfill the negative part of your "seducer" role. The guy in question took his shot, missed and respectfully moved on. she is crying about the lost attention not the lost man.
@lporiginalg I felt like she was misunderstood… or rather, she had miscommunicated her opinions.
What I believe she meant was that modern men will take no for an answer and be done with you.
However, men my age and older continue to pursue you until they have you. She’s looking for that.
@asa_ko_tko Also since I'm here
"If the soul is at peace, even in the depts of Hell one shall find comfort" generally meaning once men focus their energies outside of their wife they can deal with the lack of sex.
@DanannSpl4ces@RealPostFolder You made a super rational and loving comment. The brainwashed kids jumped on you for it. I hope the right people hear what you are saying. Real love means finding a way to love this child together. Real strength is making something beautiful out of an ugly situation.
@DanannSpl4ces@RealPostFolder holy shit we gotta adopt Islam's view on women, this is INSANE. tell me why do you think love is this strong? do you think divorce would be so rampant if love was this strong? grrrr
@RealPostFolder Horrible situation all around, however, if there was real love there, he would stay, because of her. Anything that comes from her, would also be loved. It's not the baby's fault.
@TweetHearts72@MurrayHillGuy1 you prove my point, pus YOU JUST SAID IT in your first post. also her past is my business unless its just sex then i do not care how many bodies she had.
@RayGonzale65296@MurrayHillGuy1 No one said that. You people don’t know how to DATE. You know? Take her out. Maybe drinks. Dinner. Or a hike. Bowling. A play. Not expecting anything in return but company. If you aim low, you won’t be so bitter and disappointed. Her past is not your business.
Friend is in an absolute pickle rn…
He’s been on like 7+ dates with this girl, really likes her, everything’s going great.
Then last night for whatever reason (never ask this question) he asked her body count.
70+.
Now he wants to end it immediately.
She’s 27, he’s 30.
Is this valid or is he being soft?
@MbarkCherguia He is absolutely wrong. They were just teasing and he snapped. He has to learn self control and only hit a female back under certain circumstances. The caption says they were teasing not actively showing aggression and hitting him.
🇯🇵 Japanese Prime Minister Sanae Takaichi gives opinion on mass immigration:
“Allowing population to decline would be far worse than welcoming skilled and hardworking immigrants from diverse cultures to fill our labor needs and drive innovation.
Protecting GDP growth and economic vitality is more important than clinging to outdated cultural isolation. We can solve our birth rate challenges while embracing immigration as a strength — diverse talent makes Japan stronger, more competitive, and richer. A dynamic, open Japan benefits everyone.”
Do you agree?
1. yes
2. no